What is the role of family tradition and family training?

Question 1: What does family tradition and family motto mean? Family tradition refers to the traditional customs of a family or family. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute family tradition. As the name suggests, family tradition is the atmosphere, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and family training form the family's public behavior habits, it constitutes family tradition, which is also the family culture of a family or a family. Genealogy is a tool that carries family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation of tool that carries family culture.

Family rules refer to the behavioral norms stipulated by a family. They are generally the rules inherited by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law. The so-called "state has national laws, and families have family rules" means that a country has its own laws, and every family has its own rules; the rules of this family are equivalent to the laws of the country. Mencius said: "Without rules, there is no square or circle." If a family wants to prosper, it must know how to behave and follow rules. Family members who violate family rules will be punished just like citizens who violate the law.

Ten New House Rules for Good Children

Speak respectfully to your parents

Use a friendly tone.

Do what you can do by yourself

Don’t cause trouble to your parents

Tell your parents when you go to school

Goodbye

When I get home from school, I have to tell my parents

“

I’m back.

When I leave home, I have to tell my parents that I’m back. Say hello to your parents, tell them where you are going, what you are doing, and when you will be back.

Wait for your parents when eating. The whole family eats together, sitting upright and respectfully.

Pour tea for your parents when they get home and let them have a good rest.

Remember your parents’ birthdays. Congratulate your parents every time and do something to make them happy.

8. Say hello to your parents when they are not feeling well, and bring them water and medicine when they are sick.

Do not compare with classmates who are better off in terms of life, and do not set excessive material demands on your parents.

10.

Complete homework seriously, and try your best to help parents with housework

President Obama gave himself two children under

10 years old

My daughter has established several family rules:

There should be no unreasonable complaints, quarrels or annoying teasing.

< p> . Make the bed, not just to look tidy.

3. Do your own things, such as making your own cereal or pouring milk, folding your own quilts, and setting up your own bed. Alarm clock, get up and get dressed yourself

< p> , help parents share housework,

US dollars per week

, every birthday or Christmas. , no luxurious gifts and gorgeous parties

points

Turn off the lights on time

Arrange a fulfilling after-school life:

Ma. Leah dances,

rehearses plays,

plays the piano,

plays tennis,

plays rugby

;

Sasha does gymnastics,

plays piano, tennis, and tap dances.

. Star chasing is not allowed.

Obama’s family rules may seem simple,

trivial,

but extremely operational,

each one contains profound meanings ,

reflects the good intentions of a

father. He hopes that through these family rules, his daughter will be raised to be self-reliant, educated, responsible, reasonable,

love to work,

not vain,

A person who lives a regular life.

Such people are popular everywhere,

are also the ones closest to success.

As an employee, they will be responsible and capable people. An excellent employee who is hard-working and trustworthy, and a boss who is law-abiding, smart, capable and reasonable.

As the saying goes, habits become natural.

Obama’s family rules start with cultivating habits.

A child is a blank piece of paper.

Teach him whatever he wants.

Learn whatever he wants.

Cultivate him into good habits. It benefited him throughout his life.

Obama’s family rules,

are no better than other family rules,

and there are no signs of

cultivating gifted children,

But every one of his family rules revolves around how to let children develop good habits.

For example,

Article 2

The bed must be made, not just to look tidy

, is to cultivate the habit of seriousness in children,

In the world

fear is the word "seriousness"

”

With serious habits,

there is nothing that cannot be done well.

Another example is Article 6

“

Every birthday or

Christmas, there are no luxurious gifts and gorgeous parties

”

, in order to cultivate the habit of frugal life in children. Obama himself

grew up in a difficult environment.

He knows that if a person has the habit of living a frugal life,

no matter how difficult it is,

Survive,

gain a foothold, and

develop in any living environment.

