1, parents may be divorced, or parents often quarrel.
2. Fear of marriage may have been seriously hurt in love.
3. Fear of getting married due to economic pressure.
4. The biggest reason for fear of marriage is fear, fear of failure and fear of the unknown future. People who are afraid of the failure of marriage and the future are even more afraid that once problems arise, they can't cope with them.
Second, the solution to fear marriage.
1. How to deal with the injury caused by family background? When your parents always quarrel seriously, you must say to yourself, "I must learn to control my emotions, I can't be like them." If your parents always quarrel about the opposite sex, then you must tell yourself that you must be single-minded about your feelings in the future. In a word, you should learn from your parents' failed marriage, so that you won't make the same mistake again. In addition to learning lessons, spend more time with those who are happily married and look at those who are happily married and role models, so that you can slowly get out of the shadows. After all, I'm not a parent and I won't make the same mistake again. I must learn to give myself confidence.
2. Because I was badly hurt in my last relationship, I was extremely distrustful of the opposite sex and completely lost my trust in the opposite sex. We should face this situation positively, don't immerse ourselves in sadness, and learn to adjust ourselves or enter the next relationship.
3. Not only big cities like Beishangguang are facing the problem of housing prices. Even in some second-and third-tier cities, house prices have risen particularly sharply. Being unable to afford a house is a big problem in marriage. In addition, having children, raising children and supporting parents after marriage has brought great pressure to young people, making them afraid to get married. In order to solve this problem, in addition to trying to make money, there is another way to talk to each other about this problem at the beginning of your love, asking each other's views on material conditions, what is the bottom line of both families and so on. You know, parents and family have a great influence on our marriage, so we should put this issue on the table at the beginning, and finally both sides must reach the same or similar values.