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Civil and polite cross expressions
Please, hello, thank you, sorry, goodbye
When talking with others, the focus is on exchanging information and learning from each other's strengths. At the same time, you should also pay attention to respecting the person you are talking to. During the conversation, the attitude should be humble and the language should be civilized. In addition, we should pay attention to avoid 10 situations:
The first is to "shut up", that is, not saying a word, making the conversation cold;
The second is "interrupting", that is, suddenly interrupting others while they are speaking;
The third is "miscellaneous talking", which means using random language, slang, foreign languages, terminology, etc. The language is not standard and normative;
The fourth is "dirty mouth", that is, the language is uncivilized and full of swear words;
The fifth is "dirty mouth", that is, the mouth is colored and will always be used. Talking about sexual affairs, pornographic affairs, scandals, and dirty words;
The sixth is "glib mouth", that is, speaking in a slippery tone, talking humorously, and making fun of others;
The seventh is "glib mouth" "Poor talk" means loving to talk nonsense, chattering, and being bored;
The eighth is "strong talking", meaning loving to argue with others, fond of strong words, and thinking that he is always right;
The ninth is the "sharp mouth", that is, speaking harshly, unscrupulously, and hurting others with bad words; The tenth is the "tongue-in-cheek woman", that is, she loves gossiping, gossiping, and inquiring about gossip;
Dign sitting posture
* When sitting, you should walk to the seat with light and gentle steps, then sit lightly and steadily from the left side, and place your right and left feet naturally. When a lady is seated, if she is wearing a skirt, she should push the skirt slightly;
*After sitting down, stand upright with your waist and chest straight, your upper body should be naturally straight, your upper body should be slightly tilted forward, and your center of gravity should be vertically downward. Smile, look straight, lips slightly closed, and chin slightly retracted. The knees should be brought together or slightly apart, and tilted to one side as appropriate, with the hands naturally placed on the knees or on the armrests of the chair.
*When you stand up, take your right foot back half a step, then stand up, and leave your seat gently and steadily;
Correct standing posture
*Square shoulders, The neck should be straight, the mandible slightly drawn back; eyes leveled, full of energy, and smiling.
*Stand upright, lift your chest, draw in your abdomen, and tuck your shoulders slightly.
* The shoulders should droop naturally and the fingers should be naturally bent; the hands can also be crossed in the front body, usually the right hand is placed on the left hand, and the elbows should be slightly outward. The body's center of gravity falls on the soles of the feet.
*The feet should be shoulder-width apart; or the feet can be taken half a step back, but the upper body must still remain upright;
Good footwork
< p>*The upper body is vertical, the head is raised, the chin is parallel to the ground, the eyes are looking straight ahead, full of energy, and smiling.From one foot to one and a half, the step should be with the entire sole of the foot on the ground, and the knees and ankles should not be too stiff. The toes can be slightly apart, but the toes and heels should be nearly in a straight line with the direction of travel to avoid "outward-looking" or "inward-looking" steps.
*The pace should be steady, natural and rhythmic. When a woman wears a skirt, the hem of the skirt and the movements of her feet should show a sense of rhythm.
*When going up and down stairs, your upper body should be straight, your steps should be light and steady, and generally do not hold on to the railings.
Basic Etiquette Principles
Tolerance, respect for others, self-discipline, observance, moderation, sincerity, secularity, equality
Ten characteristics of educated people
Be punctual, speak with restraint, have a kind attitude, be fair and to the point, pay attention to your conversational skills, do not be arrogant, keep your word, care for others, be generous and compassionate
Order rules
In social situations, the right is generally the largest. , to grow, to respect. The left side is smaller, the second side, and the side side. When two people walk together, the person in front and on the right is respected; when three people walk side by side, the person in the middle is respected; when three people walk in front and back, the former is respected. When entering the door, the Venerable should go first. When getting on the bus, you should let the Venerable get on the bus first, then go around to the left and get on the bus, and sit on the right hand seat of the Venerable. Under normal circumstances, elders and women should go first and take the honorable seat. When going upstairs, the venerable person and his wife go in front; when going downstairs, especially when the stairs are steep, the venerable person and the woman go behind to greet the guests and guide them. The host goes in front and sees off the guests and the host goes behind. Indoors, the seat facing us is respected.