As a civilian president,

I may not be able to leave much material

wealth to my children, but the habit of living a frugal life that I have deliberately cultivated since childhood is to leave. .....>>

Question 2: What role does family tradition and family precepts play in contemporary socialist values? Cultivating and practicing socialist core values ??is a long-term and arduous systematic project, which requires starting from an early age. To grasp it, we need to broaden the channels and approaches and enrich the carrier so that people can receive education in a subtle way and consciously practice it. As an important form of inheritance of Chinese traditional culture, family tradition contains rich contents of moral quality education and value cultivation. It should become an important carrier to carry the propaganda and education of socialist core values ??and promote their practice.

1. Family tradition is the carrier of traditional cultural inheritance, and it is also an important carrier of socialist values ????propaganda and education

Simply put, the family’s lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute the family tradition . Family tradition is the atmosphere, style and fashion of a family. As the most basic way of traditional moral education, the most basic requirement of family education is self-cultivation, and such goal requirements are not simply indoctrination, but also the edification and infection of people through moral and cultural forms including family tradition. China’s excellent traditional culture has accumulated the deepest spiritual pursuit of the Han nation, contains the most fundamental spiritual genes of the Han nation, represents the unique spiritual identity of the Han nation, and is a rich source of nourishment for the Han nation’s endless growth and development. The reason why Chinese traditional culture plays such a powerful role is not only because of its rich spiritual connotation and value pursuit, but also because Han culture has achieved the unity of nationality and popularization, especially at the level of values, and has achieved the unity of family, country and world. The so-called self-cultivation, family management, country governance, and world peace. Of course, family education, which has been inherited from feudal society for more than two thousand years, is very rich in content. It includes not only the most basic requirements for self-cultivation, but also the continuation of social moral norms and the inheritance of mainstream values. There are both positive factors and negative influences. , need to criticize inheritance. Although feudal society has been over for more than 100 years, the role of family tradition in inheriting moral culture has not and cannot be eliminated with the gradual disappearance of feudal culture. Instead, it should be updated with the prosperity and development of socialist culture to inherit new culture and carry forward Socialist morality is an important carrier for promoting and transmitting socialist core values. In fact, most families in China are actually influenced by Confucian culture, that is, thrift, frugality, studiousness, and advancement... These constitute the basic content of family tradition. The connotation of poetry, etiquette and inheritance in traditional Chinese family education will change with the times, but the core values ??will not change. Society is changing, and family tradition is also advancing with the times, becoming more open, free, healthy, and progressive. In a modern society that has been divided into small family units, promoting good traditional family traditions and tutoring can subtly convey social norms, and social atmosphere will naturally be improved.

2. The advantages of family tradition as an important carrier for cultivating and practicing core values

Using family tradition as a carrier to cultivate and practice socialist core values ??has the following advantages: First, it It can overcome the shortcomings of "seeing theory but not people" in values ??education, truly taking people in real life as the foundation, and taking the cultivation of their personality and moral quality as the starting point, making it easy for them to receive education through edification and infection, causing *** Ming. Secondly, using family tradition as a carrier to cultivate and practice socialist core values ??can make values ??education vivid, infectious and inspiring. Although we have seen that some families have problems with unhealthy family traditions, the vast majority of families have inherited the excellent family virtues and formed positive family customs, especially those with down-to-earth and contagious personalities. Family training has become an important spiritual food for the growth and development of children, family harmony, and neighborhood solidarity and mutual assistance. The core values ????permeating society in such a family tradition are naturally very contagious, friendly, and inspiring. Finally, cultivating and practicing socialist core values ??using family tradition as a carrier can effectively overcome the "disconnect" problem in value understanding and education and achieve its continuity and persistence. On the one hand, in recent years, in the process of promoting the popularization of the socialist core value system, we have occasionally seen deviations in understanding the content of the core values ??and separating the socialist core values ??from traditional values, which is not conducive to publicity and education. On the other hand, we see that in real family education, there are often considerable differences in some values ??between grandparents, parents and children. This is objectively inevitable, but the existence of this situation also brings Mutual incomprehension and even fierce conflicts, especially for the young generation, the existence of phenomena such as indifference in family responsibilities and gnawing at the elderly, cannot but be said to have a certain relationship with the weakening of the appeal of family tradition and education. Therefore, by highlighting the important status and role of family tradition and using it as an important carrier and channel for core values ??education, it can enhance understanding between different generations and provide an important foundation for the cultivation and practice of social core values.

