In recent years, more and more older women have appeared around us. Why have these people, who have already exceeded the normal marriage age, still not found their right husband? In fact, it's not that they don't want to get married, or that their own conditions are not good, but that their standards for choosing a husband are too high.
In their view, an ideal prince charming should be both handsome and tall; talented and rich; highly educated and wealthy. position.... In short, they think that their ideal person should be the most perfect person in the world. However, in this world, it is really difficult to find the kind of perfect person they hope for. Therefore, these young women who are unwilling to give up the perfect conditions can only keep searching hard. During the entire search process, they have to endure both inner troubles and social pressure.
The source of trouble for these older women is not that they want to find a husband, but that they set the standard of a husband too high. And the higher the standard is set, the fewer people will be able to meet it. The ideal standard can only exist in the ideal. If we use the ideal standard to choose the right man in real life, there will be no such person in the world. This is true for choosing a "consort", so why not be the same for doing other things?
In order to get rid of the troubles caused by "highbrow", we must change the criteria for selecting goals, that is, change the ideal standards into realistic standards. For this reason, we give you an eight-character secret: "As long as you are satisfied, it doesn't have to be the best." When you are trapped by troubles, just recite these eight characters silently several times, and you will soon return to the ideal world. Come to the real world.
Standards are a direction for finding goals, or a criterion for measuring goals. Changing the standards is equivalent to changing the expected goals. This is just like using a sieve to sift flour. The sieve holes have different sizes, and the thickness of the flour sifted out will also be different. "As long as you are satisfied, not necessarily the best" is a standard for selecting goals, which we can call "satisfaction standard" here.