What do you mean by guessing?

Question 1: How to guess people's minds and others' psychology? You must be able to see through human nature. The so-called human nature refers to the behavioral characteristics and laws of people in social life and interpersonal communication. Understanding and grasping human nature affects people's communication, interaction and cooperation; Affect people's health and happiness; Affect people's happiness and success. Therefore, this problem has become a very important problem in human life, and it is also a problem that people are very concerned about and interested in. Human nature is determined by two factors, one is personality and the other is environment. Only by understanding these two aspects of human nature and considering them comprehensively can we see through and grasp human nature. Let's look at the first aspect: personality. Freud, the originator of psychology, divided personality into three parts, namely ID, superego and ego. Id, which represents the greedy and selfish side of human nature, is human instinct and an innate component of consciousness. The principles it follows are the principle of happiness and the principle of immediate satisfaction. Its activities are like magma under the surface of the earth, restless and tumbling, and once it loses its restraint and restraint, it can't wait to erupt. Superego represents selflessness, justice and kindness of human nature; Representing the demands and wishes of society, the public and others; It is an ideological component formed by people receiving acquired social education. He follows the principle of public interest. Self, representing the rational side of human nature, is a high-level consciousness component developed by people in their growth. It is the consciousness that people control, coordinate and integrate ID and superego consciousness according to the reality of the environment and their own needs, and seek the most suitable state of survival and development. It follows moral principles. The different proportions of these three parts in consciousness form different personalities. It is an important factor that affects various manifestations and changes of human nature. Let's look at the second aspect, the environment. The so-called environment refers to human society and everything except one's own consciousness, even one's own body. Things are generally interrelated and interactive, and so is the performance of human nature, which is influenced by environment and external forces. So the environment is also an important factor affecting human nature. As the saying goes, a hero has no good wife, and a good wife depends on her husband. This statement is really vulgar, but it makes sense. When the husband is kind, it provides the soil for his wife to play and the environment for his self-expansion. Or conversely, it is very safe for a beautiful girl to walk in a crowded street in Dallas during the day, but it is even more dangerous if she has to cross a dark and quiet remote path alone during the night shift, because the dark and quiet environment may make normal people lose their balance during the day and become demons. Many developed husbands began to abandon their old wives and look for new ones. Many powerful senior officials began to bully and indulge. Many accountants in prison will complain that the loose financial system of the unit has harmed them. We can find as many examples as we want, and these examples also reflect the influence of the environment on human nature. Judgment and grasp of personality: growth experience and education directly determine the division of superego and ego in consciousness. Those who are overweight are more likely to do good than bad; A good person who develops himself must be a smart person and a moral person, who will not do evil or stupid things. However, how can we fully understand everyone's growth experience and education? That's just as well. We can adopt the method of "sampling inspection", that is, in daily contact, pay attention to observe people's behavior at its stage. Through this "sampling test", you can learn about his past and future. For example, if a person doesn't even honor his parents, you can't expect him to appreciate others, and you can't expect any good cooperation with him; You can't expect a person who doesn't care about his children to be responsible for anything. Or conversely, Dallas' judgment of the auditorium and his grasp of the environment: if you accompany a gentleman like a tiger, the constraints of a powerful person on his environment will be greatly weakened, that is, his id in his personality is extremely inflated, and he has the conditions to do whatever he wants. If you are not allowed to be with such people, you should be extra careful. Similarly, female workers who work at night, female drivers who drive long distances and lovers in love should try not to put themselves in a dark, quiet and lonely situation. If they really need it, they should be extra careful. Because that environment provides conditions for the vicious expansion of bad people. In fact, each of us is also the environment of others, and you can control others by controlling your own behavior. Why does Teacher Jinshan always scold the person who complained to him first? Because he knows that those who are bullied, first of all, are too weak and incompetent. 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Question 2: I spend time speculating about people's hearts. What does it mean to be cool and thin in the end? It means that some people go to great lengths when others are in power.

Bear, when others lose power, they are very cold. People are treacherous,

It means that it is not as honest as the ancients, and the knowledge and experience are shallow.

Question 3: How to guess what the ancients said? Reading thousands of books is better than reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is better than reading countless people. There are countless readers who need to be stung. That's why salespeople can understand people better, because they deal with too many people.

Question 4: The so-called strategy is to guess people's hearts, know people's hearts and understand human nature. To guess a person's mind, you must be familiar with people and things and know other people's personalities, weaknesses, etc. ) it is the psychological counselor who knows the preferences of such people from some behaviors of the other party. A leaf bosom friend, have you heard of it?

This skill is the result of wisdom and rich experience.

Strategy is not just about speculating people's hearts, understanding people's hearts and understanding human nature. It is more important to infer a successful strategy.