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Question 3: What does family motto mean? What is family motto? It refers to the instruction given to children and grandchildren on how to conduct themselves in society, manage their families, and manage their careers.

Family motto is an important part of traditional Chinese culture and an important part of the family tree. It plays an important role in personal self-cultivation and family management in Chinese history.

In ancient times, human society has experienced changes in clans, families, and families. However, these are the cornerstones of a country.

When the country is unstable and national laws are unclear, family mottos can exert the power to stabilize social order. Because, in order to maintain the necessary legal system, families formulate certain behavioral norms to restrain family members. This is the earliest origin of family law and family motto.

Since the early Han Dynasty, family motto writings have become more and more colorful with the evolution of dynasties. The family tree records many famous aphorisms about managing a family and educating children, which have become a good strategy for managing a family that people admire and a model for "cultivation" and "keeping the family in order". For example, the idea of ??frugal housekeeping that "every porridge and meal should be remembered as hard-earned" still seems to have positive significance today. There are many detailed records of family mottos and rules in family genealogies for future generations to follow. Among them, the most praised famous mottos, such as the Yan family motto and Zhu Xi's family motto, are still popular today.

The reason why family mottos are valued by the world is because their main purpose is to promote loyalty, filial piety, justice, and teach etiquette and integrity. In addition, what is promoted and what is prohibited are also important contents in clan rules and family laws, such as: "Frugality should be respected", "Evil witches should be banned", etc.

Family tradition refers to the traditional customs of a family or family. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute family tradition. As the name suggests, family tradition is the atmosphere, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and family training form the family's public behavior habits, it constitutes family tradition, which is also the family culture of a family or a family. Genealogy is a tool that carries family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation of tool that carries family culture.

Question 4: What are the meanings of family tradition and family motto? Family tradition is a family cultural style that is passed down from generation to generation and embodies the spiritual outlook, moral quality, aesthetic style and overall temperament of family members. The formation of family tradition is often that a certain person in a family chain is outstanding and popular and is admired and admired by other members of the family. His good deeds and words become the source of family tradition, and then through the relay of family descendants from generation to generation. Adhering to the ancestral precepts and continuing the tradition from generation to generation form a distinct moral and aesthetic style of the family.

Family tradition is crucial to the inheritance of the family. Without a strong family tradition, it is impossible to keep a family from falling apart, let alone to prevent it from falling apart. Only a family with a sense of identity can be cohesive. This sense of identity obviously cannot be family property, because the property is often divided up and eventually exhausted. There is only one thing that can be shared by all members of the family. Not only will it not decrease, but it will increase in value. ——That is the "family tradition" that makes all family members proud. Family tradition is an essential element for an influential and reputable family, and it is also the core value of a family.

Family tradition is often reflected in the family training and family rules set by virtuous ancestors. These family training and family rules have many names in China: "family rules", "family rules", "family training", etc. If it can be summed up in one word, it is "tutoring". Intangible family tradition must rely on tangible family education to be passed on and carried forward.

Family motto refers to the instruction given to children and grandchildren on how to conduct themselves in society and manage their family and business.

In short, every family has different family rules and mottos. The more common ones in family trees generally include the following contents:

1. Pay attention to family and national laws

2. Harmony between clan and village

3. Filial piety to parents , Respect elders

4. Comply with etiquette and correct names

5. Procedures for ancestor worship and tomb sacrifices

6. Cultivate oneself and manage the family

Example:

Quotes from "Zeng Guofan's Family Instructions"

Eight characters: Brothers, nephews, and nephews in the family should only remember the eight characters of their grandfather, which are: Kao, Bao, Zao, Sao, Shu, Vegetable , fish, pig.

