Many young friends encounter some difficulties in marriage and love, and they don't know how to choose, but they all have a common desire, that is, they hope that the other person has the same interests and their marriage life is happy.
Then how can we realize our good wishes?
On the one hand, we should choose from reality. Such as the image temperament, moral sentiment, cultural connotation, knowledge and ability, working conditions, economic base, family background, etc. These are the basic elements related to the future happiness of marriage.
However, reality often backfires. Even if the above standards are met, it is still difficult to get along with each other, and there will still be many unexpected contradictions. These contradictions became more and more serious and finally we had to break up. Why is this?
In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, the two sides have different personalities, tempers and positions.
Personality and temper are mainly congenital, that is, mainly genetic factors, of course, some of them are acquired, but most of them are hereditary. However, the position mainly focuses on acquired learning and edification, which is also influenced by congenital genetic factors, and the two are interrelated. It can be seen that personality and temper are important factors to determine whether a couple is happy or not.
In marriage, not two people with good temper can live in harmony, nor are two people with bad temper bound to fall apart. It depends on whether two people hit it off.
Observing a person's temper can be analyzed from the aspects of appearance, speech, behavior, etc., and can also be analyzed from the aspects of zodiac and horoscope. Because the zodiac shows that a person inherits the environmental impact of the year of birth, more specifically, it is the environmental impact of the year, month and day (date of birth). The environmental impact of this space-time is based on the interaction of some five elements in the gas field. Zodiacs in different years have different personalities and tempers because of the different gas fields of the five elements. The date of birth is difficult to understand, but the zodiac is well known. The zodiac is the basis of marriage, so sometimes it is of great reference value to choose a suitable spouse from the zodiac.
Because the five elements inherited by each zodiac are different, they meet, support each other, or collide, harm each other and punish each other (this point has been discussed in detail in another article "Which Zodiac Marriages Are Unhappy"), so when they get along or combine together, they will love each other or be incompatible with each other, resulting in great differences in their marriage life. Today we will discuss which zodiac signs are the happiest.
Broadly speaking, friends, lovers and couples are still relatively happy in a combination of coincidence, mutual development and mutual help.
The so-called combination of genera mainly refers to the "three combinations" between genera, and sometimes some of them are better and within the appropriate scope.
Refers to the combination of five elements between six pairs of Chinese zodiac, such as:
The mouse and the ugly cow are combined (turned into soil),
The vulva and Haizhu merge (into wood),
The rabbit and the dog are together (on fire).
Dragon and phoenix (gold),
The combination of snake and monkey (water),
The afternoon horse merges with the sheep.
This combination of ""is actually the fusion of two five-element gas fields. Because the five elements of gas field blend together, they can be merged into another common gas field, which is mostly manifested in personality, temper and position, so they get along very tacitly and beautifully, which is called the first-class marriage in marriage.
Trinity refers to four groups of games composed of three genera, such as:
Trinity of Shen (monkey), Zi (mouse) and Chen (dragon) (Water Bureau),
Hai (pig) Mao (rabbit) Wei (sheep) Sanlian (wood bureau),
Yin (tiger) afternoon (horse) (dog) triad (fire bureau),
Three in one (snake), one (chicken), one (cow) (golden bureau).
This "trinity" combination is similar to the "trinity", but the gas field is slightly weaker, and it is also very tacit and beautiful to get along with, which can be called the first-class marriage in marriage.
This trinity is not necessarily composed of three zodiac signs. If two of them are occupied by lovers or lovers, they are considered as a combination, which is called "semi-combination". But it is divided into three forms: semi-combination, semi-combination and separation. Semi-combination of radix rehmanniae and semi-combination of radix rehmanniae are relatively strong; Half-marriage is more about harmony, followed by strength, and the difference is even further. The middle needs media, and the strength is stronger (but if the children born after marriage happen to make up the middle zodiac, it will become a bridge and link between the two, forming an actual triad, and they will become happy). For example:
Half of the land is:
"(monkey) son (mouse) half closed,
Hairs (pigs) and rabbits are semi-closed,
Yin (tiger) noon (horse) half closed,
It is half (snake) and half (chicken).
Semi-closed:
The son (mouse), Chen (dragon) are half closed,
The wool (rabbit) is not (sheep) semi-closed,
At noon (horse) and (dog),
The ugly (chicken) and the ugly (cow) are half-matched.
Separation mode:
Shen (monkey) and Chen (dragon) are half closed,
The sea (pig) is not semi-closed (sheep),
Yin (tiger) and half (dog),
It is half (snake) and half (chicken).
Of course, the greater the intensity, the more auspicious.
In addition, some interrelated combinations are also beneficial to marriage. The so-called symbiosis also refers to the symbiosis between the five elements, such as wood fire, fire born soil, native gold, gold born water and aquatic wood, and so on. For example, the five elements belong to wood, which can help the five elements belong to fire; The five elements belong to fire and can be born in the ground; The five elements belong to soil and gold; If the five elements belong to gold, they can be born to support the five elements belong to water and the five elements belong to water, thus regenerating the five elements to belong to wood.
