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I don't think the old man has money, which has nothing to do with filial piety. If you meet an unfilial child, the old man is unfilial no matter how rich he is. When you meet a filial child, the old man has no money, but the child is still filial. That is the result of family style and family precepts, not fate.
Whether children are filial depends largely on whether the old man has money in his hand. Children don't think their mothers are ugly, and dogs don't think their families are poor. Whether a child is filial or not has a lot to do with family education and the environment. If you live in a family environment where a daughter-in-law is filial to her parents-in-law, and her parents-in-law take care of the younger generation, can your children not be filial? Parents are children's first teachers, so don't underestimate the role of words and deeds.
No, if there are many children, it depends on how the old people treat them when they are young. There is also the need for elders to look like elders and set an example. If they can't manage their behavior well, they ask their children to act according to their own wishes. Material things can have spiritual things, but they cannot be forced.
This question? We can't generalize. What we do is not a pure land on earth, but each has its own hardships, and we know ourselves well in cold and warm, and we are both sad and happy. Whether a child is filial to his parents is related to his childhood education! I wish parents in the world health and happiness.
No, as long as the old man is good to the children!
Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. It is also the legal obligation of every adult to support the elderly. China's Civil Code clearly stipulates that parents have the obligation to support, educate and protect their minor children, and adult children have the obligation to support, assist and protect their parents.
Whether children honor the elderly is not necessarily related to whether the elderly have money in their hands. There are many children of billionaires who don't honor their parents. Since ancient times, loyal ministers have rebelled, and since ancient times, giants have rebelled. There are too many such examples.
I have always advocated filial piety to the elderly, not unfilial to them. Respect the elderly, not blindly obey them. Unprincipled filial piety can only be foolish filial piety.
Whether children honor the elderly has a lot to do with the family style of this family.
Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Whether the old people in the past are filial to their elders directly affects the next generation. Speaking ill of elders at ordinary times will naturally set a bad example for children.
Whether the elderly are kind to their children also has a great influence on their children. As the saying goes, a father doesn't love his son, and a pot doesn't heat cakes. That's the truth. You don't usually care about your children. How can I ask you when the child is old?
I have a netizen named "mortal chat". The couple only have a meager pension, and their family is poor, with only an old house of 30 to 40 square meters. They took their father-in-law home for many years to serve, and a family of six or seven people crowded into a simple room. Before his death, my father-in-law thanked his son-in-law, daughter and grandchildren for their care. The story of mortal chat is very touching. Children naturally understand what is filial piety to their elders and what is the truth of treating others. His children will certainly be filial to their parents in the future.
I also have a friend. My mother died when I was a child, and my father and son lived alone in the countryside. This friend was later admitted to a school. After graduation, he was assigned to a state organ. He cherished his job opportunities and was promoted to a county-level cadre. He was very filial to the old farmer's father and brought him to the city. Many things to take care of the elderly are done by hands.
I also have a relative, both of whom were laid off early. A few years ago, I had to support my son to go to college and my 90-year-old mother. Grandma is from the countryside, only 180 yuan a month. The relative personally took care of his old mother every day until the old man died in extreme economic distress.
Nothing in the world is absolute. Children are grateful and filial, even if they are old and have no money, they will not be disgusted.
If you don't leave a good impression on your children, you won't be filial and grateful even if you have money.
So there is karma for raising children.
Of course, no matter whether children are filial or not, it is always good to have their own financial resources and support their living expenses. Everything you say and do is very car-scrapping. Otherwise, in the old age, children have to pay everything. To tell the truth, children who have been filial for a long time will be bored.
It's quite possible.
It is related to two factors: first, there is a causal relationship. (mainly refers to your education and dedication to your children since childhood). Second, there is a realistic side. (refers to the good and bad life of children now).
Vague answer: it is better to have money in your hand when you are old than no money.