This article is written by Ni Liufang.
Autumn in October, a good marriage! Many marriageable men and women will choose to enter the marriage hall in the current autumn festival. Congratulations! In ancient times, men and women also liked to hold happy events in autumn and form new families.
(Love, kiss me)
However, there are obvious changes and differences in marriage culture between ancient and modern times. As far as the way of combination is concerned, we now pay attention to "free love and make our own decisions", while in the past we advocated "the matchmaker makes the decisions and the parents make the decisions".
In the past, it was important to find a suitable partner and get married after getting engaged. What is marriage? Friends after 90 should not know now. Marriage is such a thing: the matchmaker talks about it, the conditions are the same, and after both parents basically agree, they will invite people to get married.
Marriage is to match the zodiac signs of men and women, and then calculate whether they can get married according to their birth horoscope, that is, the year, month, day and time of birth, so marriage is also called "pinching horoscope".
Marriage is mastered by local learned people, such as Mr. Private Pad, or fortune tellers who specialize in this field. Marriage is divided into upper, middle and lower classes, and each class has its own statement-
Marriage: Qinglong black pig is a first-class marriage, and men and women are like guests;
Chinese-style marriage: the red snake and white monkey are full of eyes and the marriage is harmonious;
Marriage: green rabbits and yellow dogs have existed since ancient times, and marriage can last a long time.
(Knot, cute)
When you get married, the most important thing is to understand the factors, and you can't commit the "taboo" on the genus-
White horses give birth to green cows,
Once the sheep and the mouse have rested,
Snakes and tigers are like knives.
Chicken and dog tears.
I broke a taboo and wanted to break up? )
If you commit the above "taboos", it is generally "unsuitable". The above is just a general idea. There is a specific "Wedding Song of the Chinese Zodiac" for reference when getting married-
Black mice and cattle are exactly the same, and they are not separated from each other;
Qinglong black pig marries first-class, and men and women marry well;
Zhang Xianzhong and Bai Feng are more congenial, which is a good reason to go through the door;
The red snake is full of monkeys, and the marriage is ancient;
Red horse and antelope are two roads, and such a marriage is not complicated;
Green rabbits and yellow dogs have existed since ancient times, and marriage can last for a long time.
(12 Zodiac, what are you? )
After watching the zodiac, we should infer whether the women on both sides are "compatible" or "born together" according to their "five elements" and "life signs". The formula for the song is-
Jiazi and Ugly are in the sea,
There was a fire in the furnace of Bingyin Dingmao,
Chen Wu has built a large forest.
Gengwu weixin road roadside soil.
This is inferred from the principles of "native gold, golden water, aquatic wood, wood as fire" and "Jin Kemu, wood as soil, soil as water and water as fire". Only by determining the fate of men and women can we know whether they are "born together" or "compatible".
(Relationship between Five Elements and Gram)
When actually getting married, there are also corresponding song formulas. The Song of the Five Elements can be used for reference-
Husband and wife laughed and laughed, and followed Ji Qingduo.
People are prosperous, wealth is prosperous, and words are harmonious.
Husband, wife and wood keep the room empty, and they are competitive;
The five elements are hard to keep, and there are no children.
Husband and wife are in harmony, and people and Taiwan laugh;
If couples get places, five men and two women have money.
Husband, wife, husband is not too hot, and left his hometown halfway;
There is no language between them, and they often call each other unhealthy.
Husband and wife will live a long life;
Three men and two women are all right, and there is surplus food in the treasure.
My husband, my wife and my gold can't live,
When do you often scold each other? There are no children guarding the room.
Husband and wife are second-class, and two trees are not as good as one.
If the husband and wife grow old together, they must prevent being injured by the old quilt.
Husband and wife grow old together, like mandarin ducks;
The population of Fulu is prosperous, and gold and silver are widely distributed in Man Ku Grange.
Whether it's a husband, a wife or a fire contract, it's all about playing with water and fishing;
Men and women are always conservative, and filial children and grandchildren are good.
Husband, wife and soil are different, noisy and angry;
There are many lawsuits going out, and the couple are restless all day.
Husband and wife gold Xi, rich and glorious;
White hair, strong fields and strong horses, full of gold and silver.
