There are two main problems in men's and women's marriage. One is that the zodiac does not match, and the other is that the eight characters do not match.
It is easier to understand the disharmony of the zodiac, but it is more difficult to understand the disharmony of the eight characters. The so-called disharmony of the zodiac refers to the fact that the marriage parties are in opposition, hurting each other, punishing each other, resisting each other, or robbing each other.
Because of their different types, the degree of disharmony is also different. Collision refers to the collision of two genera, and there are mainly six unlucky combinations: mouse and afternoon horse, ugly cow and sheep, silver tiger and monkey, hairy rabbit and unitary chicken, dragon and dog, snake and sea pig.
Mutual harm refers to the mutual harm of two genera, sometimes called puncture injury. There are mainly six kinds of unlucky combinations that harm each other: offspring and sheep, ugly cow and afternoon horse, silver tiger and four snakes, hairy rabbit and dragon, you chicken and dog, monkey and pig. Mutual punishment originally refers to the mutual punishment among the three genera. Sometimes, even if the combination of the three types is not formed, there are cases in which the two categories constitute three types of mutual punishment: ugliness does not punish, ugliness does not punish, and goodness does not punish.
The punishment of yin has been punished, and the punishment of yin has been imposed, which is a punishment according to the situation. Punishing children and punishing children is an unreasonable punishment.
Chen, Wu, You and Hai are the punishments for self-punishment. Mutual restraint refers to mutual restraint or single restraint between two animals of the zodiac, such as water, fire, gold, Jin Kemu, Muketu and Tukeshui. This kind of situation is more common, and many of them are included in the punishment of damage. In addition, the strength and crisis of mutual containment are not great and do not need special consideration.
And there is a situation that needs careful consideration. This is a wedding robbery.
The so-called marriage robbery refers to the same kind of marriage between rats, horses and horses, cattle and cattle, sheep and sheep. Compared with robbery, it is the same sex and five elements, that is, the same zodiac. We were supposed to help each other, so why should we consider it? This is because the aura of this marriage, because it is too close and similar, has a certain affinity, but at the same time it will also produce the same-sex repulsion, so it is also a taboo in marriage: it is not conducive to marriage feelings than robbery.
It doesn't have to be like this. Because the zodiac is just a word in birthdates, that is, the annual branch, which represents the foundation of marriage.
Of course, the foundation of marriage is very important, just like a small tree. If the foundation is not good, it will affect its growth. But the foundation can also change with the growth of small trees, and sometimes it is not decisive.
In marriage, the decisive factor is the comprehensive factors such as marital palace. Marriage palace can also be called spouse palace, which is a Japanese branch. So sometimes, although the zodiac signs are incompatible, if the marriage position is compatible, or other pillars are compatible, or the gods are compatible, or the auspicious year is compatible, the harm of the incompatibility of the zodiac signs can be offset or alleviated, and we can get along together.
Therefore, in comparison, the harmfulness of the zodiac is 50% weaker, while the harmfulness of the wedding palace is 50% stronger. So just because the zodiac doesn't match, you can conclude that the marriage is unhappy, or something is wrong, and you can't completely conclude that you can't get married.
Therefore, the incompatibility of the zodiac only refers to the disharmony between the two parties in the atmosphere of two birth years, so it is general, extensive, not specific and not absolute. It just means that this kind of marriage is not happy enough, and it is impossible to judge that two people can't get married simply because the zodiac doesn't match. Therefore, the inconsistency of the zodiac can only show that the marriage foundation is not good and the marriage and love process may not be smooth and happy.
Some differences can also be alleviated or resolved through adjustment efforts the day after tomorrow. Strictly speaking, it is impossible to completely resolve the misfortune of the zodiac marriage.
But it can be properly adjusted and improved, and it can be transformed into a good one. There are several ways to adjust: first, try to avoid it.
It is the wisest thing to take precautions before they happen. When looking for a lover, if you find that it belongs to aggression, injury, punishment or robbery, you should try to avoid it. Otherwise, after love or marriage, due to the different gas fields of the zodiac, it will bring many unnecessary contradictions and conflicts to both parties, affect feelings or lead to breakup or divorce.
