When love really comes, do age and material things need to be considered?
From ancient times to the present, love and materiality have been the directions that literary and artistic creators explore. "Life is precious, but love is more valuable" is to express the preciousness of love. Since it is more precious than one's own life, the creator's respect for love at that time was extremely high in comparison.
So in love, does age matter? I don't think it's an actual obstacle, but it's a major factor in measuring whether two people truly love each other.
There is a folk saying that everyone has heard: "A female freshman holds a golden rooster; a female sophomore holds a golden slam; a female junior holds a gold brick; a female senior holds a golden rooster; a female freshman holds a golden brick; a female senior holds a golden rooster; a female sophomore holds a golden brick , Sai old mother; A girl who is in the sixth grade is not happy enough; a girl who is in the seventh grade is smiling; a girl who is in the eighth grade is sure to get rich; a girl who is in the ninth grade is sure to have everything; a girl who is in the tenth grade is worthy of everything.”
This folk proverb shows that in the past, it was not uncommon for the woman to be older than the man, an old wife and a young husband.
However, in ancient times, old wives and young husbands or old husbands and young wives, in addition to the true and essential pursuit of love, many were due to other factors. Comparatively speaking, modern materials are abundant, and people are pursuing more pure love more and more.
In ancient times, no one made irresponsible remarks. Why, in the increasingly open modern world, do people have different opinions because of the age gap? After all, streaming media is developing more rapidly now, which leads to some subjective opinions being guided by others, allowing more intentional people to attack others based on their age.
Faye Wong is 11 years older than Nicholas Tse, that is, only 11 years old. Both of them have been married respectively, are adults, and understand their own inner thoughts, so there is no question of accepting or not accepting her. As long as they have her in their hearts, how can age be an insurmountable gap?
Perhaps the difference was due to the fact that when I was young, I could not let go of secular ideas, which led to the two of them having their own marriages. Later, they were loyal to each other and their families. However, due to various reasons, the two of them fell out. Their families are broken up, and there are stories that everyone knows.
The two people who are single again can naturally continue to be together. There seems to be nothing that others need to understand.
Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse have the same music hobbies, and they are also leaders among them. The two people will not be separated in art because of the age gap, but because of their artistic talents. , the accumulation of emotions. If young people still worry about age and material things, then if the two of them are extremely materially rich, each has children, and art attracts them, there is absolutely no reason not to be together.
To say that age is an obstacle between the two would be a bit picky. I believe that in real society there will be many marriages similar to Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse, or there will be old husbands and young wives like Mr. Yang.
It was only because the affair between Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong caused so much fuss that everyone knew about it and was speculated by the gossips. More similar love is also running forward in the ordinary like normal love.
The world has become so open today. When people pursue various affirmative movements, they will impose their own ideas on others. In fact, there is nothing that the parties involved cannot understand better than outsiders. Only the feet know whether the shoes fit properly. Outsiders try to speculate and do not pay attention to the opinions of the parties involved. They just draw conclusions based on their own assumptions. Take care of your own heart and do your best. Do your own thing well, as long as love does not violate the will of society and the law, it is protected love.
They are like this, and so are you. If you meet the right person, ask yourself first!