Question 5: How to read people's minds, know what they need, and how to read others' thoughts! This is a profound question. First of all, we should understand the quality and background of this person, then observe his words and deeds and predict his next plan and action! This is just a temporary solution, not a permanent cure!

The best way is to do what you should do and be humble to anyone! Anticipate cause and effect in advance, and you will be in an invincible position! If you care too much about a person's feelings, wait for him to be transferred or leave for other reasons! People will read your jokes and give you little shoes to wear! It is the most important thing to make achievements on your own!

Question 6: People are unpredictable, so why guess its meaning? Other people's hearts are hard to fathom, so why must we fathom them!

Question 7: If a man says to a woman: I think you like to be good at guessing other people's thoughts. What do you mean? Many times people complain more or less in life, especially women! Women complain about social injustice, men betray, this and that, but how many women have really examined themselves (including myself)! Peace of mind is the first element of being a man. We gave our true love, but did we do it right? When you calm down, sort out your mood and see if you know yourself. Women may not be as beautiful as flowers, but they must be as smart as ice and snow!

Many times, as a woman, you should give yourself some time to learn to be a smart woman in life, because in this era of advocating individuality, it is easy for women to see only superficial publicity. In fact, most of us are lost.

The first thing a smart woman must know is: never speak ill of her parents in front of anyone.

In fact, a man will complain that his parents don't understand him in front of you, but no matter what he says, you can only say to him: Dear, do you want to think about where you are wrong first? Because a smart woman knows that you can't replace flesh and blood.

Love is your choice, and any complaint is actually a denial of your choice. I don't think complaining about mistakes will change him. It is better to use other methods. There are only two consequences of complaining: make the other person lose confidence or dislike you.

A clever woman knows how to love her lover.

A woman should love her lover, give him a little, give him some space, and he will appreciate your thoughtfulness at that time.

Smart women know how to pamper themselves.

No matter who you choose, you must never give up things that belong to your own field, such as work and friendship. A man will be your umbrella, but don't let him be your sky. All respect comes from restraint. If you don't want to be the nth Qin Xianglian, then you should manage your own space. In this space, you should learn to love yourself and be kind to yourself. Whenever possible, don't walk behind the times, because the back is generally inconspicuous and easy to forget. ...

Smart women are relaxed.

You may be a smart and capable woman, but please leave that face in the office. Because as long as you are not stupid, everyone knows that women are made of water, and few men like that kind of tough woman. In front of him, no matter how capable you are, you should ask his advice from time to time. Whether to adopt it or not is your office's business tomorrow. But tonight at home, let him dominate, and you will see the effect.

A smart woman will never be Qin Xianglian.

Qin Xianglian vowed to guillotine her ungrateful husband. How pitiful! ! If one day your former lover no longer loves you, no matter how much you pay, please put it down gently and don't hurt anyone ... you may not understand why? ! In fact, lovelorn love will not happen overnight, and it can't be just his fault. Letting go of love rather than breaking it is the wisest choice. A wise woman must understand that when love is gone, that person will no longer protect you, and you will only hurt him with an arrow. Say goodbye quietly, turn around and never look back. ...

Of course, really smart women are simple and peaceful, and good psychological quality is the premise of being a smart woman!

Finally, a word to my sisters: My parents gave me a 20-year-old look, and I gave me a 40-year-old look. Love yourself and treat yourself well, for him and for ourselves!

Question 8: Are people with black bellies better at guessing other people's psychology? be

Many people with black bellies usually look innocent, handsome and normal, but their inner thoughts are very profound.

They love to observe other people's interests and are very keen on other people's little tricks. He regards it as a means to capture other people's thoughts in details, so if you communicate with people with black bellies, you should try to be one of your own from the beginning, at least keep the tendency of superficial approval and support! Of course, even if the other party's acting skills are strong, sometimes people with black bellies can't help but show a reflective attitude, so we must first calculate the gains and losses. The biggest advantage of a black-bellied person is to guide others to speak ill, complain or make negative comments. At this time, your handle has fallen into his hand, and he will seize the best opportunity to tell your complainant, which is very easy to happen in the workplace.

In addition, they have a strong desire for control. A person with a dark belly will have an uncontrollable desire for control. He wishes he could play with interpersonal relationships in his palm.

In a word, you can judge whether this person is black-bellied by the above characteristics. If we can be friends, it doesn't matter if we suffer some losses. If not, either let him go or kill him completely!

Hope to adopt, thank you! ~

Question 9: I don't speculate on your heart either. What does this mean? It's just that your words and deeds are incomprehensible, and your thoughts are unknown to others. People feel so tired that they are ready to give up again and again, so they stop thinking and guessing.

Question 10: It's hard to figure out how to guess people's hearts.

Read the text, beat about the bush, and observe carefully.

Who knows?