There are thousands of reasons for love, and there is only one reason for not loving: I don't want to understand, I don't want to understand, not me. Liao Yimei once said, "Everyone is lonely. In our life, it is not uncommon to encounter love and heat resistance. Like means meeting mastery. " It's not unusual to meet someone who looks good and loves you, but it's precious to meet someone who knows you. The rest of my life is too expensive. I hope to meet someone who knows you so well.
There are no fairy tales in the world, but every girl has a little princess in her heart, waiting for her prince. Every boy is a prince, and for the people he loves, he gradually becomes brave and different.
What adults feel is that I understand your silence, your confusion in ridicule, your unclear expression in sadness, and your unhappiness in pretending to be happy. No need to explain, just because you know.
02. "He knows you and makes you feel kind and warm." Do you remember the classic line of Stephen Chow and Cecilia Cheung in king of comedy: "Where are you going?" "Go home." "Then what?" "Go to work." "Is it okay not to work?" "Do you support me when I'm not at work?" "I raise you." The phrase "I support you" makes many people cry now. I just want you to promise to serve me in my lifetime. I just want you to take care of me and give me the heart to work hard. "
"I like you" is an attitude, "I support you" is a guarantee. People who know you love you in the way you want and give you the happiness you want from the heart. Live your favorite daily life with you, eat one lonely meal after another with you, say a bunch of irrelevant words, and say "I know, I know, I know" affectionately.
03. "He knows you, so he deserves the rest of your life." "People will probably meet 29.2 million people in their lifetime, but the chance of getting to know each other is not 0.000049, so you don't understand me, and I don't blame you." Zhang Ailing's love letter to Hu Lancheng is only a few words: "Because I know that I am compassionate." And Hu Lancheng's reply is very simple: "Because I know, I understand." All Zhang Ailing wants is a man who understands her, her pride, the shadow left by her childhood and everything about her.
The years are long, why not find someone who understands your warmth and coldness? The world is so big and people are so congested. No matter how extreme you are, some people don't love you. No matter how good your shortcomings are, someone will love you. Find someone who knows you and spend the rest of your life together to make life easier and more leisurely. You are excellent, you don't have to lose your true self for unimportant people.