How are the five elements of the zodiac classified?
Children (mice) and pigs belong to water,
Yin (tiger) hair (rabbit) belongs to wood,
The fourth (snake) noon (horse) belongs to fire,
Shen (monkey) unitary (chicken) belongs to gold,
Ugly (ox) Chen (dragon) Wei (sheep) dogs belong to soil, in which ugly Chen is wet soil, but fire does not dry soil.
If you don't match his zodiac sign, but you match each other, it is also a marriage between China and Kyrgyzstan. But in the above aspects, there is a pair that needs attention, that is, mice and rabbits. Although born with five elements, they all belong to the category of mutual punishment, so it is more complicated to distinguish them. If you encounter this situation, you have to carefully check the date of birth of the two people and make a comprehensive analysis to judge whether it is appropriate.
These "combinations" and "combinations" mentioned above will be more perfect and icing on the cake if they are combined with natural combinations.
Tiangan's "five combinations" refer to: Jiaxu, Yigeng, Bingxin, Dingren and Wuxue.
For example, Chen (Dragon) and Youyou Chicken are originally zodiac signs. If it happens that the man is Chen Bing (1976) and the woman is with a heart (198 1), the weather is dry and the land is harmonious, which constitutes the so-called "match between the dragon and the phoenix" and is good luck in marriage.
But this harmony is difficult to match, because some ages are too different. Take ten-year-olds born in the 1970s and 1980s as an example, for example:
Jiayin (1974 Tiger)+Jihai (1959 Pig),
Mao Yi (1975 rabbit)+Geng Xu (1970 dog),
Chen Bing (1976 dragon)+XinYou (198 1 chicken),
Ding Si (1977 snake)+Ren Shen (1992 monkey),
Wuwu (1978 horse)+Guiwei (2003 sheep),
Is there (1979 sheep)+Wu Jia (1954 horses),
Geng Shen (1980 monkey)+Yi Si (1965 snake),
Heart has (198 1 chicken)+ice Chen (1976 dragon),
Ren Xu (1982 dog)+ding Mao (1987 rabbit),
Guihai (1983 pig)+wuyin (1998 tiger).
Among the above zodiac signs, the smallest difference is 5 years, and the largest difference is 25 years. Although some zodiac signs are harmonious, there are great obstacles in real marriage. In the realistic concept of marriage, the age difference of 10 or under 20 can still be considered, but it is difficult for parents to accept the age difference of over 20.
Having said that, I still have some regrets. Although the marriage of the zodiac is the basis of marriage, it is only a word in the eight-character branch, which is broad and general, not detailed enough, and has its limitations. This is why some lovers who get along well still break up and divorce, so it is not surprising that some people doubt the practicality of zodiac marriage.
The eight-character marriage is a restraint between birthdates branches, so its reference value is far greater than that of the zodiac marriage, and its accuracy and practicability are far higher than that of the zodiac marriage. However, it is too professional to understand, and experts must be asked to help solve it. The operation is relatively difficult and it is difficult to popularize. Therefore, it is still valuable to refer to your own marriage events with the help of the zodiac marriage.
Finally, it needs to be emphasized that any marriage only shows some information of innate destiny, and it is not 100% accurate. It also needs to be combined with the efforts of the day after tomorrow and the actual situation, for reference only, not.
Men and women? The two golden couples are hard bones, women and men, fighting day and night, each with his own heart and eyes.
A man or a woman? Jin Mu and his wife were not together for many years. They quarreled and cried all day, resulting in both sides losing their lives, and their half-life marriage was widowed.
Men and women? Water and gold couples sit in the high hall, rich and jubilant, their children are healthy, and they are all smart.
Both men and women are hot? If you don't get married, you will be poor if you get married. If you don't have children, your family will be ruined, and the golden fire will harm the core monuments of life.
Men and women? Golden soil couples have a good marriage, food and clothing are not worrying about nature, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous and rich, which is a blessing for thousands of years.
Gold for men and women? Husband and wife should get along well. Money and livestock are all over the mountain villa, and the name of raising children for old age is Mu Huang Jingui.
Men and women? Shuang Mu's husband and wife are difficult to get along with. No matter how much money they have, it turns out that two trees are more harmful, and disasters and madness are more frequent.
Men and women? Men and women are prosperous in water transport, and wealth at home often enters the room. They are often as precious as mountains, and their children are born in blue.
Men and women fire? Wood fire couples are lucky, this door is destined for a good marriage, six livestock slaves are full of rows, and men and women are smart and happy.
Men and women? Civil couples are not suitable for this, and they are scattered and lonely all their lives because of disasters and diseases.
Men and women? Jinshui husband and wife are rich, money has accumulated for a hundred years, marriage is harmonious, and Wocangtian House has a long life.
Men and women? Shui Mu's husband and wife have a happy marriage, precious wealth, and wealth. Mazhu River is full of courtyards, and men and women are just right.
Men and women? Liangshui's couple are happy, their children are smart and rich, their marriage is happy, and Man Cang's property is good.
