Life is like the sea, ebbing and flowing, with A?vagho?a's happiness, some rustling and the collapse of climax, some desperate sadness and inexplicable melancholy. When you sigh that life is so mean and fate is so unfair. In fact, when you sigh like this, you have handed over the control of your life. Both are unfortunate experiences or failures. Some people can only make a living by begging, while others can get ahead. This is by no means fate, but their enthusiasm for life or their abandonment and abandonment. Success comes from hard work, and with hard work, there will be wonderful performance.
Wisdom 02 Kun Gua: Establish people by character and live with tolerance.
Take on the heavy responsibility with profound virtue. Character is the crown and glory of life. Character is a person's most precious wealth, and it is a person's status, identity and property. It ennobles people of all classes and positions. It is stronger than wealth and more glorious than fame. Its influence is everywhere, because it is the embodiment of integrity and honesty, and it is the embodiment of consistency between words and deeds. These qualities are the most precious and are trusted and respected by all mankind. Ordinary ability can succeed with the help of noble character, even if the competition is fierce and surrounded by small groups. Honesty, integrity and kindness are not essential things, but they are the essence of a person's character. A person with this quality, once combined with a firm goal, will have unparalleled power. Leave a space for virtue in your heart.
Wisdom 03 Divination: Faith creates miracles, and determination creates brilliance.
The size of your achievements will never exceed the size of your confidence. There is no reason in the world to make those who have no strong desire for success succeed. The prerequisite of success is self-confidence. Successful people always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience; Losers are just the opposite. Their lives are guided and dominated by past failures and doubts.
Some tiny, seemingly unimportant personal weaknesses, like chains, tie people up and make them unable to realize their ambitions. Who can stop a determined person from succeeding? Put a stumbling block in his path, and he climbed it as a ladder; Take away his money, and he will use poverty to motivate himself; Weaken him and he will write novels; Wait a minute. Those daunting difficulties in the distance will gradually become smaller as you approach. The success and efficiency of life depend on firm and persistent determination and the ability to do what we want to do. Neither left nor right, even if the Garden of Eden tries to seduce us, failure and disaster are threatening us.
Wisdom 04: Arm yourself with knowledge and change your destiny with learning.
Having knowledge does not mean having corresponding ability. There is also a process of application and knowledge transformation, that is, the process of applying what you have learned. People who observe with their own eyes and get familiar with the world according to their own practical experience are not only fundamentally different from those who get knowledge from books but are not familiar with the world, but also better than the latter. Summarize what you have learned so far, as well as your own opinions, and add your own judgment to establish your own personality, behavior pattern and etiquette. It is important to acquire knowledge through reading and learning, but it is also essential to acquire true knowledge through practice. No matter what kind of occupation you are engaged in, you need to keep learning. Only by studying can we broaden our horizons, acquire knowledge and wisdom, and do what we want to do well.
Wisdom 05 needs divination: forbear to wait for the opportunity, accumulate wealth and thin hair.
When you are in a weak position, you should resist the psychological state of being eager for success, don't expose yourself too much, and rely on a good external situation to strengthen yourself. Of course, while maintaining and developing our own strength, we should also learn to play the fool, try to hide our apparent strength, act with forbearance, and make progress by retreating. In the complicated arena of life, if you suffer some unfair treatment, you might as well bear it first, which is a good strategy in the struggle; On the other hand, if you play hardball, you will either shout or become angry from embarrassment, and you will suffer. Just put up with it. Don't try to be brave for a while, get quick success, ignore the consequences, or even forget who you are. Only by staying in the green hills can we have the capital to make a comeback.
Wisdom 06 litigation divination: act cautiously and avoid disputes.
Speak slowly in case of emergency, and leave a sentence on your lips. Don't reveal your privacy or secrets easily, because these two things will expose your intentions and weaknesses. Keep a self-righteous view. People think and form ideas based on limited information, and when the information is incomplete, they will form prejudice. Although everyone's ideas are biased, people who have more information, are more rational and can effectively overcome their emotions are often more correct, at least more convincing. Avoid making inappropriate criticisms and accusations against others. If you misread the phenomenon and misunderstand others, criticism and accusation are undoubtedly inappropriate. If the other party does have a reason to be criticized, whether it is criticized depends on the wind direction. Don't make something out of nothing. Get rid of irrelevant nonsense. If you are not sure whether what you say is good for people and things, and whether it does more harm than good, then you might as well not say it.
