Cancer--Libra
Cancer and Libra use water elements and air to form a square and a 4-11 Sun Sign Pattern. As with all 4-10 vibrations, their relationships are some of the most interesting and challenging of all signs. But they're also the hardest to get along with, and it's this that makes their relationship interesting and challenging. Because only when they overcome the countless differences between the two sides, the reward they receive is harmony and harmony.
The relationship between Cancer and Libra is what their lives are all about, as their relationship forces them to learn the hard way how to compromise with each other. Only by mastering this basic lesson can you get happiness. Compared with the kind of victory that takes shortcuts, this kind of happiness is at a much higher level, because for these two constellations, winning this battle and understanding each other is the key to success. A priceless goal. Of course, there will be conflicts between them at times, but time will smooth out those rough edges. If both parties work tirelessly, then in the end you will feel satisfied that you have successfully conquered your own nature and that of the other person.
It is impossible for the two people to immediately see the halo on each other's head. They're more likely to see an imaginary crescent tip, and that's because they're not trying hard enough. They yielded before human nature, and it was their destiny to strive to imitate the angels. The first lesson Cancer and Libra must learn is: don't try to be understood by others, but try to understand others. Both should do this. This is the only key to open the mysterious door between two people. Behind the door, there is peace and beauty.
Cancer people can feel many things that cannot be expressed in words. They have an uneasy premonition about the growth process that is both joyful and sad, and full of memories of the past. They feel all this, but they don't talk about it because they are sentimental. When the moon's cycle changes affect their emotions, they cry out of inexplicable fear, feeling helpless like the waves that are unable to break free from the moon's control. Sometimes, Cancerians are silent and lost in thought. At other times, they use their infectious sense of humor to relieve themselves from their fears and, of course, make those around them happy.
When Cancer and Libra are put together, a beautiful picture will appear. Libras love to laugh, and Cancer's wonderful sense of humor is right up their alley. When they get along, whether it is home or the office, the atmosphere will be full of joy and joy. This is because fate often places the 4-10 type combination in a situation related to family and career. They seem to get along more harmoniously with relatives in the family circle or with business partners than with friends, lovers or partners.
In fact, although they can be violent at times, the planets that rule them - the Moon and Venus respectively - are compassionate. Therefore, Cancer and Libra have more sexual empathy than the other 4-10 Sun Sign Patterns, and it is much easier for these two to communicate with each other emotionally than in other, more explicit ways. The problem is that it is not an easy thing to break out of Cancer's shell and receive the true emotions of Cancer people. He was always well protected from harm, and he needed more careful sympathy and comfort.
Libras are generous and can comfort Cancer people's emotions with a gentle attitude. But unfortunately, the gentleness and tolerance of Libra's nature are not enough, because Cancer men or women (or children) are unusually sensitive. Although Libras, as air signs, are generous-hearted and logical, they have a hard time recognizing the sensitivities of Cancers or anyone else. Librans make excellent lawyers and wise judges, but to be fair, they are without exception poor psychologists. Libra people never care whether there is another meaning hidden behind someone's words, they only care about what is on the surface. This attitude can never get inside the Cancerian's hard shell. If Libras want to know why Cancers always sway from side to side when walking, they must express their deepest sympathy for Cancers.
The main difference between Libra and Cancer is that Libras are other-centered, while Cancers are self-centered. It sounds like Cancers are more selfish than Libras. This should be true, because it is. Generally speaking, Libras care more about their friends and the world than themselves. These people are easy-going and outgoing, while Cancerians are more introverted - the ones who know how to protect themselves best. It's true that many Cancerians are gentle, imaginative, sensitive, and generally very likeable. Even so, their primary concern is themselves.
Focusing only on yourself is an unhealthy emotional attitude, which often leads to a decline in health, so Cancer often gets sick. Diseases in Libras are usually caused by a dissolute lifestyle, overeating and overworking. This will cause Cancer to make a fuss, and they will warn Libra that that lifestyle is like a candle burning at both ends.