The second is customs clearance and neutralization. The principle of neutralization is actually to build a bridge between two incompatible zodiac signs and make them smooth.
If the meridian collides, the wood can pass through the customs. Wood can drain water and make a fire, so that the two impulses can stop each other. Therefore, you can have a tiger child, or wear a tiger-shaped zodiac ornament, or plant some flowers and plants to resolve the conflict. Other incompatible zodiac signs can also adopt this neutralization method according to their five elements of conflict, mutual harm and mutual punishment.
For example, ugliness does not collide and is cleared by gold; Shen Yin, Shuiguan, Tuyouguan, Shuiguan, Customs, Muguan, Chenxuguan, Jinguan and so on. The third is feng shui adjustment.
The principle of feng shui adjustment is to comprehensively adjust feng shui according to the incompatibility of the two zodiac signs and the eight-character taboo, from the aspects of living environment orientation, material decoration, furniture collocation, bed placement, lighting adjustment, kitchen and bathroom renovation, color layout and so on. And use the environmental atmosphere to coordinate the popularity of the two zodiac signs and resolve the conflict between them. Geomantic omen is the most effective way to improve the incompatibility of the zodiac, but it involves many aspects such as the zodiac, eight characters, geomantic omen, five elements and so on, so it is more professional and complicated, and it needs to ask experts for help.
In fact, any adjustment is to adjust your heart and let the situation follow your heart. If we improve our understanding of the marriage of the zodiac, we can actively seek good fortune and avoid evil, and I believe we can also avoid, alleviate or resolve the disharmony of the zodiac in reality.
Finally, I wish every couple happiness.
2. How to resolve an unmatched marriage?
Bad feelings, bad marriage and bad career, can these things be solved? Strictly speaking, it can be cracked, but it's up to you, not to say that a ceremony can be cracked with a few spells. If it can be cracked, all spells and spells are designed to deceive people.
Life is born from the heart, and everything in life is born from the heart. When the heart changes, the life outside will also change. So if you want to change your life, you must first improve your heart and adjust your mentality. To change your life, change your heart first. This is the ultimate method. It's entirely up to you to change your mind. It doesn't mean that if you burn a few spells, your heart will change and you won't find a mistress. If you do a ceremony, your nature will change and you will have self-control. It's not that simple.
The man's life is chaotic, and his wife divorced because of mistress. How to solve and change this method? The way to change your life must start with your heart, be firm in your heart, be loyal to the original match, and have a little moral concept. Only in this way can the marriage crisis be resolved. But these people not only don't know how to repent, but also want to change their fate through a ceremony and a spell. How ridiculous.
How to solve this situation when the woman is injured and sees the official divorce? A woman who hurts an official is arrogant and unconvinced, and her desires will never be satisfied. No matter how well my husband does, I always hold a negative and dissatisfied attitude, and disrespect for my husband and in-laws eventually leads to divorce. If you want to change your life, you can only change it from the heart, respect your other half more, respect your husband's family more, say more good words and praise each other more, even if your husband is not good enough, even if he is not good to himself. Materially, we should be content with contentment, not compare with others, not show off, and not be vain.
A man's life is weaker than stealing his wife, and his life is more important than stealing his wife, which leads to divorce. How to resolve it? This kind of man is very kind to his wife before falling in love. Once he gets married, he is cruel to the other half, and he doesn't know how to cherish it after getting it. In my life, I am very kind to my brothers, sisters and friends, and very hard on my wife. Seriously inclined to domestic violence. If you want to change your life, you have to change it from the heart, how to change it, and pass on the kindness to your friends to your wife. To pass on one's wife's harsh selfishness to friends is to be kind to the closest person and selfish to friends. This reverse processing. Husband and wife should also keep a proper distance, and don't stick together every day. After all, their nature is cruel to the people around them and generous to strangers.
