Everyone's understanding of Tang Wan should first come from the famous writer Lu You. Lu You's first wife, Tang Wan, whose name is Huixian, whose date of birth and death is unknown, is said to be the daughter of Lu You's mother Cheng Tang. Because of the close relationship between the two families, and Tang Wan and Lu You are similar in age, the two families took Feng Chai as evidence to betroth each other.
Tang Wan and Lu You are cousins, which can be said to be childhood friends and have deep feelings. So when Lu You married Tang Wan at the age of twenty, the couple lived a very happy life.
Because Tang Wan is also a famous talented woman, unlike an ignorant woman, she only knows that the backyard is on fire. Tang Wan and Lu You have a common language, and Lu You likes to be with Tang Wan. After marriage, the two often sing poems together and have deep feelings. Close relatives think that they are a match made in heaven, so they wish their marriage well.
Harmony between husband and wife and family should have been a good thing. But the feelings are too deep to be complete in the end. Let alone that they are newly married, it is natural for them to get bored with each other, and everyone understands. But with the development of time, their feelings have not cooled down at all. Lu You is still fascinated by Tang Wan, enjoying harmonious feelings and deep love, and indulging in a happy life with his wife. Arriving here caused her mother-in-law's displeasure.
Lu You's mother, Tang, is a very strong woman. I have high expectations for my son Lu You. And Lu You didn't live up to her, and she is famous for her great knowledge. Tang mother devoted herself to being an official in the imperial examination, serving as an official in the DPRK, and will be able to shine in the future. But after marrying a daughter-in-law like Tang Wan, it seems that this wish has gradually come to nothing.
Lu You is intoxicated in the gentle countryside of Tang Wan, and only knows to have fun with his wife every day, immersed in the world of two people. Gentle hometown, hero's burial and his wife's comfortable life gradually made Lu You forget his pursuit of fame and neglect his studies. In Tang's view, this is not enterprising, and the root of all this lies in Tang Wan.
At first, Tang's mother persuaded her many times, but she didn't get the goods. Finally, she decided to force Lu You and Tang Wan to divorce. Although deeply in love with Tang Wan, out of filial piety, Lu You had to reluctantly separate from Tang Wan.
Shortly after breaking up, Lu You married another woman under the pressure of Tang's mother. Tang Wan's family, after seeing Lu You's wife, also felt aggrieved for her daughter, and finally let Tang Wan marry Zhao Shicheng, who was also quite famous at that time.
In A.D. 1 15 1 year, Lu You and Tang Wan met by accident in their respective married Shen Garden, holding hands and gazing with tears, but they were speechless. It was also at this meeting that Lu You's sadness was aroused (when he lost the imperial examination, he met Tang Wan's husband and wife in the garden), and finally left the word "Feng Feng" (red crisp hand) on the wall of Shenyuan.
A.D. 1 152, that is, one year later, Tang Wan came to Shenyuan again and saw the lyrics left by Lu You on the wall. For Tang Wan at that time, although she married Zhao Shicheng, life began to calm down, but it was not enough to meet the spiritual unity with Lu You. Lu You can be said to be Tang Wan's favorite man, so the poem "Chaitoufeng" caused sadness, and the writing of the word "Chaitoufeng" is in line with Lu You's words. When I got home, I was depressed and confused, and finally I died.
This relationship between Lu You and Tang Wan is really awkward. ?