People of these two zodiac signs often have opposite attitudes towards money.
Libras are not extravagant and wasteful. In their view, money is not very important. For Cancer, financial security and emotional security are equally important and cannot be underestimated. Having only one of them without the other One will make Cancer people feel melancholy inside. If neither of them is responsible, it will be more terrible for them than losing maternal love. But this sad thing rarely happens. However, when Cancer people have these two kinds of security, they can magically become the kindest and gentlest people. Anyone, including Libras, will turn to them for help. Libra people often have a lot of demands on others, and they always expect everyone to express their personality traits without reservation.
Although Cancer people are in poor health and have a weak constitution, their will to survive is much stronger than Libra people. When something goes wrong on the ship's deck, Libras endure the torment of a possible shipwreck under psychological pressure, and are in a bad mood due to disappointment. When the scales are thrown off balance, they can become seriously ill. Cancer people's illnesses always last for a long time, but precisely because they treat everything cautiously, their desire to survive is very strong. The Cancerian will cling blindly to the cabin and never let go in order to save his precious life. Sometimes, Libra will remind Cancer that instead of clinging to the cabin, it's better to let go and let it go. Let the Giants give up their bad habits, wrong ideas, and unfounded fears.
This invisible tug-of-war affects the balance of Libra's nervous system for a long time. It can cause them mental fatigue and eventually lead to Libra's unhappiness, not to mention depression. They have a cheerful, optimistic nature. In nature, too much water will make the air humid, while the right amount of water will make the air fresh.
It is a waste of time for Libra to try to hide a secret from Cancer. Cancer people will do whatever it takes to pry out the secrets they want to know. He'll ask, "Tell me frankly, what does so-and-so think of me?" Libra replies, "I don't know." Then Cancer says, "That's not fair. There are many times I've offered you The information you need, how can you say that?" Then, the Libra man became hesitant, then sighed and gave in. He tells Cancer what he wants to know, being careful to say both the good and the bad. After hearing the answer he wants, the Cancer man may say bitterly: "That's what I thought, I will never talk to that person again." Then he will walk away angrily. Libra people always want to be a person who creates a peaceful environment, but unexpectedly turn into an instigator. For this reason, he will almost cry. Cancerians are unusually sensitive to the slightest criticism, and they can cunningly get people to tell the whole truth, and then either feel hurt and cry, or get angry.
The best way to make Libra and Cancer play harmonious music together is to constantly praise each other's strengths, even if the two people's strengths are completely opposite.
Once Cancer and Libra truly learn to appreciate each other, amazing and wonderful results can occur.
Cancer (female) - Libra (male)
Love can turn a sentimental, willful woman into a lovable, careful and gentle girl. If she happens to fall in love with a Libra man, she will worry about him. For example, he works too hard; he plays too tired; the food he eats is not nutritious; he drinks too much; he doesn't get enough rest; he always lets others take advantage of his good heart; he is too easy-going if he runs in the rain, he will catch a cold; he can't keep throwing away his umbrella because buying an umbrella costs money, etc. Cancer people are particularly concerned about these. She might give a Libra a heating blanket on his birthday because she cares about his comfort. In fact, it was a hint that if she slept next to him in winter, it would definitely be much warmer and more comfortable than an electric blanket.
Since Libra is a masculine Sun sign, he can rule her very quickly. But he is ruled by the feminine planet Venus, which allows him to understand her mood swings caused by the moon. He can make her feel emotionally safe and willing to devote her loyalty, patience and love to him.
Their personalities and tempers are very different. If he is a typical Libra man, he will not waste his time in a relationship before marriage. When a man ruled by Venus is strongly attracted to a woman and does something, he will think about it in his mind, and then find all kinds of reasonable reasons for what he should do, and finally he decides that the only way to overcome the temptation is The solution is to give in to it (this is the logic of Libra being driven by romance).