Women are weak, bullying their husbands leads to divorce. How to solve this situation? Most women who bully their husbands are very hot. They never consider the feelings of the other half when they go their own way, and their husbands are always bullied by themselves. Finally, the husband took a fancy to his good sister and fell in love with her, which led to divorce. How to solve this situation, how to crack it, we have to start from ourselves. You should learn to put yourself in your husband's shoes, think from his point of view and discuss things with him. Even if you have ideas, you should refer to each other's opinions and leave more steps for your husband, so that the relationship between husband and wife is good. Husbands don't look forward. In life, husbands rarely meet good sisters, and rarely give their husbands the opportunity to meet good sisters. Only in this way can we fundamentally change.
The collision between career star and wife star is a type that only cares about career and ignores family, which eventually leads to divorce. How to solve this situation? Such people are generally very enterprising. After marriage, he devoted himself to his career and neglected housework for his other half. After a long time, the lover can't stand it, looking at others. The way to change your life must start from your heart. Spend some time with your family every day, do more housework and do more housework. Don't always be busy with work. Don't use work as an excuse to refuse any request from the other half, which will improve.
The woman's life is weak, and the seven kills are too heavy, so it is inevitable to be attacked by the gods. Finally, she couldn't stand the bullying of her husband's family, which led to divorce. How to resolve this situation should also be adjusted from the heart. A woman who kills too much usually has no position at home after marriage, and is bullied by her husband's family and suppressed for life. This type of woman must make a career before getting married. Work first, economic independence, not dependent on the husband's family. I will get married after my career is stable. It's better to focus on your career all your life after marriage, don't be a family-oriented woman, work alone with your husband's family for a lifetime, and keep an appropriate distance. In terms of five elements, you can have your own children of Ying Beiwang to resolve the contradictions in marriage.
Many people fall in love early and leave early. How to solve this situation? Start with the heart. I want to have a little concentration, * * * got the temptation from outside, and there is a degree before feelings, so don't pay too much. You can't get married too quickly. Wait slowly, drag slowly, and get married in the right year. Only in this way can a marriage disaster be avoided. I am afraid that I will lose my self-control for a while and develop into a de facto marriage or marriage for a while. Finally, I thought it was hard to crack.
If you want to change your destiny, you must first start from your own heart and change your life first. This is the only way. People who want to change their lives through spells, spells, fairy mirrors, Dojo, hehe will become the targets of others' cheating. If they are cheated, they will add another obstacle to their already bumpy life. Make it harder to change your life!
3. How to resolve the unharmonious marriage of the zodiac?
It is considered unlucky for people who are six years apart to get married, which means that there are many conflicts, no opportunities, bad relations first, or bad for one of them. As I said in the article before, this is just a general statement, not absolute. If this conflict is conducive to the use of god, it may have a good influence! But in general, it is taboo, which makes people have a lingering shadow psychologically.
In fact, many unfavorable aspects of numerology are not hopeless. With proper methods, many less serious problems can still be solved. For example, the zodiac is guilty, that's all.
Physiologically, rats and horses, cows and sheep, tigers and monkeys, rabbits and chickens, dragons and dogs, snakes and pigs. The solution is:1; The mouse and the horse rushed over,
Couples who belong to equine mice, first of all, don't put the bed in the meridian (north-south) direction. Put a tiger around the bed in the house. Or Hou, (note that only one can be put, and one genus can be combined. It also dissolved the power of rushing.
2; Snakes and pigs collide, and the couple's bed must not be placed in the northwest-southeast direction. Couples can live in the east room, sleep with their heads facing east, or decorate their rooms with jade rabbits and silver tigers.
3; Cattle and sheep collide, the couple live in the south room or Westinghouse, sleep with their heads facing south or west, or arrange afternoon horses or golden roosters in the couple's room;
4; If the tiger and monkey collide, the lucky one can live in the south room (house) and release his horse. Or the mouse can be dismissed.
5; The rabbit collided with the chicken. The couple lived in the north or southwest house, slept with their heads facing north or southwest, or decorated their rooms with mice and mice.
