I don't know how I helped you. Next year, in the second month of the first lunar month in the Year of the Ox, you'd better compromise things first. If you don't want a divorce, put it off until the first month of 20 10 to ensure that things will get better.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't worry, you should pay attention to yourself, go to the south and sleep in the east. This is good for you. Avoid the west and don't wear gold and silver.
If you are willing to keep your marriage, there are other ways, such as raising fish, where your wife often moves, such as lighting an ever-burning lamp in the northwest of the living room. Fish water will turn into golden gas, and the Feng Shui Bureau should be able to resolve the suffocation.