Those who kill the Japanese Lord (I, this is the Japanese Lord, referring to the heavenly dryness of the birthday) are officials, and the same sex is biased towards officials or called seven kills. For example, you belong to Jia Mu, and Gengjin Kejiamu belongs to the same sex, so Gengjin is called the official of Jia Mu's life, and Jin Xin is also the official of Mu Yi. Because the power of the same sex is great, just like two men fighting mercilessly, the woman fighting fiercely, scratching her hair and so on. Therefore, it is generally believed that partial officials should be controlled, and partial officials can eat injuries. There is also a book saying that it is better to kill Gao than to kill Gao (partial officials are also called seven kills), that is, to kill with seals. In fact, whether it is controlled or not depends on the specific eight characters. There is no need to take favoritism as evil. Killing people is not as good as killing people, just like someone is coming to hit you. Killing means you confront him and you hit him, so no matter who wins, both sides lose. Killing means that you make peace with him and turn his anger against you into strength to help you (just as we persuade the landlord to join our revolution). Therefore, killing people is of course high.
See you said that the marriage was bumpy because the woman was ordered by the official to kill her husband, so it is estimated that you are a woman. In fact, whether it is a official or a partial official, there is no difference between good and bad, depending on the specific eight characters. Don't think that their love life is bumpy, and so is their career.