2, the five elements are prosperous, and yin and yang are harmonious and auspicious. Birthdays within 100 days, especially those born in the same month of the same year, are even worse, because the aura of Yin and Yang is highly similar, lacking the complementarity of the five elements and the harmony of Yin and Yang, and there is mutual exclusion, similar to the same sex repulsion of a compass.
In fact, this is a superstition. We should believe that there is no such thing as mutual respect. If you like each other and really love each other, then you should put yourself in each other's shoes in your life. Everything is based on each other's feelings and we can appreciate each other. What is appropriate and what is not? All quarrels after marriage are because you can't really understand each other and make sacrifices to each other.
So it finally comes down to the eight-character disagreement between us. Actually, it's all your fault. You don't live well, or one of you doesn't cherish what you have now. What's wrong with messing around? You live your own life. Don't make excuses when things are bad, and don't find your own problems.
Let's see what's important about the marriage of peers.
1. Will people of the same age get married?
1, you all have the same fate and are easy to get along with.
As long as they love each other, integrate with each other, understand each other and tolerate each other, they are a very happy couple of the same age.
It is also easy to quarrel, because you are all on the same side. Remember, when either party is angry, don't argue with him, otherwise it will hurt your feelings for a long time.
What's the point of getting married at the same age?
A researcher once followed 1500 couples and found that couples whose men are five years older than women are the least likely to quarrel and have the lowest divorce rate, only 1/6 of other marriages. According to the research of Vienna University, the man is 4-6 years older than the woman, which can not only meet the man's reproductive needs, but also make the woman feel more secure. They have the most children, one more than other couples on average, and their married life is also the happiest.
Of course, many women like to marry men of the same age, because people of the same age are easier to communicate, and it is not difficult to communicate whether they are living habits or ways of doing things. Sometimes they can understand it at a glance. However, the biggest problem with marrying peers is that boys mature later than girls, so when two people are together, most girls will take care of boys more and make girls feel tired easily. In addition, the personality among peers is more distinct, which is easy to cause quarrels and cold wars.
Second, why is the age difference 100 days?
Note: in the same year, it means the same period; A hundred days, not a hundred days, is a long story.
In fact, marriage is a matter of two people, and feelings come first. If you believe in superstition, you will be unlucky in the end. Consider your emotional foundation first. As long as you have good feelings, why care what others say? The so-called taboo is something without scientific basis. I've heard of it. Why take it seriously?
Meeting, knowing each other and getting married among thousands of people is a kind of fate. The most important thing for couples to get along with is sincerity. Marriage lies in management, and mutual understanding and accommodation will lead to a better life.