At the beginning of the variety show, Zhang Duo rushed to Shanghai from Hengdian, Zhejiang Province to meet his mother and daughter-in-law. But the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not together, and they don't even know where the other party is. Zhang Duo's mother came to the main entrance of the theater in person, because this is where Zhang Duo went to college. Zhang Duo's daughter-in-law Chen Songling works in a cd shop. Mom called Zhang Duo and told her that she was sorry that she couldn't send him to college in person, so this time she brought a photo of Zhang Duo's father Zhang Duo at the school gate, and prepared to take a photo with Zhang Duo.
Zhang Duo had no idea. After hearing her mother say she was sorry, she immediately asked her mother, "What do you have to regret? Please don't be too dramatic. At that time, you assigned my father to send me. " . If we are just here, it is understandable to say that Zhang Duo's mother is a hand, but Zhang Duo himself added: This can save some money on train tickets. In other words, Zhang Duo knew that his mother was not unwilling to send him to college with his father, but only for better cost-effectiveness. It is not difficult to see that the level of economic development in Zhang Duo may not be good at the beginning.
It can be seen from the analysis that when Chen Songling bought clothes for her mother-in-law, Zhang Duo's mother was still very frugal, which indicated that her daily living standard was probably always poor, so she kept the habit of frugality. But Zhang Duo knew that his mother didn't send him to college for better cost-effectiveness. Then his mother said she was sorry. Why does he want to miss her? It's just that Zhang Duo never cared about her mother's experience. Over the years, his mother has always regarded him as the favorite person in her life, and Zhang Duo has long enjoyed it, and he has never felt anything wrong with her.
He took his mother's investment for granted, because no matter what he did, his mother had no reason to tolerate him, so he forgot that her mother was also expecting a reply. Because I can't send my children to college in person, I want to take a photo with my son at the gate of his college many years later. Isn't this a direct complaint? But even this simple truth is beyond Zhang Duo's comprehension. Knowing that mom didn't send him to college for a better price/performance ratio, you only need to put yourself in the other's shoes a little bit, and you will understand mom's mood of filling the vacancy.
Tolerate this little story. It was a good thing that the Zhang Duo family came to Shanghai. As a result, his mother waited for him to take a photo in the play, but his wife waited for him to dance and sing in other areas. There is no place for them. Zhang Duo chose to beat each other. First, she danced and sang with Chen Songling, and then they followed their mother to take pictures. Although it seems extreme, it is said that mom should go to the community alone, but mom still chooses to go home after waiting for a long time, which is obviously very disappointing. Chen Songling is also very aware of her mother-in-law's loss. When she entered the room, she made a gesture of "kneeling down" with her hands around, begging for forgiveness. Her mother-in-law helped her up at once, without forcing.
Not long after staying at home, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo came out to learn dance, leaving her alone at home. She just said that as long as she had a little time to sit with her for a while. But when I saw my daughter-in-law insisting on coming out, she seemed to be possessed by a "Duan Zishou" and cried for a while. Unexpectedly, tears did flow out. However, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling just made fun of her, laughed it off, and did not comfort her. Although I was disappointed, I accepted the daily task given by my children at night or during dinner, grabbed Chen Songling, let Zhang Duo go home and prepared her birthday present in advance. I can see that the old woman worked hard to complete the daily tasks given by her children, and didn't say some interference as everyone thought, so she downloaded one for herself. That kind of old woman has a strange cuteness. Sending a bath towel to a daughter-in-law on her birthday means expecting her to integrate into the family.
Zhang is a good husband and son, and he does well among his daughter-in-law and mother. Besides, there is no need to give his mother so much advice. She is just an ordinary mother, and add one or two more words of praise to the child who makes her proud. This is also a direct complaint. Chen Songling was shocked to see her when she expressed her views on children in the video recording of variety shows, but the first thing she said was that you shouldn't tell me this, you should let Zhang Duo show that she is mainly a child, and this old woman is not a poor mother. I want to firmly believe that it is a defective home, there will be friction and different suggestions, but it must be full of tolerance for each other.