"But not as those who have been poor together know". Why?

But not as those who used to be poor together know? This sentence is selected from Yuan Zhen's poem "Regret for the Past", which expresses the thoughts of his wife and regrets that he and his wife have experienced many hardships but have not endured all the hardships. But now it is generally understood that the lack of material life of couples will be bad for all kinds of things. Here, the reasons are only explained according to the current understanding.

? There's an old saying? Cang Xie knows manners? This means that only when the granary is full of food and warm clothes can people know how to keep etiquette. Similarly, the demand for love is also behind the demand for food and clothing. The formation of marriage needs to start with love, but it also needs material as the foundation.

? Once married, they should not only consider themselves, but also bear the responsibility of supporting their parents, educating their children and all kinds of trivial matters in life. Love may be vigorous, but in the end it will be dull. If, unfortunately, both of them have poor economic ability, fail to understand each other and support common progress, and accumulate all kinds of grievances in their lives, they will eventually come to this sad step. I remember reading a sentence before, which probably means that people can suffer alone, but they can't suffer together because they will blame each other. Seeing the sweet love in film and television entertainment, people always envy and regret why there is no such romantic love and such a perfect couple. But all this is based on the economy and the aura of the protagonist. Imagine, if the hero and heroine rush about for life every day, where there is energy to love and play "Catch me if you can". Those with poor conditions will haggle over a little money, quarrel over family chores, and even be irritable. Then the other half will think, God, how can I fall in love with such a stingy and unattractive person?

Are you sure? But not as those who used to be poor together know? It's not telling people that they must find a rich man to get married, it's just an experience, and although marriage needs material things, it needs two people to manage it carefully. Seek attention and praise.

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