Life is a long road, a person’s destiny is completely in his own hands, and happiness also comes through struggle.
People often talk about someone’s character and use nature to describe it, which is appropriate. In real life, a person’s character has a great impact on life. Some people seem to be enthusiastic and serious in their work. But when something bothers me, and I don’t go my way even a little bit, I get angry, stormy, yelling, and take all my troubles home with me. I lose my temper at home, throw things, curse people, and treat other domineering behaviors like food.
But character is not nature. Just go your own way, be capital, be glory. On the road of life, you also need to keep pace with the times, carve and change, blindly ignore the feelings of others, and be patient. Still, sooner or later, you will suffer a big loss in character, and it will affect family harmony and the growth of your children...
In the face of real life, in order to live a happy and beautiful life, poverty and wealth are not determined by birth. Even if you are born in a wealthy family with superior conditions, you cannot sit back and enjoy it for the rest of your life. If you are born like this in life Just resting on your laurels on the road, being content with yourself, without working hard or struggling. If you act like a young man every day, happiness will leave you one day.
On the contrary, many children from poor families are ambitious, have a tenacious fighting spirit, and have a good family tradition. With their lofty ideals and firm beliefs, they study hard, enter college, and achieve real success. The dream of your own life. Through hard work, the destiny of life has been changed.
Therefore, we must correctly understand the destiny of life. If you don’t work hard and pay in life, there will be no happy life. Practice has proved that happiness is achieved through hard work, and destiny is always in your own hands. This is completely correct.
The ancients said that one is destiny, two is luck, three is feng shui, four is accumulation of yin virtue and five is reading. This actually reveals the factors that determine destiny and the factors that change destiny. One or two are innate, three, four or five are acquired efforts. In the past, people believed in destiny, saying that life was destined as soon as the grass fell to the ground. How much blessings, how much money, food, and life span were all already arranged. The so-called fortune-telling and fortune-telling are to predict people's innate destiny. In this sense, of course, birth determines destiny.
But this kind of decision is not exactly the same as being born into a rich family or a poor family. It does not mean that a good family background means a good destiny, and a bad family background means a bad destiny. There are many rich and humble children and poor and heroic people. Without a good destiny, hundreds of millions of fortunes will soon be ruined. This means a good life but a bad life. And those who are self-made may seem like they are working hard, but they are actually lucky.
Of course, hard work is also important, because there will be rewards if you pay, it’s just more or less. Hard work can change some destiny, but you don't know whether this so-called change is something you will have in the first place. In fact, there are not many things that can be gained through force, and there is a danger of falling all the time. Therefore, your efforts are also part of your destiny, and there is no use thinking about it while lying in bed.
Work hard, but you must always have principles and a bottom line, don’t be too demanding, and believe that people will make things happen and God will make things happen. Only a few of the things stolen through deceit, kidnapping, and robbery can keep it and go far.
Don’t accept your fate. You must work hard in life.
Be content with the circumstances and never cease to strengthen yourself.
I only know that my destiny is in my own hands. A person's life is nothing more than food, clothing, housing and transportation. Of course, the most important thing is medical care. If you want to pursue something higher and better, if you don’t strive for accumulation and live on the property passed down from your ancestors, it will eventually be spent. A good background is just a high starting point. Without the hard work of the previous generation, how can we have enough food and clothing? You come from a bad background and have limitations caused by the environment. It also depends on whether you are more willing to be content with the status quo or to rise up and fight hard. Everyone is in a different class and has different things. How to use them, maximize their value, and maximize their advantages can we take a step forward and achieve a leap in life. "Friends of Time": The algorithm of life is the most basic routine that you keep repeating when facing the world. Find it, repeat it, and strengthen it. To pursue success and achieve a leap in life, you must find an algorithm that suits you. This is what is called future destiny.
First answer: Both are important, but the weights are different.
Let’s talk about the reason: If a person’s success can be quantified as a number, and assuming that the cap is 100 points, then family background can be regarded as a “basic” score. Wang Sicong and Jia Baoyu basically have 90 points, while ordinary people have 10 points. point. The former only needs to get 10 more points to get full points, but please remember that if you are careless, points will be deducted, for example, from 90 points to 10 points. The latter are thousands of us ordinary people. Only by working hard and improving ourselves can we slowly upgrade on the basis of 10 points.