Eight books: There are eight books in Yu diary book, saying: Reading is based on exegesis, writing poetry is based on tone, doing things for relatives is based on pleasing people, keeping in good health is based on avoiding anger. The basis for standing up is not to lie, the basis for staying at home is not to be embarrassed, the basis for being an official is not to need money, the basis for marching is not to disturb the people. These eight books are all based on my experience and I have firmly grasped them. I should also teach my disciples and nephews to remember them carefully. No matter whether the world is in chaos or whether the family is rich or poor, as long as they can abide by Xinggang Gong's eight characters and the remaining eight books, they will always be able to keep them. It can be regarded as a high-class family.

Twelve styles of self-cultivation:

1. Main respect: neat and serious, never careless. When there is nothing to do, the mind is in the cavity; when there is something to do, it is focused and undivided, like the rising sun.

2. ***: No matter what time of the day, *** for half an hour, experience the benevolence of tranquility that generates yang and come back, and stay in the right position to condense your life, like the town of a tripod.

3. Get up early: Get up at dawn, and don’t fall in love after waking up.

4. Read books carefully: Don’t read other books until you have finished reading one book, read here and there, just follow the outside world, and take ten leaves as a guide every day.

5. Reading history: Bing purchased twenty-three histories and read ten leaves every day, even if something happened, he would not stop.

6. A word of caution: Paying attention at all times is the first priority.

7. Nourishing Qi: Qi is stored in the Dantian, and there is nothing that cannot be said to others.

8. Preserve yourself: save labor, abstain from food and drink, and always take care of your health.

9. You will know your death every day: write down a story over tea every day. It is divided into moral gate, cultural gate, economic gate and art gate.

10. Don’t forget what you can do every month: compose several poems every month to test how much you have accumulated and whether you have nourished your Qi.

11. Writing: Write for half an hour after breakfast. Treat all writing and ink writing as your own homework, and do not leave it for tomorrow. The more it accumulates, the harder it will be to clear it up.

12. Not going out at night: too exhausted from work, so careful to abstain... >>

Question 5: Family education, family tradition, and family motto in ancient rituals. What is the role of a family? Tutoring, family tradition, family motto

It is like a cohesive force that can unite the family

Otherwise, it is like a plate of loose sand

Sooner or later, the family fortune will fall.

Question 6: What is the significance of cultivating and inheriting good family traditions? Currently, some outstanding problems that need to be solved in the ideological and moral field in our country are directly related to the insufficient attention to family traditions. Reiterating family tradition today has captured the focus of public social attention and the core of Chinese culture, and has strong practical relevance.

Since CCTV launched the Family Style Interview

, family style has become an important topic that people discuss after dinner. What is the family tradition? Family tradition belongs to the category of morality and is the inheritance of the excellent moral qualities of the Chinese nation in the family. The family is an important cell of society. Only when the family tradition is good will the social atmosphere be good, and the country will be harmonious and stable. Every family should take socialist core values ??as its content and actively cultivate and inherit good family traditions.

To cultivate and inherit a good family tradition, we need to have good family rules to regulate it. As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. The same goes for families. Family rules are mainly expressed in the form of family mottos, which are written or spoken by the elders in the family, setting forth normative requirements for the moral behavior of family members, and serving as a kind of observance passed down from generation to generation.

For example, the famous "Zhu Zhi Family Instructions", "Yan Family Instructions", "Zeng Guo Pan Family Instructions", etc. are still highly respected and widely circulated today. With the development of society to this day, all families with certain cultural accomplishments should encourage their elders to set family mottos for future generations in written form. Family mottos can be simple or complex, and should be adapted to family conditions.

Jane means paying attention to a certain aspect of family tradition. For example, the elders of "Cangzhou Good Man" and Liu Fuxing, a retired cadre of the Huanghua City Procuratorate, left behind a family motto of "don't repay kindness, save people without leaving a name", which has been passed down through education for several generations. Traditional

It puts forward various requirements for the younger generation, involving ideals and beliefs, self-cultivation, honesty and trustworthiness, thrift and housekeeping, generosity to others, respecting the elderly and caring for the young, and helping others. With family precepts, there are people who follow them. The elders use them as educational content, and the younger generations use them as behavioral constraints. A good family tradition will be continuously passed down.

