Can couples be happy halfway? There are some happy people and some unhappy people. Some people are born with the information of second marriage, and the second marriage is happier than the first marriage, which was discussed in the article before Xingyi numerology. To tell the truth, in this tempting society, everyone is likely to have marital problems, but many people born with the information of unhappy marriage are more likely to have unhappy marriage.
For example, a woman's eight-character life usually takes an official to kill a star as her husband. If an official kills a god, then she hates being beaten. If she is beaten or dies in vain, she will inevitably go to divorce. Of course, if you are patient, you will be noisy at best and will not get divorced. However, if the husband and wife agree with each other, it is easy to have health problems without divorce. Because people are very uncomfortable every day, their mood determines their health. If they do this for a long time, they will easily get sick and even have disasters.
For another example, a woman who injures an official every day is born with a bad temper, is out of control and likes freedom. If she meets a nosy husband, she will fight against him every day, which will lead to marital disharmony. If the husband can't stand it, it will inevitably lead to a marriage crisis. If such a woman can improve herself and change her temper, she will be happy in marriage, but people will know how to cherish it after losing it, so divorce is a great blow to them, which is not all bad, because only in this way will they know how to reflect and change. As I said in an article before, the biggest crisis in marriage is not temptation, but invariability in marriage. When you learn to reflect and change, the gas field between husband and wife will circulate, and the couple will come back to life.
Therefore, many married men and women who have suffered setbacks in their marriage are more considerate of others in their second marriage, and at the same time, they are more able to reflect on themselves in time. When encountering problems, they are no longer endless quarrels between husband and wife, but calmly analyzing the problems, and both husband and wife discuss and negotiate to solve the problems. This is actually the way for husband and wife to get along. At the same time, halfway couples no longer have high expectations for marriage because they have had the experience of first marriage before, and understand that marriage is an ordinary life, that is, a little thing every day. When people are calm, the way of looking at problems will change. The purpose of halfway couples together is very clear, that is, to take care of each other. Therefore, halfway couples must be happy if they manage well.
so, how to manage a half-way marriage? The following problems have been solved, and I believe other problems can be solved easily.
First of all, it's money: although money is not everything, it's absolutely impossible for this society to have no money. Therefore, halfway couples must agree on money, because there are many situations in which halfway couples are uneasy about each other's money, so before they get together, they must negotiate the details of money, whether the expenses of ordinary life are AA system or borne by one party, whether the money of both parties is managed together or separately, and so on. These are very realistic issues.
Secondly, there is the problem of children. It's fine without children. This child with children is a big problem that must be dealt with well, especially in daily life. Everyone cares about their children, but after re-establishing a family, parents should grasp a degree. Don't be afraid that their children will suffer hardships and accidentally go astray. As a result, he neglected his partner and hurt his feelings, and the child suffered more. If this is the case, remarried couples are not good at dealing with the relationship between children, then the family will break up even faster.
there is another topic that is not on the table, but it is also a problem that human beings must experience: sex. The so-called eroticism is also a must for half-way couples, neither too much nor a little. However, generally speaking, men in remarried couples are more concerned about the woman's sexual ability and always regard this as a crime of "impeaching" his wife. As everyone knows, women are more concerned about whether men are deeply affectionate and really treat themselves. Therefore, when you re-enter the besieged city, you should openly express your wishes and thoughts, and don't guess each other in boredom to disrupt the battle.
Finally, both parties must manage each other's feelings well. When reorganizing the family, the simpler the marriage motive, the happier the husband and wife's life. The hardest thing to understand about remarriage is sincerity. Many people "suffered losses" in their first marriage, fearing that they would continue to suffer after remarriage, so they changed their ways to hide their true thoughts. Some people, unable to stand the running-in of remarriage, are always thinking about "retreating", and when they are slightly dissatisfied, they frown and are ready to run away. No matter whether you are married for the first time or remarried, you need to be sincere in your marriage, instead of deserters who run away when they encounter problems. You will make more efforts, have more confidence in solving problems, learn to persist, learn to get along and learn to accept.