6; When dragons and dogs collide, they can sleep in the north, and monkeys or tigers can be put in the house.
Some people suggest using children to resolve it, and I think it still makes sense. That is, the mouse and horse couple choose the year of rabbit or the year of ox to have children; Snake and pig couples choose the year of the tiger to have children;
Cattle and sheep couples choose the year of the rat or the year of the horse to have children;
Dragon and dog couples choose to have children in the year of rooster or rabbit;
Tiger and monkey couples choose to have children in the year of pig;
Couples who are rabbits and chickens choose the Year of the Dog or the Year of the Loong to have children.
The above solutions are approximate, for reference only, and cannot be mechanically copied. In the specific operation, it depends on the combination of husband and wife's eight characters and likes and dislikes, in order to come up with the best solution.
As far as fate is concerned, it is inevitable to meet the spouse or emotional object of Liuhong, and it is not the best policy to give up what one favours because of the hidden worry of conflict.
4. How to solve the marital discord
It is almost every young man and woman's love dream to find a loving, harmonious and loving spouse and live a sweet and loving life.
But the realization rate of this dream is not very high. The reason is that their marriage is incompatible, they have found the wrong person, and even caused painful injuries. Finally, I had to give up what I wanted and go our separate ways.
Click to enter more eight-character marriages. Many people are experiencing the distress of marital discord, and many people have experienced the pain of marital discord. Many people are asking: Can marriage be solved? Is there any panacea to solve my marriage problem? What magical measures can save our relationship or marriage? The so-called marriage refers to the spouse of marriage, the pairing of marriage, the partner of life and the sustenance of love. The key question is not you, but whether the other half has a solid foundation with you, a harmonious personality and a smooth marriage.
So the fundamental problem of marriage is to find the right partner for you. How can we know who is more suitable for you and who is the other half of your life? It is said that marriage depends on fate, but it is true. First of all, you should get to know each other, know each other and love each other, and then you can get in touch closely, come together, live together and love each other happily.
This fate is the most important, so where did it come from? It is said that fate was made in a previous life, and it was predestined in life, which makes sense. Although we can't see past lives, we can see this doomed thing from your fate, so as to judge whether you two are suitable for marriage and whether you live happily together for a long time.
The way to check is the eight-character marriage. The so-called eight-character marriage, first of all, must discharge the date of birth of two people, which is good luck. Look at the depth of foundation from the column of years, the good and evil of love from the column of months, the temperament from the column of days, and the future development from the column of times ... On this basis, look at the marriage trend of the two people, whether the marriage news is synchronized, and some need to judge whether the pattern is divine, eight-character likes and dislikes, and so on. After so many complicated calculations, we can see whether their marriage is auspicious or fierce.
If good luck is greater than bad luck, it means that the prospects are promising and can continue to develop; If it is worse than good luck, it means that the problem is serious and needs careful consideration. So let's get back to the point.
If, after calculation, it is found that the two are not married, is there a panacea or a fairy prescription to resolve this marriage disaster? This should also be analyzed from two aspects. In the first case, if the marriage turns out to be unlucky: 1, then I advise you to go back to your mother's womb and be born again, change the birth time, and maybe there is a possibility of resolving it.
2, or simply give up looking for someone else, don't hang yourself on this crooked tree. 3, there is no fairy prescription, and there is no magic prescription that can help you dissolve your marriage or save each other's hearts.
Knowing that it can't be solved, we can only draw water with a sieve. Sometimes it's no wonder that people are deceived, but you are too stubborn and wishful thinking.
In the second case, if the marriage result is more auspicious than fierce: 1, make up for it from their marriage. In view of the problems existing in their marriage, we should make beneficial adjustments and supplements from the aspects of geomantic houses, five-element ornaments, colors and children's childbearing, so as to effectively resolve unfavorable factors and increase the stability of marriage.
