Scholars do not think so. Most of them are romantic. If you shouted "I love you" to the right person in the old days, the other person would probably think you were frivolous and more elegant, and might even stomp your feet in disgust and throw you to a smelly rascal.
Many chapters in The Book of Songs are regarded as love story bibles. The ancient folk customs are simple and tenacious, and these people naturally have a primitive vitality when talking about love stories. Did you say, "Even if I don't go, Zi Ning won't listen?" The girl who went out like this was so angry that she put her head in her hands, but she became more and more affectionate. She asked her lover why she suddenly lost news. Her lover must have been rubbed by her straightforward temper and lost her temper. How dare she come to her easily?
And "Seeing a gentleman, Hu Yun doesn't like it." It's so obscure Jin Yong also quoted these eight words when describing the love-hate relationship between Cheng Ying and Yang Guo. After Yang Guo was injured, he woke up and saw Cheng Ying rubbing the paper repeatedly on his desk. He asked her what she was writing. Cheng Ying turned around and said with a smile, "I'm practicing calligraphy, but I can't practice it well." Yang Guo walked over and found that all the papers should be "seeing a gentleman, Hu Yun doesn't like it." So much for these eight characters. That unspeakable heart has become these eight words tactfully, without euphemism and rhyme in it.
Then there is "the white dew is frost, and the so-called Iraqis are on the water side." The fog is too heavy. Teresa Teng once sang this song adapted from Qiong Yao in his early years, which made the women's sadness moving. However, how can it be discovered by women? So, I always think this is out of my imagination. Later, Li Jian finally sang this song, and this person's image was finally formed. He is a barefoot man with long hair, looking for something on the river bank. He has all three, namely, immortality, loneliness and melancholy. Li Jian sings very vividly.
If you feel upset, play a sweeter song, "Out of its east gate, there are women like clouds, though they are like clouds, I miss them." The young man in love scratched his scalp and blushed, indicating his attitude towards his sweetheart. Hey! You see, there are hundreds of beautiful women coming in and out of the East Gate, but none of them are my favorite. The woman I like must be the most special. As a result, thousands of beautiful women became cannon fodder for this young man's firm stance. This love story is no less than "weak water is 3 thousand, I only take one scoop." Killing power, these boys have grasped the essence of love, that is loyalty! So he must have succeeded in his confession, although I don't know if he got lost in the beauty in the end.
If the love story in The Book of Songs is a simple narrative similar to courtship, then the love letters of modern literati may evolve more perfectly. From the beginning of love, knowing each other and falling in love makes people feel sweet, elegant and beautiful, and there is a confrontation between the lines. A layman who has never been in love can also achieve a perfect experience in the letters of these literati, assuming that your soul is still pure.
Wang Xiaobo's love letter to Li Yinhe is extremely interesting to me. It can be said that Wang Xiaobo is "stupid" in his love letter. This person with deep thinking and a sense of mission in his words is a straightforward child in front of Li Yinhe. This kind of undisguised deep love often makes people laugh. His self-deconstruction and self-reflection in the article make people feel more real, and it is really a very happy thing to like such a soft Wang Xiaobo.
He likes to say, "Hello, Li Yinhe!" It's really naive to think about this beginning, but every time I think about this sentence, I see Wang Xiaobo give the whole universe to Li Yinhe, like an urchin, watching his beloved greet at the door, full of Wang Xiaobo's demeanor.
He said, "Boys like girls, but no one likes you more than me."
When I am down, "I really don't know how to get close to you. You seem to be an unreachable goal. I can't figure it out, and I can't catch up. I sat on the ground and cried. "
When I love deeply, "I will give you my whole soul, together with its quirks, small temper, flickering, 1,800 bad habits." Really annoying, only a little bit good, I love you. "
Occasionally a little surprise, "I never dreamed that I wrote that letter on the staff, did I?" The staff came by accident, and so did you. But my letter to you is worth writing on the staff. I hope you and I can sing an endless song. "
Love letters are the best destination for a writer's soul. Love to the depths, time and space can not cool that fiery heart. They will go to the grave with this passion until they meet love, so they have "your courage and I are enough to deal with this world!" " This feeling of living alone is among them.
"I don't want a son, I want a daughter-just one, just like yours."
Qian Zhongshu is not good at sweet talk. When he said it, it was really touching, short and affectionate. Any woman in the world wants to hear her husband say such a sentence.
"I am, I am Song Qingru's supremacist."
Zhu Shenghao wrote a love letter to Song Qingru for nine years and finally got married. Zhu Shenghao has excellent literary attainments and writes love stories repeatedly. Unlike Wang Xiaobo's escape, Zhu Shenghao's love story is full of rhythm and beauty, which is similar to "I want to write poetry, rain, and homesickness at night, but I can't write you." There are many such sentences.
No matter what style of writing, there is only one core, and that is the soft heart when loving people.
My university is an engineering school, with more men than women. Every time I study at night, I will hear a loud confession downstairs, which is nothing more than "XXX, I love you!" " "Such a sentence. Every time I see such a scene, I can't help laughing. I'm thinking, these boys really don't understand romance.
Natsume Soseki once asked students to translate the sentence "I love you", and the students translated it into "I love you". Natsume Soseki said it should be implicit, which translates as "the moonlight is really beautiful tonight".
If you find this difficult to understand, let's talk about Wong Kar-wai, the director who can best express I love you in lines. What impressed me most was that in In the Mood for Love, Yun asked Li Zhen, "If I had an extra ticket, would you go with me?" Yun is a novelist, and his character is introverted and forbearing. This sentence is actually more like a confession. I love you, will you come with me? If you say so, how can you shoot such a classic shot? When lizhen sat there in front of the light, this sentence was all she could think of. This blank makes the emotion of a chaotic tragedy burn more brilliantly. In the end, it is a swan Song Like as a flower in the background. This is the charm of implicit blank space.
In fact, even Zhang Ailing, who has always been indifferent, is very good at talking about love. When expressing the loss and reserve of her lover's not coming, she wrote: "The sound of rain is like living by a stream. I'd rather it rains every day, thinking that you can't come because of it. " She is lonely and transparent, and in love, she can also "humble to bloom in the dust."
Do you think love words are really just romantic? When you cherish a person enough, all tenderness will be fermented by thoughts, just like observing an apple tree day and night, knowing when it blooms and when it is most beautiful in the light and shadow, because this just right understanding enables you to look directly at each other's souls. At that moment, from blooming to silence, it was like finding a stone with the same texture. You are very happy to meet, and you sigh happily: "Hey! I like you like a bear in spring. "