If he is a natural Libra man, or the pattern between their signs is good, he will make a wise decision to marry this fragile, sensitive Cancer girl. She cared about him so much that it sent shockwaves through him (and when you really think about it, you can't accuse him of being tempted). If the shape formed between their horoscopes is a square or an opposite shape, he may also make this wise decision for the sake of spiritual calling. However, we must remember that if they have the ability to turn discord into harmony, they will receive a sublime love that is worth it.
If you say to Cancers and Libras, I have brought you some good news and bad news, do you want to hear the good news first or the bad news first?
Libra: I want to hear the good news first.
Cancer: Let’s hear the bad news first!
The two men's different answers to this question have shown that the two men will hold very different views on many things.
No other zodiac sign is as pessimistic in nature as Cancer, and no other zodiac sign is as cheerful and optimistic in nature as Libra.
As his optimism and her pessimism are poured out of the same teapot day after day (and night after night), her influence on him will gradually make him less optimistic. Blind is more wise, and his influence on her will gradually make her pessimism less depressing and more hopeful.
But in essence, optimism cannot be less blind or become wiser, otherwise it cannot be called optimism. Similarly, pessimism cannot be less depressing, because despondency is still despondency, and it has nothing to do with its degree. Of course, pessimism cannot be full of hope, otherwise it cannot be called pessimism.
You can't expect them to solve this problem through an exchange of inner personalities, because a pessimistic Cancer woman will be a lack of joy, and a completely optimistic Libra man will lack caution, which is not good for It's even more unrealistic for her. Maybe changing each other up a bit would help. She might warn him that too much (that's the key word) optimism can cloud reality, a warning that makes his unrealistic daydreams disappear, and she also wants his dreams to come true, because She loves him, and in return, he will tell her that excessive (this is the key word) pessimism will make her needlessly lose a lot of happiness that the two of them can enjoy. He hopes that she can avoid this tragedy because he Love her too. The solution is to rely on the balance of Libra.
Emotionally, she is possessive, while he yearns for freedom. This seems to be an irresolvable conflict, but it is not as terrible as they imagined, as long as they truly love each other. She's not possessive because she wants to control you, but because fears from her childhood are still haunting her. She worries that the love you give her is illusory. It might suddenly disappear one day, leaving her alone, and she would lose love and protection. Of course you can realize that when you disappear from her sight, this panic will continue to grow in her heart, because she was taught as a little girl that "what the eyes cannot see does not stay in the heart." Frightened by lies. As for him, he is not yearning for freedom because he wants to leave you or fall in love with someone else. He was born under the sign of air. When the air has been kept in the room and cannot flow, it will not be fresh. When your lover disappears from sight, let the wrong lies go aside. You should realize that "magnanimity" The meaning of the sentence "makes people broad-minded" is that only love is eternal. If he doesn't love you, then you are really in danger of losing him when he disappears from your sight. Or, if he doesn't love you, you will lose him anyway. This should be a good thing for you because you can let someone into your life who truly loves you. If he really loves you, he will miss you even more when you are not together.
A Libra man who loves a Cancer woman and understands her will invite her to go with her, even if he soon discovers that it is a boring trip and far less comfortable than being alone. People should remember that love requires frequent sex. Not being together often and not being able to enjoy the joy of discovery together are the enemies of happiness, so don't worry about the stereotypes in society.
How can we enjoy the joy of discovery together if we see each other at home every time? Does discovering that your baby has a tooth or that your house is leaking count as joys of discovery? If he sincerely invites her to come with him, he will be surprised to find that he really needs her. If her inexplicable panic disappeared. Her possessiveness would disappear as well, and he might wonder why she didn't accept his invitation if she told him she didn't want to go with him because she had a lot to do and she had to get home quickly. These two people should also learn to retreat as they learn to move forward. Lovers should always keep each other unpredictable.