Wisdom 07 Divination: Be upright and do things uprightly.
It shouldn't be unnecessary. If we want it, people will become slaves to foreign things, and foreign things that were originally driven by people will control ourselves. Selfish and cowardly people are often unhappy, because even if they protect their own interests and safety, they can't protect their own character and self-confidence. As long as you can keep introspection, you can be self-sustaining and not empty in various environments.
Wisdom 08 Bi Gua: Sincerely accept talents and make friends.
What you give, you will get. If you treat others sincerely, you will reap the sincerity of others. When others need help, you lend a helping hand. What others get is not what you lose. We are all born in a group and are destined to get along with people of one kind or another. Therefore, only by actively trying to adapt to each other's personality and treating everyone around you sincerely can we establish good interpersonal relationships.
Wisdom 09 small animal melon: sincere, things will go smoothly.
You can't rule the world without sincerity, and you can't serve the world without faith. Honesty is the foundation of being a man and an important principle of interpersonal communication. Its basic requirement is honesty and trustworthiness, and it is necessary to "keep your word". As long as you are an honest and prosperous person, everyone will find your noble character and give you the highest respect.
Wisdom 10 is a perfect hexagram: do things with goals and follow the plan.
If you want to achieve your career by going up a storey still higher, you must stand on a higher level, see more, listen more and get in touch with new things without changing your mind, and you will be eliminated. In this era of rapid development, it is by no means alarmist. It is not enough to have a goal. You should act at once, not delay. Never be entangled in trivial daily affairs and become a slave to trivial matters.
Wisdom 1 1 Thai hexagram: the inside is round, the gentleman inside is the villain outside.
If we can combine the wisdom of the square and the circle in our life, so that the square is square and the circle is round, and to what extent it is square and round, it is just right, that is, Fiona Fang is clear. Fiona Fang is very clear. According to the present statement, it is a high degree of unity of principle and flexibility. This is the most advanced strategy, the most advanced policy, and the most advanced way to treat people. To do this, you need a high degree of wisdom and cultivation.
Wisdom 12 negative hexagrams: accept it calmly and be calm.
When we stop doing the inevitable facts, we can save energy and create a richer life. Things in the world are not things that we can take the initiative or do well as long as we work hard. There are many things we can only do our duty, that's all. As the saying goes, "Man proposes, God disposes". If we understand this, we will not become unhappy or irritable because of external pressure and pain. We all sympathize with the pain in the world, which is normal and human reaction. But we should also keep a proper distance from it. Only in this way can we cope with pain, and only in this way can we live a better life.
Wisdom 13 pumpkin: live in harmony and integrate into the team.
When people's hearts are integrated with each other, they will unite and cooperate, be kind and friendly, inspire incomparable strength, and do a vigorous cause. If you want to integrate into the collective, you must be approachable, modest and prudent, be brave in accepting criticism and education from others, be good at putting forward good ideas and opinions, treat people equally, not be special, not put on airs, be flexible, be both rigid and flexible, and be polite and virtuous.
Wisdom 14 divination: not arrogant and impetuous, approachable.
If you want to get enemies, behave better than your friends; If you want to get friends, let your friends behave better than you.
Wisdom 15 modesty hexagrams: modest and prudent, open-minded.
Full loss, little gain. He was originally a conductor, but he repeatedly insisted that the credit should belong to all officers and men, not himself. Only short-sighted and ambitious people will always flaunt their actions, sometimes to flaunt themselves, or even to cover up their mistakes in public. One is the boundary between humility and vanity. If a person pretends to be modest in order to get the reputation of "modesty", it is a common manifestation of vanity. Whether you can be frank or not depends on three points: first, treat people equally. Don't feel superior, keep a normal mind, look at others and respect others. The second is to be broad-minded. Open-minded, open-minded, happy when you smell it, and correct when you make mistakes. The third is the virtue of tolerance. Be kind to others and forgive them, not haggle over every ounce.
Wisdom 16 divination: you can't get carried away when you are proud, and you can't be sad when you are extremely happy.