Cultivating and inheriting a good family tradition requires the guidance of a good tutor. Only by focusing on family tradition education can family virtues and social morality be absorbed into the minds and hearts of family members and become conscious actions. The elders in the family should shoulder the responsibility of family education. The form of education is eclectic. You can use holidays, especially when the whole family gets together during the Spring Festival, to hold a family meeting to explain to the whole family how to behave and do things, and how to be a moral model; you can use reasoning to reason, Regarding what happened to the family or a certain member, explain clearly what should be done or what should not be done, and draw experiences or lessons from it; sometimes you can also use some things that happen in society to express your opinions and teach younger generations what they should learn from them. , comprehend something. Family education should be regular and timely, and should be highly targeted and appropriate for family members.

Cultivating and passing on a good family tradition requires good parental behavior to demonstrate. Family is everyone's first school and a lifelong school. Everyone learns to be a good person and do things, mostly starting from learning the behavior of their parents. As the head of the family, you should first be a practitioner of good family rules and set an example for the younger generation with your own good moral behavior. Only in this way can you be qualified to educate the next generation, and the next generation can be subtly influenced by good family traditions. Every parent should strictly demand themselves. Whatever they ask their juniors to do, they must do it first; whatever they ask their juniors not to do, they must first not do it. Democracy must also be promoted in the family. If the elders do something that is unethical, the younger generations must be allowed to criticize. This is a warning to themselves and an experience for the younger generations to distinguish right from wrong. A good family tradition requires democracy, and only with democracy can we have a good family tradition.

Cultivating and inheriting a good family tradition requires the organizational guidance of the party committee and the ***. Paying attention to the construction of family tradition means attaching importance to the construction of social customs and folk customs. Party committees and governments at all levels should regard the construction of family tradition as an important position for cultivating and practicing socialist core values. It is necessary to publicize the importance, main contents and practices of family tradition building through media publicity, parent schools, and experience exchanges. Through the selection of five good families, good daughter-in-law, good mother-in-law, model of respecting the elderly, etc., we must set a learning example, promote good family tradition, and promote the construction of family tradition. It is necessary to mobilize party members and cadres to take the lead in improving family tradition, lead by example, set an example, inspire the masses, and lead new social trends by focusing on moral conduct, upright family tradition, and setting an example.

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Question 7: What are the family rules, training and traditions? Family tradition, family rules and family motto

1. Family tradition is the tradition, norms and customs of the family. The old refers to the moral principles and methods of life passed down from generation to generation by a family or a clan.

Family tradition is the words and deeds of the upper generation to the next generation, and it is the influence of one's own actions on the next generation.

Be diligent, filial, friendly, tolerant, willing, and law-abiding.

Be diligent and thrifty in running the household and live in harmony.

Filial piety, respect, kindness, diligence and frugality.

2. Family rules are the behavioral norms imposed by ancestors on family members. It is generally the education and norms inherited from a family.

The standards for future generations are also called family laws.

. Do what you can do independently. Don't be careless and don't rely on your parents.

Don't delay without reason. .

Eat well and eat well to ensure comprehensive nutrition. Do not be picky or anorexic or eat less.

, Keep reading

hours every day. We must insist on previewing carefully before class, listening carefully in class, taking detailed notes, and reviewing carefully after class to complete the learning tasks of each subject. 4

. Strengthen physical exercise and enhance physical fitness. The amount of exercise should not be less than one hour a day (the amount of exercise can be increased appropriately during winter and summer vacations).

Don’t be lazy, don’t be casual, and don’t just do what you like. sports.

Family dining should abide by family rules, eat in a proper manner, sit in a proper manner, treat guests politely, and do not ignore parents, elders and guests

, don’t eat and play at the same time, don’t waste food.

. Share your parents' worries as much as possible. Don't ignore your parents' feelings. You should actively do what you can for your parents.