So if you ask whether one's background is important, then just ask if you want 90 points, the answer is definitely yes. If you ask whether hard work is important, you have to consider that 90 points may become 10 points, so the answer must be important.
Suggestions: Any answer that does not provide suggestions is not a good answer. My personal advice is to work hard, because of your background, you have no choice. One is fate, two is luck, three is feng shui, the four are accumulation of yin virtue and five is reading. Not everything summarized by the ancients is correct, but there is some truth to it. If you look at these five things, you can only master reading. So, it is already obvious what the advice is. Please help yourself.
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It depends on the specific reference value.
If we want to benchmark Wang Sicong’s destiny, then 99.999% or even infinitely close to 100% of people’s destiny is determined by birth, because most people will not reach his level in their lifetime on the material level. At this level, he only needs to ask to get his father's 500 million start-up capital. However, an ordinary person's monthly salary is 5,000. It would take more than 8,000 years to earn this money without eating or drinking. It is less than one ten million or even one hundred million. People can determine their destiny through hard work.
If you were born in a poor family and want to change your destiny, this era is the easiest in the history of the Chinese nation, because it is the most powerful and wealthy era of the Chinese nation, and it has the most fair college entrance examination. There is a talent selection mechanism, and the country's nine-year compulsory education will not leave anyone behind. As long as anyone is willing to work hard and be optimistic, the fate of his birth is just a short-term experience in Novice Village.
If I was born well, I hope my destiny will be determined by my birth. Otherwise, I can only work hard to change myself [laughing]
Destiny lies in myself, and money and wealth are external factors after all. things. If you are frustrated in life and look back on the past with regret, you will naturally feel that your fate is unfair. But if you were born in a poor family, lived a mediocre life but lived happily without regretting the past, then your destiny would be meaningless. The fate that is often said now is derived from the current investigation of the past and comparison with others, and has no metaphysical content.
Whether it’s about family background or hard work, any family background can reach the height of hard work, but only family background, without hard work, after all, you will only be rich for three generations, but if you work hard for a lifetime, you may not be as high as a good family background. After all, there is no good answer when looking into the past and comparing it with others. The final answer lies in oneself. Looking back on the present and the past, if I am very happy now and have no regrets about the past, then my origin is not important. If I want to make a hard comparison, my origin is definitely important. , if you can be happy for the rest of your life without working hard, who wouldn’t?
But no matter whether you are rich or poor, you have your own pressure. The desire to be born well, because you have to compare with a group of better people, the expectations of your family, the expectations of society, eventually crush yourself into depression and suicide. Quite a few
Everyone's life is different. Whether it is personality, origin, or growth environment, it can greatly affect future life. There is a saying in society that "No matter how well you do, it is better to have a good background." It is true that if you are born in a superior family, you will be closer to success. There are many examples of people who fail at the starting line in life, so that many people So he complained that his father was not a millionaire. Having said that, we have always overlooked one thing, that is, any family with superior material conditions starts from poverty. At the same time, it also proves that the accumulation of wealth and the acquisition of success still start from continuous hard work and progress. .
In the early years, there was a song in southern Fujian called "You Will Win Only If You Love to Work Hard". There is a line in it that says very well, "One third of a day is destined to be seven points of hard work." Isn’t that what life is like? Some people are born with a golden key in their mouths. Even if they have a rich family, if they don't work hard because of this, they will always be ruined. Although some people are born into poverty, through their unremitting efforts, they become role models in the industry and are respected by others. Therefore, I think the old saying goes well: It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on heaven and earth.
Marx once said: "People create their own history, but they do not create it as they please, not under the conditions they choose, but under the conditions they directly encounter, established, and Created under conditions inherited from the past”.
Human birth is a platform and an opportunity. Opportunity is the key factor for our success. Opportunities are indispensable in life. Opportunities need to be seized, but more importantly, opportunities are created; people ultimately rely on Strength and effort.