People with heavy minds often turn their eyes quickly and look directly at others. People with heavy minds look for different things from others and opportunities from the cracks in society. People with heavy minds practice different "critical eyes". A thoughtful person is sensitive to everything and worried about missing opportunities.
Of course, a scheming person won't tell anyone what he found. A thoughtful person is preparing for his future development. If you look closely, you will find that people with heavy minds frown when they are in danger, lean forward when they meet good things, and praise others falsely; I looked disappointed when I found nothing. All expressions are short-lived and pass by inadvertently.
Feature 2: I like to play dumb and stare blankly, and I can't hear useful information from people with heavy minds.
There is a saying in my hometown that "this man pretends to be a treasure." People who pretend to be treasures are not stupid, but too smart. They look silly, but they are as smart as ghosts. People who value taste also have many friends, but they don't really communicate, but use others.
In today's society, many people's communication is a kind of relationship of "interest interaction and mutual utilization". A thoughtful person will soon realize the society and always replace his "junk information" with other people's useful information. This kind of person is good at "turning around" and likes to push things to others and let others "speak" for themselves. If you trust such a person, you will be led into a "dead end" and your life will be frustrated.
Feature 3: Sometimes telling lies makes others happy, and people with heavy minds also "steal happiness".
People who are all scheming are "hypocritical", without exception. People who are scheming always "please both sides", never offend people, and always choose the right words. People who heard of them were very happy, and they really felt that they had been great all their lives and swaggered. You know, people become good friends when they are happy, and then they can play the "emotional card".
There is a saying in the ancestors, "Don't drink two cups of tea, drink a cup of tea." Sincere people always "have a cup of tea" because they can't have both. People who are only scheming always "drink two cups of tea". He is a two-faced man. However, when I associate with hypocritical people, I will be happy for a while. In fact, I was "complacent" and eventually became the result of "pride goes before a fall".
It's really stupid if others take it seriously by saying a few nice things about themselves. Smart people, speaking with facts, "seeing is believing, hearing is empty", and training a pair of beneficial eyes can not only see the truth of the matter, but also see the hypocritical heart.
Feature 4: There are many times of silence, and you can "muddle through" at critical times.
People who are very scheming will also "pretend to be deaf and dumb." A person with a heavy heart is very silent in front of some big things, even if he is the "initiator", he will not admit or deny it. The most common way is to run away without saying anything.
Because I don't want to take responsibility, I always take the method of "not to be taunted, but to be able to hide". If you really have something to catch up with the scheming people, you just can't say it clearly, so that others don't understand, and the scheming people will take the opportunity to excuse themselves slowly. Such people, though silent and thoughtful, are not worth socializing with, because thoughtful people have verified the truth that "a dog that can't bark will bite".
Feature 5: Never rush ahead when something happens, always let others take the lead.
In a group, there will always be some people who are not active no matter what they do. When they encounter something, they always let others take the lead and sit behind them to enjoy success.
Generally speaking, such people will feel irresponsible. Standing on the commanding heights of morality, they will cast a contemptuous eye on those who are heavy-minded, and at the same time, they will highlight their moral nobility.
On the other hand, a person with a heavy heart may know that the front of Chong will get hurt, so avoiding letting others see his sharp edge and being a seemingly uncontested little sheep will not only fail to achieve his goal, but also become a thorn in others' side.
So this kind of person has a deep heart. People with heavy minds are good at suppressing others with morality, helping others to be good people, and at the same time keeping themselves away from all storms.
This kind of silence and then achieve the goal is the most terrible. As the old man often tells everyone, barking dogs are not terrible, but those dogs that can't bark are what we need to worry about.