Their sex life may start out like a gift from the angels, but it may end up leaving them feeling empty inside. To prevent this tragedy from happening, preventive measures need to be taken in the first place. Her seemingly endless suspicions might make him feel powerless, and this very thought would actually make him powerless in his life. She is full of fantasies about emotion and romance. If he lacks enough insight into this need of hers, it will make her hide in her crab shell to seek emotional protection. Lack of response in sexual life. If they can respect each other, then their sex life will be tender, and this intimacy will allow them both to see understanding in each other's eyes. If they can discover a new side of each other every time, it will bring peace and happiness to their lives.
For men and women who love each other, their sex is like a song written with indescribable expectations. Unlike other couples, Cancer women and Libra men use poetry as the language of love.
Typically the Moon-ruled Cancer woman and the Venus-ruled Libra man never feel self-conscious about expressing their feelings in this way. Sometimes, music can also help them deepen their feelings during sex.
Both Libra men and Cancer women are sentimental, have wonderful imaginations, and both believe in dreams. She has a sense of humor, while he has a charming smile. Both are under the control of changing emotions, but they are both gentle and careful. They know very well that when climbing on the steep mountain of happiness, there is always It requires self-sacrifice, but you can be sure that the view from the top of the mountain is unparalleled.
Cancer (male) - Libra (female)
Libra women are charming and lovable, and when they appear they sound like a pleasant bell. Most Cancer and Virgo girls also have ringing around them, but their ringing sounds very soft. Libra's ringtone is deeper, this sound is part of the music of Venus, and you can imagine how it can unsettle the sentimental, sensitive heart, and it can evoke understanding in the Moon-ruled Cancer male.
In addition to giving him a dreamlike experience, the Libra girl also fascinates him like an angel. Venus always gives its children a strikingly good figure. If not, at least its child may be very lucky to receive these two blessings from Venus at birth. If this is the case, it will be difficult for Cancer people to resist her temptation. They will be attracted by her beautiful face, moved by her bright smile, and at the same time hear those singing voices. These can stir up waves in a Cancer man's heart, bigger than the moon does to him.
Cancer has a wonderful sense of humor, so the first thing he did to impress her after they met was to tell her an interesting story. She would laugh, and it was not an ordinary laugh, but a laugh that could make a wonderland appear. Her laugh was not only musical, but also like a symphony. At the same time, she admired his humor.
Not long after that, he discovered that in addition to being beautiful, charming and full of mystery, she was also a very smart girl. She could compete with him in games such as chess and guessing. High and low. She had the ability to be an astonishingly creative partner in all his trading ventures. The fools he often dealt with never laughed at his jokes and always had to be told dozens of times before they could complete a simple task. She is certainly much smarter than them.
As he fell under her spell, she fell in love with him. As a very likeable girl, she had met many men before, but they all bored her to tears. They are insensitive, rude and demanding. They never ask for her advice on career or work because in their eyes she is "just a woman", so how could she know these things? This often makes Libra girls very angry. For them, equality between men and women is very important. She doesn't have to go to the parade (although she is very capable), but to a Libra, equality is equality and fairness is fairness.
The eyes of Cancer men sparkle with wit and humor, their manners are so gentle, and he is so sensitive. This is the man who fascinates her. He made her feel that he really needed her, and somehow she always felt safe with him, as if he never let ugly things break their tranquility. His lack of reserve made her feel protected, which pleased her. He could understand the swing of her scales always from loneliness to joy, from pleasure to disgust, for he too was sentimental. Because of this, he was able to sympathize with her emotional changes. Most of all, his calmness and patience are what are most attractive to Libras looking for peace and tranquility.
Why not get married? (She might think about it first.) He might be hesitant. Maybe his mother didn't like her very much, or maybe he wasn't sure whether she could replace his mother as the person he loved most. Perhaps, he will consider that he should focus on his work and career first, and then have enough financial strength to support his wife and family. Cancer men always look before they go, and they rarely rush into anything (for Cancer women, who want to feel emotionally and financially secure, marriage is an ideal answer. However, Cancer men like to extend their relationship in order to seek emotional security before considering marriage), and the sense of responsibility after marriage makes him very worried. It doesn't matter whether he loves her or not, of course he does but...