2. Make up for it from personal marriage. The quality of marriage depends not only on whether the marriage of two people is auspicious, but also on whether the marriage of one person is smooth. If there are also problems in personal marriage, such as the right time, the right place and the right person, the empty moon, hurting officials and robbing money, violence in Kui Gang, sheep blade and so on, we should take measures such as geomantic omen, five elements, psychology and religion to restrain or resolve these unfavorable factors and make them favorable.
3. Adjustment method. If the problem is not serious, you can make a written transportation and disaster relief plan and implement it yourself. If the problem is serious, it is necessary to survey and adjust the ancestral graves and home feng shui on the spot in order to play a corresponding role.
In fact, the most fundamental and effective adjustment is psychological adjustment. What is psychological adjustment? First of all, you should change your mind and understand that fate is predestined, and you can only meet it, but you can't force it.
Only when we get along can we be happy. No matter how good the beauty is, no matter how handsome the handsome guy is, it is not your dish, you can't eat it, or even if you eat it, it is not sweet, but it is extremely painful.
Secondly, we should change our ideas and understand that marriage and love are sometimes completely different things. Love is excitement and feeling, more of a kind of spiritual enjoyment, while marriage is life and dullness, more of a kind of material enjoyment. Those who have feelings are not necessarily suitable for living together, and living together does not necessarily have feelings.
The essence of marriage is partners, mutual dependence, mutual understanding and mutual concessions. If you stay together for a long time, you will become dependent, reluctant to part with each other, and will love each other for life. Third, as a woman, finding someone who loves you as a partner is ten times happier than finding someone you love.
5. How to solve the incompatibility of the zodiac marriage?
The zodiac signs are compatible with each other. But as long as the two sides really love each other and treat each other sincerely in real life, they can get married. Because xiangke can be resolved.
Avoiding disaster is a true gentleman, so it is best to resolve it, so as to avoid disaster and eliminate it. Refer to "Introduction to the Method of Mutual Impact between Chinese Characters and Zodiac". As far as fate is concerned, it is inevitable to encounter spouses or emotional objects that conflict with the eight-character numerology and the zodiac. In this case, as long as we actively think of ways, we can grow old together and be destined to do so. The reason why the eight-character numerology and the zodiac collide with each other is because the gas fields of Yin and Yang and the five elements collide with each other. Please put five lines of gossip Fu on the bedroom, living room and other places to promote the energy circulation of the five elements, adjust the balance of yin and yang gas fields, and effectively resolve the eight-character numerology and the zodiac. Why can the eight-character numerology be resolved by adjusting the five-element cycle of Yangzhai and the balance of Yin and Yang? "House, people also. People stand because of houses, and houses exist because of people. People and houses help each other and feel the world. " This is the classic punch line of the importance of Huangdi House Classic to a person's residence. Because people and houses support each other, the five elements of energy in the family circulate and adjust the balance of yin and yang gas fields. People live at home, and the yin and yang gas field of eight-character numerology naturally supports the house, and naturally sympathizes with the yin and yang gas field of Yangzhai. Therefore, adhering to five lines of gossip's blessing, promoting the cycle of the five elements of Yangzhai and adjusting the balance of Yin and Yang in Yangzhai can naturally drive the aura of Yin and Yang and the five elements of eight-character numerology.
6. How to resolve the conflict between the wedding day and your zodiac?
Only know your zodiac sign: in fact, you can't know if you are in a hurry on your wedding day! Nowadays, people often say, "The chickens and monkeys are not at the end, the pigs and sheep stop at 1, and the dragons and tigers change their tears."
. "Wait! Some people know that 102 earth branch collided and think that the collision is not good. In fact, it has no practical significance! Because: in the 8-word prediction, the zodiac is only the annual branch of 8 words, which is 1 in 8 words.
Doesn't mean all eight words! The 8-character prediction is simply based on 1 person's date of birth and four columns; Four-pillar heavenly stems and earthly branches 1, a total of eight words, obtained detailed numerology information after cross-examination. For the sake of image, let me make an analogy! Suppose you want to buy a pet dog on 1 day, and the pet shop owner only lets you see 1 paw of the dog she sells.