Guest Etiquette
* When visiting guests, you should wash yourself cleanly, dress neatly, and attend appointments on time.
*When you arrive at the host’s house, you should first say hello to the host. When the host asks questions, we should answer generously and clearly without being shy.
*When the host hands us fruits, drinks or gifts, we should stand up and take them with both hands and express our gratitude.
*Don’t run around, rummage through things in the host’s house, and don’t damage or degrade the host’s belongings.
* Say goodbye to the host and express your gratitude when leaving.
Hospitality etiquette
*Preparation: tidy up the room, dress up, prepare supplies, and wait in advance.
Pick up guest's handbag. You are not allowed to receive guests wearing pajamas.
*Hospitality: Invite the guests to sit down first, then the host; serve drinks or snacks; focus on the conversation; it is not appropriate to get up constantly, talk while watching TV, or often indicate the time.
*Send guests off: Get up and see them off, usually to the elevator entrance, downstairs or at the main door; wave to greet the guests and watch them go away.
Grooming
Grooming refers to a person’s appearance. In interpersonal communication, in order to maintain self-image, it is necessary to modify your appearance. There are five things to pay attention to when grooming your appearance:
The appearance should be clean. Take a shower and wash your face frequently, and pay attention to wiping secretions from the corners of your eyes, mouth, and nostrils frequently.
Appearance should be neat and tidy. Neat, that is, neat, clean, and refreshing. Keeping your appearance neat and tidy requires attention and perseverance. This one has a great relationship with the quality of self-image.
Appearance should be hygienic. Paying attention to hygiene is a citizen's obligation. Teeth should be brushed frequently, nails should be cut frequently, and hair and face should not be unkempt or dirty, and body odor should not be smelt. This is what everyone should consciously do.
4. Appearance should be simple. Appearance must be polished, and it is taboo to be unconventional or "one-stop". Simple and simple are best.
5. Appearance must be dignified. A dignified and elegant appearance not only gives people a sense of beauty, but also makes it easy to win the trust of others. In contrast, decorating one's appearance with fancy, frivolous and grotesque ways is not worth the gain.
Chinese Table Etiquette
* Seating Etiquette: Invite guests to take their seats first. Then ask the elderly to take a seat next to the guests. When taking a seat, enter from the left side of the chair. After sitting down, don't move your chopsticks, don't make any noise, and don't get up and move around. If you need anything, say hello to the director.
*When eating, ask guests and elders to use chopsticks first. Don't make any noise when eating, and don't make any noise when drinking soup. Some people like to chew food when eating, especially chewing crispy food hard, making a very clear sound. This practice is not in line with etiquette requirements, so we should try to prevent this phenomenon.
*Don’t burp or make other sounds while eating. If you make involuntary sounds such as sneezing or bowel sounds, say “I’m sorry”; “I’m sorry, please forgive me” and so on. words to express apology.
*If there are leaders, elderly people, or guests at the same table, ask them to use their chopsticks first whenever a new dish is served, or take turns asking them to use their chopsticks first to show that you value them.
*When you eat fish heads, fish bones, bones, etc., do not spit them out or throw them on the ground. You should slowly take them to your own plate with your hands, or put them next to your dining table. Or put it on prepared paper.
* Take time to chat with the people around you in a timely manner to lighten the atmosphere. Don’t just eat with your head down and ignore others.
*It is best not to pick your teeth at the dining table. If you want to pick your teeth, cover your mouth with a napkin.
*When you leave the table at the end, you must express your gratitude to the host, or invite the host to your home in the future to show your gratitude.