Don't refuse. No conditions.

Be filial to your parents,

Be grateful,

Cherish a happy life,

Follow the instructions of your parents,

Greet your parents when you go out and enter the house,

Do not be ungrateful, do not contradict, quibble or make unreasonable troubles with your parents.

We must learn to be grateful, be grateful to our parents who have given selflessly and silently, and be grateful to all those who have cared, loved, supported and helped

We must cherish all the real, beautiful and kind things in society and nature,

Hate hypocrisy,

ugly and bad phenomena

Xiang cannot distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil.

. Respect your teachers. When you see teachers, elders, and acquaintances, you should take the initiative to greet them warmly. Do not turn a blind eye and avoid them.

We must unite our classmates, be loving and compassionate, do not bully the small, discriminate against the weak, or laugh at the disabled

or their grades Bad classmates.

. Be sincere, humble, and down-to-earth

Do not cheat, be arrogant, or complacent.

12.

In public places such as movie theaters, shopping malls, conference venues, banquets, etc., you must behave politely, speak appropriately, and do not make loud noises.

Don't play or play.

. Aim high, persevere, move forward courageously, and strive for self-improvement. Do not be ambitious or slack off.

Do not give up easily.

14.

You must complete the homework assigned by the teacher and the learning tasks assigned by your parents on time, quality and quantity. Do not be careless or have illegible handwriting.

, you must do less or use excuses not to do or procrastinate. You can only play after finishing your homework, except on weekends and holidays.

Do not watch TV (except for the 7 p.m. news broadcast)

, Play on the computer.

All the contents stipulated in this standard must be fulfilled to the letter. If there is any violation, it will be reminded, criticized and criticized depending on the seriousness of the case.

< p> Warning,

Thinking about one’s mistakes,

Written review,

Copying texts,

Doing housework,

< p> Restriction of some family freedoms and rights,

Appropriate corporal punishment, etc.

3. Family motto refers to the instruction for children and grandchildren to conduct themselves in society and manage their family and business.

Behavior

If you do good deeds, you will get hundreds of blessings, and if you do bad deeds, you will get hundreds of disasters. Don't do good deeds because they are small, and don't do evil deeds because they are small. These four language should be

kept in mind for life.

Be gentle in your behavior, don’t be hasty or slow; be honest in your words, don’t be deceitful or hasty.

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Question 8: What is family tradition, family rules and family training? Family tradition refers to a family or family Traditional customs, same family style

Family rules, the behavioral norms stipulated by a family, are generally the rules inherited by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law.

Family precepts refer to the instructions given to children and grandchildren on how to conduct themselves in society and manage their family and business.

Question 9: I say that our family tradition and family motto are 100 points. When it comes to family tradition, family motto, and tutoring, I always feel that it is a very serious topic. Let me briefly talk about my family's situation.

Family tradition is the family rules and the atmosphere of the family. In our family, it is reflected in filial piety. Mom and Dad often say, "Filial piety comes first." Filial piety, filial piety, respecting elders, means trying to make everything go as well as they want. At home, when grandma and grandpa speak, we must listen carefully. Even if we make a mistake, we cannot accuse them face to face. We must tell them quietly in a way that they can accept. Not talking back to your elders is also a sign of filial piety. We children must listen to what our elders say. Whatever we are asked to do, we must act immediately and not procrastinate. Our family tradition is also reflected on the dining table.

When the family has dinner, if the elders do not use their chopsticks, we children must not eat first. We had to wait until grandma, grandpa, mom and dad arrived before everyone started eating together. Unknowingly, this has become a habit. Of course, this is a good habit.

