In real life, you are often strong, subjective and self-centered. If you find a person who "loves you", it may be difficult to control you, and you may go your own way after marriage and your feelings are offside. If you find a "you love", which conforms to the five principles of exuberance and exultation, then you will love and care for each other wholeheartedly and take it as happiness. But if the sun is weak, your energy field will often be relatively weak in real life, so you need to find someone who loves you to love you, care about you and enhance your energy field. Your energy field is weak because the sun is weak. If you find a "you love" to drain your energy field, you will feel very hard at first, then you will feel very painful and often lonely at last.
2. See that love comes from your favorite God.
When choosing a spouse, on the one hand, we should pay attention to the regularity of the direction, on the other hand, we should pay attention to whether we are suitable. Based on your birthplace, try to use God in your own direction (gossip the day after tomorrow) and avoid the direction of avoiding God. If the eight-character water is a favorite god, you can look for it in the north of your birthplace; Wood is a favorite god, but you can go to the east to find fate; Eight-character inflammation can go to the north to find an object; If it is cold and wet, you can find people from the south and so on.
3. try to combine yin and yang.
In the eight-character life number, the daily stem of birth represents oneself. Generally speaking, if the yin and yang attributes of men and women are one yin and one yang respectively, that is, male yin and female yang, or male yang and female yin, this can be used as an information hint of the fate of husband and wife, which is called Tao. Of course, if the female life is yin, the male life is yang, and the five elements coincide, it shows that the fate of husband and wife is stronger, that is, the female life is B, the male life is G, the female life is D, the male life is N, the female life is herself, the male life is A, the female life is Xin, the male life is C, the female life is D and the male life is E.
4. Avoid annual expenditure conflicts.
In ancient traditional culture, marriage was emphasized, and more attention was paid to avoiding the conflict between childbirth and birth, such as the conflict between children (rats) and horses, and the conflict between ugliness (cows) and ugliness (sheep). The collision of birth and year does have a great influence on the stability of marriage. But the influence of birth, month and day is more serious, and the reaction of using God is greater.
5. Choice of personality and emotion
People have their own pursuits and desires in the world, so they have formed their own character and sentiment. It is difficult for people with different personalities and sentiments to coexist for a long time. For example, virtuous people, mean people; People who love charity, people who love money as life; People who help others and those who benefit others at the expense of others; Active people and quiet people; People who fly high and steady, and so on. In marriage, there are many marriages because personality and sentiment are mutually exclusive. Therefore, it can be seen that the same personality and sentiment are important factors for a stable marriage. The characteristics of people's character and sentiment are clearly marked in the eight characters. People who have a balance between eight characters and official stars are generally highly cultivated. People who are balanced in the eight characters are mostly people with profound knowledge and rich wealth; Most of them are people with profound knowledge and love of charity; Most of them are people who change their minds; Most of them are people with strange thinking and behavior; Weak officials kill kings, mostly people who sow discord between right and wrong; Weak body, eating injuries and killing officials, mostly arrogant people; Weak body, wealth makes a strong official, and most of them are people who love money and commit official disasters. When choosing a spouse, try to seek a bosom friend according to your own desire for survival, otherwise it will lead to lifelong discord between husband and wife and break up halfway.
6. The law of fate is basically the same.
In a harmonious marriage, the fate of both parties is basically the same. If the fates of the two sides are opposite, it is likely to end when they are unfavorable to each other in the years to come. For example, one party has to take money in the annual transportation, and the other party loses money in the annual transportation; On the one hand, the Universiade has a sign that the spouse is sick and injured, and on the other hand, it has a sign that there is no disease or disaster in the Universiade. To see the success or failure of marriage, it is necessary to analyze whether the original eight-character game and the Universiade law of both sides are consistent.