Her first reaction to the Cancer man's indecision and retreat may be to show indifference to his caresses - or to pretend to be indifferent to others. The male is interested in her, torment him, make him jealous, afraid of losing her - or simply deny him sex. She hopes to convince him that "marriage may bring some pain. But celibacy is no fun." If the shapes in their horoscopes harmonize well, her strategy might work. Otherwise, her words will only make him lose his temper or retreat into a crab shell. She was aware of his emotional changes, but she had never discovered this side of him before. His mood swings unnerved her, although she tried not to show it.
Then she turns her Venusian charms on him - her gentle voice, her charming smile - in the hope that this combination of logic and luck will overcome his volatile moods. But as a sensitive Cancer, he'll be aware of what she's doing and probably be more cautious. His mother once told him that it is wiser to be safe than unlucky, and that intelligence is far more useful than gentleness in this cruel world. So he's always trying to be safe, smart, and talented. Now this beautiful and intelligent woman tries to make him careless, impulsive and... free. This confused him and made him easily angry.
He was privately dissatisfied with her extravagant nature, and she was unhappy with his unwarranted doubts about her pure friendships with others (if she was deliberately trying to arouse his suspicions, then she was treating him a bit It’s not fair). She would tell him that he had shackled her soul into not answering his calls. But she missed him and needed him, so she wanted to use this method to test him again... again and again. When they argued, he panicked a little. Because after the two separated, the happy atmosphere created by her optimism and the life full of joy would still linger in his mind. This is especially like the feeling that the simple and sweet life gave him when he was a child. Would I still have this wonderful time with anyone else? He fears there won't be any more. In fact, he thought it was a sure thing. The enemy of their love was his private desires. He was unwilling to reveal his feelings and thoughts directly and openly to her. If he could express them directly and openly to her, she might be able to help him discover the advantages of doing so. However, he liked to let her guess his thoughts. It's never easy to get a Cancer to be as honest as a Libra.
When they have sex, they will quietly say to each other: "Let's go with our feelings and don't think about anything." Their sexual intimacy will temporarily make the trouble between them disappear. distant. When a Cancer man is governed purely by emotion and feeling, he is his true self, unencumbered by fear and worry. As a lover, he can bring her peace and contentment because of his emotional depth. Sometimes, when they made love, she felt like a leaf drifting down a clear stream. Her tenderness and imagination had an equal soothing effect on his, helping them to become a unit. He will feel at ease. Let love fill his whole body and soul, and there will be joy between them. He cherished these moments when she made him feel special. But passion comes and goes, and what follows are problems in their relationship.
As a difficult 4-10 Sun Sign Pattern, their conflicts and tensions, their deadlock with time and their differences in positions are not easy to resolve. But if he tries, with Cancerian caution, to turn their differences into similarities—and if she uses Libran fairness, caring more about him than just herself, then they might Work hard again, maybe this time, they can write a beautiful poem and sing a moving song together. Getting Cancer and Libra to come to terms with each other is a difficult process, but his desire to listen to hymns at Easter sunrise will make him make the effort again - she too needs to be loved by a man who dotes on her and respects her. , this man could hold her in his arms and whisper to her how beautiful she was. After he left her, he sometimes felt her head still leaning on his shoulder in his dreams... He must have heard her voice last night, but her tone was sad. He heard her say to him gently: "My dear, you have so much to learn...I think you should stop learning, because learning always brings pain to people. I can't bear to see you do it again." Hurt. This is why I have to leave you." When he woke up, his eyes were full of tears, because she was so real in the dream, and he seemed to hear the unforgettable music.
The moon bestows Cancer people with superior memory. Their memories are vivid, clear, and like a photograph. If Cancer and Libra are patient enough and need each other, they can make peace. If they don't have enough patience with each other, the memories of the past will linger in his mind even if their relationship is over. Then he regretted not saying a few words to her as she approached. So when he was alone, he thought about these words in his mind, hoping that no matter where she was, she could hear his thoughts.