Being a good teacher is not the same as being a teacher. A person who sets an example has the power to educate others and help them grow. Such people are convincing and even respectable. Being a good teacher means that you don't have this ability, but you want to educate and help others. Although the starting point is right, what you say or do can't convince others, and others can't trust such people. Being a good teacher is actually a character defect!
Mencius said: People's trouble lies in being a good teacher.
A good teacher is often a warm-hearted person, who doesn't consider the problem comprehensively and has no profound knowledge, but often likes to show his ability in front of others. This kind of person is not very popular in social situations.
How can we avoid becoming a good teacher?
1, listen more and talk less. People are born with two ears and one mouth, which means you should listen more and talk less. Don't express your views in public, listen carefully to others' views on things, and then compare your own views. What are the differences? You need to improve your opinion. When you encounter different opinions and ideas, you should consult and discuss privately with an open mind, and don't argue in public. If you speak at the company's regular meeting first, then your opening remarks must have the words "Zhao Yu"; If you speak in the back, try to praise the person in front before putting forward your own views.
2. The major should be profound. When others ask you questions, you should be modest and answer them enthusiastically. If you don't know what you're not good at, ask others humbly. If someone asks you what you are not good at, answer that you are not good at it, and you can't help pretending to know how to teach others.
Learn to be a man and do things from people you respect and respect. Growing up, there must be many people who are your role models and idols. Learn their bright spots and their ways of doing things. Although you may not be like this, it is very helpful to improve your personal charm.
4. Always take some notes. Call it a fault diary, write down your usual mistakes and mistakes, including typos, and read them at any time to avoid making the same mistakes again; Another book records what you need to do or achieve. Let's call it a goal diary, and you can also look at it at any time to see if you have achieved or achieved your goals.
People are never familiar with this world. Young people can forgive their mistakes, but people can't make young people's mistakes in middle age. This is a bit unreasonable. Being a man is actually a university. Ceng Zi said: I save myself three times a day. Everyone should reflect on himself many times every day, so as to make progress and become what he wants.