When my son was in his first year of graduate school, he fell in love. I was not very satisfied because she was short and from a rural area.
?When we first met, I really liked this girl. She was cheerful, lively, and very lovable, and my husband also liked her very much. It seems that they have met each other. To put my mind at ease, I asked her birth date to be calculated. The expert told her that she had a good fortune, much better than my son's. I was very happy and satisfied with this.
?I only have one son, and I regard her as my daughter from the bottom of my heart. I often buy clothes for her and make soup for my son to take to school for her to drink. During holidays, she often buys me flowers and clothes. When I am unhappy, she will comfort me with soft words. I was deeply moved. Every time she called me, I always advised her to take the civil service exam.
?In 2015, her son and she both graduated. Under the arrangement of her husband, her son entered a job in a public institution in Guangdong. For the sake of her son, she resolutely went there to find a job. I tried my best to guide her, but still I was vaguely worried that she would not be able to find a decent job, so I told my son in private that she would have to find a satisfactory job before getting married. She really succeeded and found a stable job in a public institution soon before graduation. I finally felt at ease.
? Unexpectedly, they broke up because of a quarrel. It turned out that her son saw her cousin admitted to the civil service exam and forced her to take the civil service exam. She transferred her anger to me. I thought it was because I kept talking about taking the civil service exam every day, which made my son compare with me and was too vain. Just like that, before we got married, we had a fight. I told her that I didn't say anything. I just told my son that I would consider getting married after finding a satisfactory job. Unexpectedly, she immediately burst out emotionally and said that I was stabbing me in the back and asked why I didn't say yes to such a request in the first place.
Two years later, her son and her got together. In 2018, she became pregnant. I was unable to go to take care of her because of work, and she spent the long pregnancy alone. At the end of the year, she gave birth to a big fat boy, but she called my husband and me after the birth. On the train to Guangdong, I was very dissatisfied. Why did she tell us after the birth? When I went to the ward, I took a look at my grandson happily, and then quietly opened her clothes to see if the birth was normal. Unexpectedly, I just looked at her belly and she always held a grudge.
After she was discharged from the hospital, I took great care of her for seven days and then went back to work. During these seven days, I boiled Chinese medicine for her every day to condition her body, and prepared meals and delivered them to her. Since then, I have been It was her mother who took care of her.
? During the Spring Festival vacation, the child was already two months old. My parents-in-law went back to their hometown to buy new year's goods. I took care of him for about ten days. Unexpectedly, I thought the child had a cough and was sick. I thought it was just a common cold. She did not let the child go to the hospital and kept taking the medicine she had prepared. Four days later, the child's condition did not improve. She couldn't stand it anymore, so she took the child to the hospital. After various examinations, the doctor said that it was serious and needed to be admitted to the intensive care unit. She cried loudly behind the door of the intensive care unit, complaining at the top of her lungs that I didn't know how to take care of the child. She took care of the child and became sick in just ten days. I was also very angry. She only took care of the child every day, and also left the child. My mother was sick, and we had a big fight in the hospital. Since then, my daughter-in-law has always treated me indifferently and vowed never to let me take care of children again.
I am so good to her. As soon as the child was born, I told her that I hoped to move the child’s household registration to my hometown and let me take care of the child until he is 18 years old. After all, the education level in my hometown is better. She loves her so much, takes care of her health, buys quilts and dishes for her new home, and worries about everything for her. However, she speaks strongly and does not allow me to say "I love her". She finds it disgusting. If I say that I love her again, She quarreled with her son.
?Hey, I was so kind to her, but she didn’t appreciate it at all. It really broke my heart!