it's a good word, just a nice name, such as "Ding Cheng" and "Ding Yuan". After all, it's the elders. Since we can't find a way to reconcile, listen to them. The elders are very stubborn about these. So only we young people compromise, the name is just a code name, don't care too much!
It's really no good. Your name should listen to them. Use your name in your household registration book. You give your child a nickname, and you usually call it a nickname!