First, adopt the gods.
Because amputees have a hard life and need to be raised by others or other relatives, they can also be adopted to the gods. However, it should be noted that boys need to adopt male gods and girls need to adopt goddesses. For example, boys were adopted by Jade Emperor, Dongyue Emperor and Wei Zi Emperor. The girl adopted the Queen Mother of the West, Jiutian Xuan Nv and Guanyin. This can reduce the punishment for family members. If you adopt a person, you should also find someone with a hard life.
Second, collect less and stay more.
If someone has a broken palm, they might as well go to boarding school to study, or go to other places to study and work, so as to reduce living with their families and avoid punishing them.
Third, there is a great difference in the age of the people who get married.
When choosing a marriage partner, find the one with the largest or smallest ranking in the family. If a woman chooses a man older than herself 10; A man had better choose a woman 10 years younger than himself. Or choose a remarried person or a person whose hands have been amputated as the object.