As we all know, people who can't get along with each other because of their different personalities are quite common, but there is a kind of people who can't get along well although they don't have much difference in personality. The reason why such people are full of contradictions is that they can't become friends and colleagues because of their mutual fate. So what are the common types of life? It can be seen from the perspective of eight-character fortune telling.
The mutual gram between the five elements
This is the most common kind of mutual gram in horoscope fortune telling. Because each heavenly stems and earthly branches in the four pillars and eight characters has the corresponding five elements, the five elements attributes possessed by a person are also very different. This leads to the mutual restraint of the five elements between some people, which makes the gap between each other's personality and fortune large, and once they communicate, it will bring bad luck.
Chongke on the Zodiac
The Zodiac is the annual branch of personal birthdates, and it is also one of the four pillars of eight characters. Compared with other four pillars and eight characters, the annual branch is more special. Because the relationship between different zodiac signs is quite special, there are both coincidence and conflict, mutual resistance and mutual punishment. For example, people who are in conflict with each other in the zodiac are typical of personality disharmony. If they are punished with each other, it means that one side has excellent fortune but the other side has poor fortune. Therefore, it is said that the impact of the zodiac in the life is equally great.
The physiognomy of the Ten Gods
For example, the God of Food, the official, the partial official, the injured official and so on, which are often mentioned in eight-character fortune-telling, are all ten gods, and they are different life characteristics displayed by different characters of individuals. Different ten gods make the fortune possessed by the Lord very different, so there will also be cases where different ten gods restrain each other. For example, if there are more men's lives or robbing money, then the man has a wife's life and can't bring a happy life to his wife after marriage.
The five elements of husband and wife are compatible with each other. In fact, this is not a big problem, but it can be resolved. Some people who are going to get married think that they can't get married, but they can, as long as they are resolved. Because the five elements and the eight characters have a great influence on our work and life, many people are afraid of the husband and wife. What should husband and wife do when they are in harmony? Let's take a look at it together.
What about the husband and wife's five elements?
The sequence of the five elements is: gold begets water, aquatic wood, wood makes fire, fire begets soil, and soil begets gold.
The order of the five elements is: Jin Kemu, Mu Ke Tu, Tu Ke Shui, Water Ke Huo, and Fire Ke Jin.
Five elements are born together: golden water, aquatic wood, wood fire, fire earth, earth gold. Golden raw water: golden pin melts raw water; Aquatic wood: Water moistens raw wood; Wood fire: wood dry warm fire; Fire produces soil: fire burns wood produces soil; Native gold: native mines produce gold.
The five elements are mutually compatible: Jin Kemu, Muketu, Tuke Water, Water, Fire and Gold.
strength wins softness, so gold wins wood; Because trees can be cut down;
Speciality wins dispersion, so wood wins soil; Because trees can stabilize the collapse;
Reality is better than emptiness, and native land is better than water; Because the dam can stop the water flow;
many people are outnumbered, so water is better than fire; Because the flood can extinguish the flame;
Excellence wins strength, so fire wins gold; Because fire can dissolve metal.
gold comes from the soil, and more soil is buried with gold; Soil depends on fire, and fire is full of soil coke; Fire depends on wood, and wood is full of fire; Wood depends on water, wood drifts; Water Lai Jinsheng, Kim Hi Cha? Gold can produce water, and gold sinks; Water can produce wood, and wood shrinks with water; Wood can make a fire, and fire burns more wood; Fire can produce soil, and soil is full of fire; Soil can produce gold, and gold is much weaker than soil. Jin neng ke mu, mu Jian Jin deficiency; Wood can crush the soil, and the soil is heavy and folded; Soil can overcome water and soil flow; Water can overcome fire, and fire can burn water; Fire can kill gold, but more gold can put out the fire. When gold declines in case of fire, it will be melted; When a fire meets water, it must be extinguished; When the water is weak, it will be silted up; When the soil fails, it will be sunk; When the wood is weak, it will be folded. Strong gold gets water, only to defeat its front; Strong water gets wood, and it slows down its momentum; Strong wood gets fire, and it will vent its English; Strong fire gets the soil, and then it gathers its flame; Strong soil gets gold, and it is stubborn.
how to resolve the five elements of husband and wife?
If two people are already in the stage of passionate love, and they really want to get married, but their characters are similar, they can choose not to get a marriage certificate or hold a banquet, and wait until the stage of mutual affection has passed and eased a little before holding it.
if two people are married and find out that the eight characters are mutually compatible, this situation is better to temporarily live separately to alleviate the mutual compatibility. For example, the man can choose to travel abroad for a period of time and come back, and the woman can choose to live in her own family for a period of time.
if the husband and wife are in the same character, they can also choose a bedroom that is conducive to the harmony of the five elements. The bedroom near the east is suitable for those who belong to the wood, the bedroom near the south is suitable for those who belong to the fire, the bedroom near the south or southwest is suitable for those who belong to the earth, the bedroom near the west is suitable for those who belong to the gold, and the bedroom near the north is suitable for those who belong to the water.
people who are suitable for working in southern cities should belong to fire, those who are suitable for working in southern or central cities should belong to soil, those who are suitable for working in western cities should belong to gold, those who are suitable for working in northern cities should belong to water, and those who are suitable for working in eastern cities should belong to wood.
the above is related to the husband and wife's poor health, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading the husband and wife table, I hope it will help everyone!