2. If the words on the tombstone are wrongly engraved, wear them off. If you just grind the wrong words, it will be unfair and disrespectful. So you have to grind all the words out. If there are patterns and bumps, it will be difficult, and you can also dig out typos.
There are three points to be made clear on the tombstone:
1, date of birth, who needs to engrave the deceased, and the exact time of his death. If it is to engrave a monument for ancestors, you can check the genealogy, which is generally recorded, but now many families may not find the genealogy or have no records. And if it is a relative who died soon, this will be recorded when the deceased dies, which is very convenient to find.
2. It is also necessary to engrave the names of the descendants of the deceased, that is, later generations. However, in some places, it is still controversial whether to engrave the names of dead people such as daughters, divorced and remarried, and how to arrange the names. Fortunately, these are things that people can decide for themselves, as long as the family members negotiate clearly.
3. Make clear the direction of the deceased at that time, and remember the general direction, not necessarily the exact direction. Of course, the monument needs to be restored, and the cost is not small. In addition, some graves are on high mountains or in places where traffic is particularly inconvenient. It takes a lot of manpower and money to send the monument up and stand it up. These all need a family to discuss and negotiate. Of course, when it comes to the economy, it is easy to produce contradictions, which is also the reason for many family disputes.