Although the judgment of the older generation has no scientific basis, the older generation has formed a habit and passed it down from generation to generation. Of course, I don't agree with the method of the older generation, because their algorithm is just an accident, and there is no scientific logic at all, so I often tell people around me that instead of believing in metaphysics, it is better to learn more psychology and get to know a person on the basis of science.
Sister Wang told me the other day to judge a book by its cover.
Sister Wang said that she often told her daughter that seeing a man clearly is more accurate than eating! A person's eating habits can often reveal his character.
Sister Wang said that the quality of a man's eating depends not on the speed of his eating, nor on the number of procedures he eats, but on his behavior at the dinner table.
Her parents told her from an early age that there were many rules at the dinner table. If you eat at home, you can eat out at will. You should know how to be polite, know how to be modest, and know how to respect the old and love the young. Otherwise, it is uneducated and will be looked down upon.
Sister Wang said that she had seen someone desperately slide the turntable in front of the big round table and put everything they like into the bowl; She has seen people who eat and drink loudly, regardless of others; I've also seen people treat people to dinner, but they ordered a table of their favorite dishes; I even met all kinds of swearing people at the dinner table because of a little thing.
Sister Wang said that in fact, the dining table is a river and lake, where you can see all kinds of life, and you can also see a man's character from eating.
A man who is always picky when eating, regardless of others, is doomed to be selfish and has no empathy; A person who eats, doesn't like or even takes it out on others is usually a person who is not serious and doesn't know how to respect.
Sister Wang said that men who eat well know more about tolerance and respect.
Sister Wang said that a man who eats well will not only care about himself, but also consider the feelings and considerations of others when eating, so a man who eats well knows more about tolerance and respect.
It is said that "what is more terrible than three views is that three meals are inconsistent."
People who eat well know how to respect each other. Even if the other person's food really doesn't suit his own taste, he won't be furious and disgusted, and he won't hurt others because he knows how to be tolerant. It's not easy to understand others. No one is perfect, everyone will make mistakes, so be tolerant.
At the dinner table, a man who eats well knows how to respect others and put himself in others' shoes.
Sister Wang said that a man who eats well knows how to cherish and know how to live.
Sister Wang said that a person's attitude towards food is also an attitude towards life. A man who cherishes and respects food is destined to be a man who can live. They usually cherish life because they are such people.
At the dinner table, a man doesn't eat well, not because he has a sense of ceremony and formality, but because he has an attitude towards food. A person who doesn't even cherish food is destined to be a person who knows how to cherish it.
My parents told us from an early age: "When weeding is at noon, sweat drips down the soil. Who knows that Chinese food is hard? " Cherish food not because of poverty, nor because of meanness, but because of a cherished attitude towards life.
Sister Wang told me that judging a man's character is to look at the way he eats, because it can completely expose a man's real situation. Even the best actor can't pretend to eat. He can pretend once, but he can't pretend forever. He'll always be exposed.
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, I quite agree with Sister Wang's point of view. Judge a person not by his looks, but by the way he eats.
Mr. Ma Weidou once shared such a story:
A father has dinner with his son and friends. After eating, the father said to his son:
"I think you should not be close friends."
The son asked why.
Father explained: You can tell what kind of person he is from the way he eats.
Father said, "You see he has the habit of being picky about food. He likes to put chopsticks in food and then turn it up. He helped himself to food twice and didn't care about others at all. This kind of person is selfish. "
Sure enough, the friend of the son behind did something ungrateful and left him.
In fact, a man's character can be seen from the way he holds chopsticks, from the way he eats, and from the etiquette at the dinner table.
Therefore, to see a man's personality clearly depends on how he eats, which is definitely better than looking at his face.