Men and women? Fire and water are incompatible, eating at home, sleeping outside, because of mutual harm, half-life marriage, half-life sorrow.
Men and women? Shuitu and his wife soon lived, met the king in 3695, and were sad that they had married Buick in other places.
Male fire female gold? The Golden Fire couple are six relatives, and I don't know where the penalty yuan is. Being stable is unfilial, leaving you alone, and being poor will harm your children and grandchildren.
Male fire female wood? Mr. and Mrs. Huo have a happy marriage, filial children and grandchildren, rich family, rich livestock and a prosperous life.
Male fire female water? Although the husband and wife love each other, their marriage is not deep, their children are rich, and they will still be lonely when they are old.
Male fire female fire? The husband and wife of the two fires are worried day and night, their wives and children are in tears, life is incompatible, and they are lonely in the spring and autumn.
Men and women? Fire-earth couples match well, and the wind is in front of them. When they are together, there is no harm, and their children will always be smart and prosperous.
Male soil female gold? Jintu and his wife got married. They loved each other for a hundred years. Their house was safe and their daughter was reunited.
Men and women? Civil engineering couples have different opinions, ruthless opposition, food but no children, and half-life marriage has no money.
Boys and girls? Water and soil couples will have beasts, and when they get home, they will be in trouble, and their wives and children will be separated, and their wealth will not be at home.
Male soil female fire? This is a good opportunity for a married couple to grow up. They can live a long life without worrying about wealth, have smart children and be healthy and prosperous.
Men and women? The husband and wife of the two countries have a happy marriage, live happily together, have smart and rich children, and have a rich and beautiful family.
Male fire female water? Although the husband and wife love each other, their marriage is not deep, their children are rich, and they will still be lonely when they are old.
Male fire female fire? The husband and wife of the two fires are worried day and night, their wives and children are in tears, life is incompatible, and they are lonely in the spring and autumn.
Men and women? Fire-earth couples match well, and the wind is in front of them. When they are together, there is no harm, and their children will always be smart and prosperous.
Year eight-character zodiac comparison table
1924 jiazijin (rat)
1925 ebony (cattle)
1926 bingyin is a fire (tiger)
1927 dingmao (rabbit)
1928 Chen Wu genus (dragon)
1929 has always been a tree (snake)
1930 Wu Geng (horse)
193 1 years ago, xinwei belonged to the soil (sheep)
1932 Renshen Metal (Monkey)
1933 Gui You metal (chicken)
1934 add qu huo (dog)
1935 yihaihuo (pig)
1936 propyl water (rat)
1937 Dictyophora water (cattle)
1938 Xu Yin genus soil (tiger)
1939 foundation soil (rabbit)
1940 Chen Geng gold (dragon)
194 1 year-old Xin is already a gold (snake)
1942 Malus (horse)
1943 Cinnamomum (sheep)
1944 Shen Jia water (monkey)
1945 Yiyoushui (chicken)
1946 Xu Bing soil (dog)
1947 dinghai soil (pig)
1948 fire (rat) of Wuzi
1949 Ugly, belonging to fire (cattle)
1950 wood (tiger)
195 1 year-old Simao (rabbit)
1952 Renchen belongs to water (dragon)
1953 ground water (snake)
1954 Wu Jia gold (horse)
1955 B is gold (sheep)
1956 Shen Bing fire (monkey)
1957 Dingyou fire (chicken)
1958 Wu Xumu (dog)
1959 belongs to wood (pig)
1960 boxer soil (rat)
196 1 year-old is ugly soil (cattle)
1962 Nonyin metal (tiger)
1963 Guimao Metal (Rabbit)
1964 Chen Jia is a fire (dragon)
1965 Ye Si fire (snake)
1966 belongs to water (horse)
1967 Ding Wei belongs to water (sheep)
1968 Wushen soil (monkey)
1969 Ji You soil (chicken)
1970 Geng Xu gold (dog)
197 1 year Xinhai gold (pig)
1972 Ranunculus (Rat)
1973 capers (cattle)
1974 Jiayin water (tiger)
1975 Rabdosia belongs to water (rabbit)
1976 Chen Bing (dragon)
1977 Tetragenus soil (snake)
1978 Wuwu is a fire (horse)
1979 No more fire (sheep)
1980 Genus Gengshen (Monkey)
198 1 year-old (chicken)
1982 water (dog)
1983 Guihai water (pig)
1984 jiazijin (rat)
1985 ebony (cattle)
1986 bingyin is a fire (tiger)
1987 dingmao (rabbit)
1988 Chen Wu genus (dragon)
1989 already belongs to wood (snake)
1990 Gengwu genus soil (horse)
199 1 year, xinwei belongs to soil (sheep)
1992 Renshen Metal (Monkey)
1993 Gui You metal (chicken)
1994 add qu huo (dog)
1995 yihaihuo (pig)
1996 propyl water (rat)
The above is about the super-standard ancient eight-character marriage table, which is about the sharing of eight-character pairing. Read the most accurate chart of marriage between men and women, I hope this will help everyone!