Say, look at my dog paws. Big and thin, and wrinkled! What a big bear's paw Buy it quickly! Then can you buy it? Can you judge the overall appearance of the dog you want to buy only by 1 paw? What kind of dog is it, good or bad health, dog age, male or female, eye size and coat color? Can I buy it without knowing anything about it? ! As long as it is normal people will not buy it! The truth of 8-character prediction is also 1, which cannot be based on 8-character 1; It can also be called the zodiac to judge who is at odds with whom, as well as a person's horoscope, making mistakes with other zodiac people, choosing a date and so on. Did not pass the overall prediction of 4 columns and 8 words; It doesn't make any sense to just look at the zodiac.
But by the year, month, day and time of your birth, list your birthdates as a whole, and then you can judge and judge after asking questions! So I think, since we believe in numerology and metaphysics! We should have scientific faith, dialectical faith, keep pace with the times, not superstition! ! ! What did you say?/Sorry? :)。
7. How to resolve marital disharmony?
Zodiac marriage is not strong, there is no need to make such a fuss. The reason why it is mentioned by many people is that this way of marriage is so simple that people who don't even know a little about Zhouyi can apply it.
The factors considered in the marriage of the zodiac are the year of birth, based on the territorial relationship (punishment, aggression, harmony, harm) and some folk good or bad intentions, but there is no academic basis and it is not credible.
Generally speaking, the combination between husband and wife is auspicious, and this combination has absorption function. The combination of husband and wife here refers to the combination of mouse and cow, tiger and pig, rabbit and dog, dragon and chicken, snake and monkey, horse and sheep. Half-three-three meetings have no resultant force and can be omitted.
Couples' zodiac signs are generally fierce, but they have a repulsive effect. Here, Chong refers to Ma Chong, Niu Niu Chong, Tiger Monkey Chong, Rabbit Chicken Chong, Dragon Dog Chong and Snake Pig Chong, and the punishment damage is negligible and can be omitted.
According to the functional relationship between the branches of the earth, "to solve the conflict together, approach first"
If there are contradictions between husband and wife, they can be solved in the following ways.
Zodiac is a mouse, you can wear the ornaments of Zodiac cattle to solve it.
The zodiac is a horse, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac sheep.
The zodiac is a cow, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac mouse to solve it.
The zodiac is a sheep, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac horse to solve it.
The zodiac is a tiger, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac pig to solve it.
The zodiac is a monkey, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac snake to solve it.
The zodiac is a rabbit, so you can wear the accessories of the zodiac dog.
The zodiac is a chicken, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac dragon to solve it.
The zodiac is a dragon, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac chicken to solve it.
Zodiac is a dog, so you can wear the ornaments of Zodiac rabbit.
The zodiac is a snake, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac monkey to solve it.
The zodiac is a pig, so you can wear the ornaments of the zodiac tiger.
Note: The above method requires both husband and wife to choose zodiac ornaments to wear together according to their own zodiac signs.
8. How to resolve an unmatched marriage?
Under different circumstances, the couple's zodiac is not solved in different ways.
For example, before marriage, both men and women should choose to wear some ornaments that have the ability to resolve feng shui fortune. For example, after a tiger man and a snake woman fall in love, men should choose to wear golden porcupine ornaments, thus effectively resolving the emotional hidden trouble between Silver Tiger and Four Books. Secondly, after marriage, it is necessary to resolve the disagreement through the change of family feng shui.
Judging from the examples of Yinhu and Sishe above, it is also a good choice for both parties to hang a piggy ornament or use a monkey ornament above the bed of the bedroom after marriage. In addition, in the case of children after marriage, children can be used to resolve the disagreement between husband and wife.
For example, there is no coincidence between the child's zodiac sign and his parents, so you can improve your child's fortune by choosing to wear life-changing ornaments such as Buddha cards, thus affecting the emotional changes between parents. Generally speaking, there are many factors that affect the change of husband and wife's marriage, and we should learn to resolve them according to the specific situation.