Husband and wife are good couples, happy and glorious in a pile;
Both men and women are rich in gold because they have accumulated virtue and money.
Husband and wife have the same water situation, and the two waters intersect and work together;
Water flows with water only because time is too short.
Husband and wife are not paired, and fire and water meet like tigers and wolves;
Wife, fireman, kill fire with water, if you have money, you will hurt yourself.
Husband and wife don't have long land, and husband and wife will live up to their expectations if they have something to say.
It is difficult to have boys and girls, and it is reasonable to give two copies halfway.
Husband and wife are married in gold, and five couples are divided into two parts.
Men and women are lonely and helpless, and no amount of disasters will last long.
Husband, fire, wife and wood are good couples, happy and glorious together.
Men and women are rich in money, and five men and two women have a good scenery.
Husband, fire and wife are different, and husband and wife soon grow up;
There are not many men and women, but even if they don't die, they will leave their homes.
The husband's fire and the wife's fire compete, and the two fires intersect, and one fire is strong;
Everyone says low is good, but it will be unhealthy in the end.
Husband and wife have money, five men and two women laugh;
The two often entered the red account and always settled in previous lives.
Husband and wife are silkworms, and they are accompanied by food and clothing;
There are five men and two women with wealth, and they were paired in previous lives.
Husband, soil, wife and wood are not a pair, they are not equal;
There are few children in a restless family, and it always hurts to run out of money.
Husband and wife have different waters and cannot compete;
You often make a scene, but you hit a lonely man.
Husband and wife are rich and rich, and gold and silver are full;
Your children and grandchildren are all set before, and the five elements are born together.
Husband and wife are easy to discuss, and their marriage is double;
Children wear gold and jade, and husband and wife live in Shouguang for a hundred years.
(A golden wedding lasts for a hundred years)
After reading the "five elements", combined with whether to commit "taboo", we know that their marriage is incompatible. If fate is mutual and taboo is violated, the traditional view is that it is not suitable for marriage. Stupid parents will definitely stop this marriage when they hear about it. Many lovers in ancient times were separated in this way.
How to see whether the five elements of men and women are appropriate, there is a specific "Five Elements of Life Song"-
Jia Zi B ugly gold in the sea, Bing Yin Ding Mao in the fire.
Chen Wu grew up in Dalinmu, and Wugeng Xinwei Road is next to the soil.
Gold, gold, gold, gold, gold, gold, gold and gold.
Bingzi Dingchou River has been launched, and Wuyin has laid eggs in the city.
Chen Geng Xinsi Fraxinus Gold, Liu Weimu.
Shen Jia Yiyou was born years old, and Xu Bingding lived in a homestead.
Wu zi is ugly and mighty, and he is more yin, new hair, pine and cypress.
There is no gold in the sand of Wu Jia B.
Ding Huo, 1898' s hundred days are flat.
Gengzi ugly on the wall, gold foil is gold.
B has turned off the light, and C has not reached the river.
Wu Shen's hometown is Ozawa, and Geng Xu's Xinhai hairpin is a golden ring.
Ren Zigui ugly mulberry Zhemu, Jia Mao Daxi.
Bing Chen Ding Si is in the sand, and there is no fire in the afternoon.
There is pomegranate wood in Geng Shen's heart, and seawater in Ren Xu Guihai.
(Lift your veil)
It should be noted that the above songs should be combined with the birth situation. If you are born for two years in a row, both men and women have the same fate. For example, A Jiazi was born in the same year, and A Yijiu was born in the same year, both of which were "golden destiny". It is also a "golden destiny", and there are differences.
Do you find it interesting to read the above words? I made public the marriage secret of a fortune teller. If you master these common sense and memorize the songs, you can also tell fortune, get married and cheat people!
Finally, marriage is an important part of traditional marriage culture in China. However, it is hard to say whether it makes sense. If you look at it today, it's all. People who are reading this article don't have to stick to the old man's words-as long as there is love in their hearts, it doesn't matter what "a white horse is a green cow"!
The above is about the marriage between rabbits and the sharing of marriage. What goes best with rabbits after reading them? I hope this will help everyone!