Family motto, as explained in the dictionary, "refers to the instructions given to children and grandchildren on how to conduct themselves in society, manage their families and manage their businesses." It can be seen that family tradition plays a very important role in people's growth process. My mother always taught me that the most basic quality of life is honesty. Therefore, I believe that my family’s family motto is “honesty first”. There are many times in life when we lie. For example, if my test scores are not good, I will say that my classmates did not do well in the test, in order to escape the discipline of my parents. As everyone knows, this will only harm yourself. When I was very young, my mother told me: It doesn’t matter if you do something wrong. If you lie to excuse yourself, then the seriousness of the lie is 100 times greater than the seriousness of doing the wrong thing. I also lied to my parents about many things, and the end result was that I was severely beaten by my parents. Sometimes when I do something wrong, my parents won't hit me. Depending on the seriousness of the matter, they will either reason with me or educate me more severely. Another point is that my mother requires me to do what I say. One of the words she often says is "speak loudly", which means to tell me that I must be able to do what I say. My mother said, I am a boy and I must be responsible for my words and deeds. No matter what you do, think about the consequences before doing it. Even if you make a mistake, you must dare to take responsibility for it.

Tutoring, I think it is somewhat similar to the family tradition. The dictionary says that the focus of tutoring is on moral etiquette. In our lives, we often hear adults say that whose children are really good and have good tutors. I think tutoring is a kind of education given by parents to their children. With the help and guidance of parents, a good reflection is reflected from the children. My parents taught me to be polite and take the initiative to say hello to the elders and neighbors I know. Not only did they educate me this way, they also did this themselves. When grandma's friends came to visit, my mother was busy in the kitchen, leaving grandma to chat and eat snacks with her friends. I also heard my grandma’s friends praising my mother for being such a good girl and having such a good tutor. Whenever this happened, I could see the proud expression on my grandma’s face. I wondered why it was my mother who was being praised. How could my grandma be so proud? What does it look like? Later, I gradually understood that praising children for having tutors is actually appreciating their parents’ education. During holidays and family gatherings, my relatives and friends also praise me for being a good tutor. At this moment, my parents also have the same proud look. Tutoring is also a kind of precept and example from parents. Often, adults are role models for children.

Family tradition, family training, and tutoring have different approaches but the same purpose. Every family has its own different reflection. Good family tradition, tutoring, and family training require the joint efforts of everyone in the family. The bad aspects must be corrected in time, and the good aspects must be continued.

Question 10: What are the family traditions and rules and mottos? A flawless jade can be a national treasure; a son of filial piety can be a national treasure. --Song Dynasty Lin Bu's "Saving Mind Record"

If you are not strict, you will not be successful. -- "A Dream of Red Mansions" by Cao Xueqin of the Qing Dynasty

The prosperity of humanity must come from couples. -- "Collected Sayings of Confucius? Changes"

Those who accumulate extensively will leave their descendants in harm's way; those who are sensual and sensual will ruin their lives with an axe. --Song Dynasty Lin Bu's "Records of Saving Hearts"

The two words for inheriting a family are reading and farming, and the two words for building a family are frugality and diligence. -- "Collection of Ancient and Modern Books? Family Model"

The sons of a successful family are like treasures, and the sons of a prodigal family are like grass. -- "Family Heirloom" by Shi Tianji, Qing Dynasty

I am only here to study and study. Don't waste your youth lightly. --Lu You, Song Dynasty, "Children Enter the City" There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, and there are very few who can succeed. --Written by Lu Gong of the Song Dynasty

People leave their children and grandchildren with wealth, but I leave my children and grandchildren with innocence. -- "Liang Shu? Biography of Zhou Shexu Mian"

Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don't work for them. --Yuan? Anonymous' "Fishermen and Woodcutter"

Children are the ones who create the industry, not the ones who inherit the inheritance. --Tao Xingzhi's "How to Choose Books"

Anyone who does not love himself is really unqualified to be a father. --Lu Xun's "How should we be fathers now"

Having wealth without righteousness will only bring disaster to the family. -- "Collection of Ancient and Modern Books? Family Model"

Don't harbor suspicions, don't listen to divisive words, don't do anything to make a living, don't focus on the benefits of public relations. -- "Collection of Ancient and Modern Books - Family Model"

Nine out of ten people who plan to gain wealth for their descendants will fail.

--Song Dynasty Lin Bu's "Saving Heart Record"