Is it absolutely impossible to be together if you don't agree with each other? Of course not, but we must find a way to solve it Everything depends on human effort, so everything is fate.
Judge whether you two are suitable for marriage, whether you live happily together for a long time and so on. The way to check is the eight-character marriage. The so-called eight-character marriage, first of all, should exclude the date of birth of two people, and comprehensively analyze whether two people are prosperous or restrained from the four angles of zodiac, singing harmony, sunbathing and using God.
If there is common prosperity or no grams, it shows that the prospects are promising and can continue to develop; If you praise each other or one side praises the other, it means that the problem is serious and needs careful consideration. Either break up or actively resolve it.
The solution is roughly as follows:
First, make up for it from their marriage.
In view of the problems existing in their marriage, we should make beneficial adjustments and supplements from the aspects of geomantic houses, five-element ornaments, colors and children's childbearing, so as to effectively resolve unfavorable factors and increase the stability of marriage.
Second, make up for it from personal marriage.
The quality of marriage depends not only on whether the marriage of two people is auspicious, but also on whether the marriage of one person is smooth. If there are also problems in personal marriage, such as the right time, the right place and the right person, the empty moon, hurting officials and robbing money, violence in Kui Gang, sheep blade and so on, we should take measures such as geomantic omen, five elements, psychology and religion to restrain or resolve these unfavorable factors and make them favorable.
Third, psychological adjustment.
First of all, you should change your mind and understand that fate is predestined, and you can only meet it, but you can't force it. Secondly, we should change our ideas and understand that marriage and love are sometimes completely different things. Love is excitement and feeling, more of a kind of spiritual enjoyment, while marriage is life and dullness, more of a kind of material enjoyment. Those who have feelings are not necessarily suitable for living together, and living together is not necessarily emotional. The essence of marriage is partners, mutual dependence, mutual understanding and mutual concessions. If you stay together for a long time, you will become dependent, reluctant to part with each other, and will love each other for life. As a woman, finding someone who loves you as a partner is ten times happier than finding someone you love.