As I said before, the most important thing in marriage is long-term. Two people can stay together at most. This is the best situation, two people can be together forever. If not, it will be safer to marry a woman whose husband has died, because the husband has died and the woman is passively remarried, which can at least prove that there is no problem with the quality of the woman; But if the husband has passed away, it doesn't make any sense, because if the husband divorced before his death, then two men and women must have made some mistakes, and this kind of mistake is most likely made by women, so you must be careful when you meet such women. If you marry such a woman, it is inherently risky, because she may continue to marry you.
You don't need to find the most beautiful wife, but you must find someone with a kind heart. When you get married, you will intrigue all day, and no one can stand it. Those who give money don't give money, but love Chongqing? I think this truth should be understood, otherwise the face value will not exist, and then the marriage will not exist. Would you rather marry a widowed husband than a living Chinese wife? Do you think so?
Sometimes, I feel that the high bachelor rate of young men in rural areas is inseparable from some old and ignorant ideas of rural people. In the final analysis, it is also the wrong idea of the older generation, not because of lack of money or ugliness.
Widowed? Have a living Chinese wife? What do you mean, respectively? This is also easy to understand. The woman whose husband died is a widow? Widows without men. A divorced woman living alone is a living Chinese wife? Divorced female friend whose ex-husband is still alive. It is human nature to be born, sick, sick, happy and sad, but in the eyes of former rural people, widowed? Have a living Chinese wife? There is a big difference. As for being widowed, don't marry a living China wife? Statement.
Young men, the mortality rate is naturally not comparable to the divorce rate. So widowed? No living Chinese wife? There are many people. This is a test of some rural bachelors' views on right and wrong in choosing a spouse. Because it's the first time they got married? Women are less likely to consider a second marriage? Women come to end the life of the single king. However, the rural elders have instructions that they would rather marry a widowed man than a living China wife? . They think widowed? Than a living Chinese wife? Okay, widowed? No living Chinese wife? There are many things. Widowed? Without her ex-husband's entanglement, it is easy to get on the track of normal marriage and live the life of China's wife? It's hard to say that she will be entangled with her ex-husband, or that the divorced woman is because of her bad personality.
Everything has a cause and effect, not just a woman. Widowed? It's a woman's misfortune, and a living China wife? Isn't that right? In addition, at present, the proportion of young male bachelors in rural areas is still high. Who will consider the reasons why women are widowed and single? It's good to have a woman who thinks highly of herself. Do you still want to be picky? Really? I know that the initiative is not in the hands of this man now.
Therefore, the old saying is very unreliable. What would rather marry than marry is prejudice, and I don't know how many people will be killed. It seems that you are poor for three generations? This statement is not unreasonable, but it does have another meaning.
It makes sense. Widows remarry without a husband. If two people are congenial, they will wholeheartedly follow their current husband and have nothing to do with their former husband's family! Even form a relationship with the former husband's family! Help the family to be stable and harmonious! Have a Chinese wife?
It means divorced. Divorced people are afraid of having anything to do with their ex, either because of the support of their children or because of the old love. In real life, remarriage is not desirable, and there are many remarried people! However, the outlook on life and values in modern society has undergone great changes. As long as there is true feelings, whether it is a widow or China's wife? , are not too big a problem! Or do you decide your own marriage? Feelings first, you can't just follow the old rules!