Many people's views on "stars" and "idols" come from a cross section. A news report, a hot search, a web page you accidentally clicked on may see part of it, but some individuals who have experienced "vertical tracking" will be more sensitive to the changes in the vertical time axis. My friend told me that some teenagers with clear eyes have gradually lost their spirituality. The original fascinating part may be precisely this sense of youth that doesn't know the taste of sadness, but why is it lost?
One possibility is that this flashy foreign market, with too many temptations and complicated relationships, is an unimaginable world for ordinary people. In this environment, it is too difficult to test human nature. A friend said, "Acting may be the business of desire. It is omni-directional and always open. It's really tiring to stir up desires and consumption desires all the time. The temperament of jade is dripping with saliva every day by everyone's desire tongue, which is also dirty. "
I just want to frame it and hang it on the wall!
Idolization is an impersonal relationship, that is, although you know him and he doesn't know you, it is still a relationship. Fans are "watched" by idols in groups, and occasionally they see "individuals". Idols with many sights play the game of "projecting identity" with fans of each individual in geometric multiples. The so-called pollution is actually that under this massive projection, there is always a fragile line of defense that has been broken and evolved into identity.
Fans are a kind of "support" for idols. In addition to spending money and attention on them, there is also a kind of "support of love", all of which converge into a huge karma. If the Chinese character is not hard, it will probably be unbearable (just kidding).
Degang Guo said that celebrities earn so much money, including money being scolded. Actually, it means the same thing.
In fact, girls are not only idolized, but all walks of life are the same, but everyone does not call this idolization.
The idolized psychological dynamic appellation, whether it represents artistic ideal, juvenile sense, talent and uniqueness, should be an "idealization" ... no matter who set it up, it is actually just a basket. Everyone has a desire to be frustrated in reality and hope that another person in the world can help him realize it. Even if they watch it, they will be comforted in their hearts, thus giving birth to a sense of singing and identity.
"Idealization" is a big word. When children are young, they think that their parents and teachers are the most powerful people in the world, which is an idealization. It is also an idealization for you to listen to the introduction of your colleagues' girlfriends and find an old Chinese doctor who has been taught about technology. It is also idealistic for entrepreneurs to follow the idea of a big commercial coffee.
Idealization is everywhere, that is, "you think a person/thing is good", which is generally the case in the world. People's emotions are always flowing, and they are always eager for more expensive and pure experiences. If this desire has a taste? The smallest possibility of being satisfied will accumulate; If this desire is accidentally broken, abuse and hatred will follow.
The enlightenment to ordinary people is that if you want to be famous, first think about whether you can bear such a karma.