Everyone will meet many kinds of good friends in his life, but he must learn to distinguish which is sincere and which is hypocritical. Those who really help you, you should learn to be grateful; And those who have hurt you, you must know how to avoid. The most important thing in dealing with people is honesty, so as to have a clear conscience. There is such a person who treats you as a friend on the surface, but actually sets you up in private. If you meet such a person, you should break up with him as soon as possible and never contact him again. Good and evil people generally have these characteristics.
1. My roommate Xiao Zhi is very jealous. He usually gets along well with others, but when she returns to the dormitory, she shows her true colors. It is more appropriate for a classmate in the class to associate with her, and that classmate has a good family background. He usually eats famous brands, and my roommate is jealous of her. I have no money, but I must pretend to have it. Usually buy some luxury brands and force his family to give him money. I know my family is not rich, but in order to compare blindly, she exhausted her family.
In order to realize her vanity and jealousy, she calls the so-called big brother on WeChat every day and buys her this and that. After that, one of her best classmates learned about her situation and broke up with her. She said, "I never make friends with selfish people. Why pretend to be rich when you obviously have no money to buy this thing? "
In fact, even if you have no money, I won't abandon you and make friends with you. But you are willing to sell yourself for your jealousy and vanity, so I don't think a friend like you is worth getting along with. I like sincere friends very much, and I don't like people on the surface and behind the scenes. Xiao Zhi not only satisfies her vanity, but also has one thing: she can't let others dress better than her. Only she is good, others can't compare with her. Therefore, in order to be better than others, she is willing to earn her parents' hard-earned money just to satisfy her vanity.
2. Face to face, behind, the day before, the students wrote in the class group: "It's really bad luck recently. After entering a batch of goods, the conclusion can't be sold, and it is still a loss. " Another classmate, Peng, spoke in that group and said, "I tell you, you are not the boss's material yourself." You still have to do it, and now you are miserable. " Actually, Peng likes to pretend. He has no connection with others, but he must pretend to be a good man here.
Such a person is a face, a scapegoat, always thinking that he is very powerful and others can't compare with him. Such people are hypocritical, they put themselves badly and others are very poor. In fact, they have no overall strength at all and like to brag.
3, only care about their own interests, a drink shop in the town is very good, other drink shops are very dissatisfied, all sell milk tea, why others buy and sell so well. So, Xiao Zhao, another milk tea seller, imitated that drink shop and changed its name to be exactly the same as that one in order to get the business back. As a result, it is conceivable that business is still the same as before, and there is no change at all. Such people will reach a conclusion or such a result by any means for their own interests, but they will not go on because of doing so.
In fact, this practice in Xiao Zhao is not good. In order to compete for business, he not only didn't recover the cost, but hurt himself. As a result, it is conceivable that business is not as good as before, and former old customers are reluctant to come to their home. They say that they imitate others, obviously for their own benefit, and the other is jealousy.
I have been thinking about how to go to heaven, and the result is not satisfactory. Such kind-hearted people make money desperately, and it is not easy to succeed after all. And be reviled by others. This kind of incorrect personal behavior should not be imitated. After all, others don't succeed casually, and success must have its reasons.
When you are in trouble, he pretends not to know you. He doesn't remember you very well, and never remembers your goodness. When you have practical value, she will come to please you, but when you have no practical value, she immediately turns her face and pretends not to know you. Before, you didn't complain about what her name told you to do for her, but when you were in trouble and needed her help, she pretended not to hear.
Such people regard you as a friend on the surface, but in fact they regard you as an enemy in private. She only thinks of her own interests and never thinks of others. Once her interests are violated, she will immediately turn her face and pretend not to know you. Such people cheat you and bully you through your gentleness.
No matter how much you have paid for her, such a kind-hearted person will never remember your kindness and will only consider her own interests. A person with these four characteristics is a kind-hearted person. When you meet him, you should stay away from him lest he hurt you.