(2) In-laws have the highest sin.
(3) 47 and 51, don't marry if you have a son at home.
(4) The bride and groom grow old together.
(5) the month of birth of the couple and their relatives.
(6) Happy or sad years.
(7) San Niang evil day.
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(9) Suzaku Day and Big and Small Red Sand Day.
(10) When beams and hooks.
How to choose an auspicious day for marriage is the most traditional culture in China, and it is a problem that every newlywed who wants to walk into the wedding hall and enter the church must face. Choosing a date is the most commonly used in forecasting, so how did Teacher Liu Heng choose an auspicious day for marriage?
First, we need to know the dates of birth of both parties. The date of birth is called birthday, and the auspicious day of marriage is also the birth time of marriage feelings. It is also called the wedding date. Birthdays have good luck and bad luck, which leads to all kinds of destinies in the world. Of course, the wedding date also has good or bad luck, which leads to the end of all kinds of marriage feelings. In order to avoid the misfortune of marriage to the greatest extent, we should try our best to complete the marriage and get the certificate on an auspicious day.
1, spring is a good day to get married.
A year's plan lies in spring, which is a good month for everything to start sprouting. Therefore, silver moon and Uzuki in the lunar calendar are good days for getting married, attracting people and encouraging them to do things actively.
2. Avoid auspicious days in March, July and September.
It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. At the beginning of the month, that is, the Mid-Autumn Festival in the eighth month of the lunar calendar, it is the most suitable month for weddings and family reunion.
As the saying goes, avoid the three evils.
According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage. But these are old sayings. Nowadays, people have many taboos, and in the end they are not sure who is right or wrong.
The date of marriage is mainly subject to the woman.
The principle of choosing the wedding date is based on the date of birth of the bride, because it is the woman who goes to the man's house on her own initiative and also refers to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "as soon as the child is born, the woman marries the line." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce, so the wedding date cannot be used by the birth dates of both parties.
5. Parents cannot choose to get married on their birthdays.
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as their wedding dates. In fact, it means that parents' birthdays are the most unsuitable days to get married, but it is ok to get married within this month. You can't rush to the couple's palace on the wedding year and wedding day.
6. When is the real wedding day?
Now, we always register first, and then invite relatives and friends to celebrate the date of the ceremony, that is, we divide the date of registration and wedding ceremony into two times. Teacher Liu Heng thinks these two days are auspicious days. If you have to say which day is the most important, it is the date of registration, because from this day on, you will become legal husband and wife.
7. The real calculation method of auspicious day.
When a woman was born, the eight-character heavenly stems and earthly branches was converted to find out the use of the eight-character god. Use God's month and day as an auspicious day for marriage. Some people choose auspicious times according to local customs, some in the morning and some in the afternoon, and then according to local customs.
Choosing a date to get married has a long history in China. After thousands of years of marriage practice, this folk custom has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and its methods are becoming more and more mature and scientific. However, choosing an auspicious day for marriage is a very rigorous and prudent thing, which requires meticulous professionalism. Only by rational and objective analysis and deduction of the marriage horoscope can we make a scientific reference conclusion. For more life puzzles, please pay attention to WeChat official account? Good wind and good water