What should my husband do if he treats you like an outsider?

First, living apart from her husband's family of origin, the space distance can weaken and dissolve the related acrylic power. Theoretically speaking, the farther away the space is, the less influence the family background has on the husband's marriage life. On the contrary, the bigger. Second, try not to actively interfere in the internal affairs of the family where the husband comes from. Any affairs involving the husband's family background, especially the handling of internal contradictions and frictions, should be handled entirely by the husband. Third, "change your mind" and don't care about the "gains and losses" in "Evil Seeds", because even if you care, it won't help. On the contrary, it is likely to leave an excuse for complaining and rejecting the family. Fourth, according to the fate of this case, the yen is the fate of the Lord, the fire is the wife, and the soil born of the fire is the son of the fate of the Lord. There are two soils in the eight characters that can make water. In other words, as a predestined wife, she can focus on raising children, thus balancing the relationship with her husband and further stabilizing the marriage and family relationship and family status. A well-known old joke, the wife asked her husband, "If your mother and I fall into the river at the same time, who will you save first?" Questions that seem difficult to answer can actually find accurate and true answers in the eight characters. Of course, the answer itself is not important. What is important is that from the perspective of eight-character numerology, the question of "who to save first" often affects family relations and husband and wife harmony. Below, Ark Zhouyi makes relevant analysis with an example case. For example, male life, the eight characters are Geng Shen, Wu Yin, Yan Zi and Xin Chou. First, let's analyze the eight-character numerology. When this man's mother and wife fall into the river at the same time, who will he save first? When his mother and wife fall into the river at the same time, there is no doubt that he will save his mother first without hesitation. Why? There is a simple reason. Numerology is the same as common sense. In life, you will always pay attention to who is the best. Similarly, in the eight characters, who is the most powerful among the five elements is the most important. There are three gold stars in the fate that represent the mother and two different cultures, while the spark of wealth that represents the wife only exists in Tibet, which is unfavorable to each other. Obviously, the power of a fortune star to represent his wife is different from that of his mother. Here, I want to emphasize that there is nothing wrong with saving his mother first. What we are discussing here is not right or wrong, but only the actual choice of fate. Secondly, we analyze the choice when the male life in marriage and family takes place between mother and wife. This kind of eight-character destiny often attaches great importance to the family, and often works closely with parents, family members, especially mothers, and treats his wife as an outsider and deals with her. On the one hand, the family members of the Lord constantly interfere in the marriage life of the Lord; On the other hand, the master's life is soft and only the mother's life is obedient. As a wife, living with the Lord naturally makes me feel depressed. Over time, the Lord's marriage will have problems. So, how to describe this problem with eight characters? Japanese yen, water, gold, family background, fire, wealth, wife, wood, emotional communication and love between master and wife. On the one hand, this fate is that three wolves attack a tree, which is equivalent to three wolves besieging a sheep, and wood is the spark of wealth, which is reflected in real life, that is, the involvement of family members limits the emotional exchange between the first wife and the second wife; On the other hand, the fate of sitting on a sheep's blade every day, that is, sitting in a wife's palace, is to rob water. Both the wife star and the source of the wife star are introverted, which can be seen in the married life environment of the main wife in real life. How should my husband treat you like an outsider? If my husband always treats me as an outsider, then I treat him as an outsider. I don't think you regard me as a close person. Why should I treat you as a close person alone? Everyone treats each other like outsiders. This is fair. I think so, too. If the other party doesn't treat me as family, it will make me feel very uncomfortable. Of course, he can't understand this kind of discomfort. So at this time, I can only feel uncomfortable here alone, and people don't feel it at all. So if I do the same thing to him, will he feel the same? If I don't treat him as one of my own, I also treat him as an outsider, and I don't let him know anything behind his back, or I make many decisions by myself without considering his feelings at all, will he feel sad and think that I don't treat him as a family? At this time, he understands how he feels about me, so at this time, I will tell him, is it better if we have problems? So personally, I think I will treat him as an outsider and let him participate in nothing. I won't tell him anything, make my own decisions, do everything by myself, never disturb him, be polite to him, treat him as a friend and a guest. In this way, I don't believe that he won't think I did it on purpose. Now that he has done such a thing as not treating me as family and treating me as an outsider, don't blame me for treating him as an outsider. I don't think this seems to be a problem. Everyone is just each other. No one does more than anyone else, and no one does less than anyone else. After I am married to your family, why do you treat me as a stranger and a husband? So I choose to answer blows with blows. How does your husband treat you like an outsider? If a man treats you as an outsider, there will be these "actions" that will no longer tell you. It is important for him that men don't want to tell women in their marriage. What is relatively important to him is that he treats you as an outsider, and he even dares not let you know, because these secrets may pose a threat to him, so he won't tell you what is important to him. These things may be his business or some private things in his personal life. In short, he will quietly avoid you, bypass you, try not to let you know, and keep you out, because these things are more important to him than anything else, and you are too close and know too much, which is also a threat to him. I don't want you to know how much income he has. When a man doesn't tell you how much he earns and how much he earns, he just gives you a little living expenses every month, and he doesn't tell you anything else, and he doesn't want you to get involved, which shows that he is treating you as an outsider. Some men are in business, making a lot of money, and there are things in the company. He doesn't want you to get involved. Actually, two people are husband and wife, and everything belongs to two people. But he doesn't want you to know how much income he has, for fear that you will want to divide up his property. And at this time, he may be ready to divorce you, so that you don't know how much property he has, and then he moves slowly, so that you don't want more from him when you divorce. If a man doesn't let you know his income, it means that he treats you as an outsider. And this is also a sign that he doesn't love you. Don't ask your opinion before making any decision. Most couples ask the other half for advice when they are in a good relationship and make most decisions. If a man doesn't ask you again before making any decision, but does it by himself, it shows that he treats you as an outsider in his heart and doesn't respect your wishes at all. A man who doesn't respect cows, isn't around before making any decision and won't ask your opinion shows that your position in his heart is getting lower and lower, and he no longer likes you. Keep you out of in-laws affairs. People are parents who can't help themselves. They all have deep feelings for their family background. No matter how the husband and wife feel, as a member of the family, when something happens in this family, they are willing to stand up and solve the problem. But when a man no longer loves you, he won't let you participate in her mother-in-law's affairs. In fact, you are kind enough to help, and he won't let you near, which shows that he treats you as an outsider. Otherwise, when a man treats you as one of his own, how can he hope that you won't help, because to him, you are like a whole, and his business is your business. He naturally wants you to stand up and not be excused by others.