People who always pursue their previous goals will not be intoxicated with their achievements. They always try their best to reach a better, fuller and more ideal state. It is in this process that they improve themselves and their lives.
Wisdom 17 follow the hexagrams: improvise and follow the trend.
Wisdom 18 ancient melon: a lesson from the past, mistakes must be corrected.
Before doing great things, we should assess the situation and analyze the situation; After doing great things, we should pay attention to governance measures and foresee the consequences. The most powerful weapons to correct mistakes are criticism and self-criticism.
Wisdom 19 pro-divination: be tolerant and do something that affects you.
It may be important to blame others for their mistakes, but it is a higher level effort to forgive others' mistakes in time. Tolerance to others is tolerance to yourself.
Wisdom 20 Watching Melons: Only by observing diligently can we know ourselves and ourselves.
It is true that a person is good at seizing opportunities and guiding them according to the situation, but it is also a wise move to go forward bravely and stop. It all depends on the number in your mind. Resolutely not doing it, even if it seems to be doing nothing, is also high-spirited. Only when faced with complex events, clearly know what to do and what not to do, and adjust your behavior accordingly, can you become a wise man.
Wisdom 2 1 eating hexagrams: stick to principles and distinguish grievances.
The most effective way to deal with others' mistakes correctly can convince others to realize their own mistakes and correct them. For your own mistakes, you also need to deal with them clearly, stick to those correct "mistakes" and correct those that should be corrected. Looking back at history and reality, the difference between winners and losers. Standing high and pursuing high can often make a person a strong person in life and a winner in competition.
Wisdom 22 melons: set up a personal image and learn to package yourself.
If you want to be a winner, you must be a winner first. The friends we make should be noble gentlemen, not those with high-sounding and ulterior motives. You must first shape your successful self-image and cultivate your good temperament in order to achieve the success you expect. Catching other people's eyes is the key to your success. If you let as many people as possible see you, hear you, feel you and like you, then you are only one step away from success.
Wisdom 23 stripping hexagrams: advocating the doctrine of the mean, enough is enough.
If people don't do things in the right way, blind doing will not have a good result.
Wisdom 24 complex divination: good at summing up and introspection
Recognizing mistakes is the first step to save yourself. To be a man, it is better to hold your head high and correct your mistakes than to complain with your head down; It is better to rise up in reflection than to mourn in reflection. After introspection, the soul is purified and human nature can be truly revealed. At this time, no matter what you do, you will have unprecedented enthusiasm. Only by being good at constantly adjusting yourself at all stages of life can we adapt to the emerging new situations and maintain strong combat effectiveness for a long time.
Wisdom without false divination 25: Don't stick to your own opinions, but ask for more evidence.
When you disagree with the other person's point of view, your first reaction is often that the other person is wrong, which is also the reason why your stubbornness causes your prejudice. In past and present interpersonal communication, people who can't change their thinking and turn around will only fall into a dead end and never find their own way out.
Wisdom 26 Animal hexagrams: Dare to choose and dare to give up.
You should learn to be satisfied with life. If you are not satisfied, sometimes you can't get even the most basic things. People are often greedy, want this and that, and are unwilling to give up anything, which is also a manifestation of narrow perspective. On the road to success, we must know how to choose and give up.
Wisdom 27 hexagrams: frugality is the beginning of happiness, abstinence is the source of happiness.
Wisdom is greater than divination: blindness leads to disaster and rashness leads to quagmire.
Don't fantasize about immediate results. Sometimes you have to learn to wait. Of course, this kind of waiting is not passive inaction and resignation, but active preparation, ready to go, and put down the long line to catch big fish.
Wisdom 29 Divination: Conquer setbacks with courage and walk out of difficulties with faith.
I can't escape this accident, it will accompany me all my life. But if I apply "possible thinking", this burden will become my milestone. Only by learning to accept can we find new hope.
Wisdom 30 deviates from divination: calm and calm, and strive for victory in stability.
To be a successful person, you must first be a leisurely person.
Wisdom 3 1 Xian Gua: If you achieve others, you will achieve yourself.
The success of interpersonal relationships has a lot to do with whether you can be kind to others. A helpful and helpful person, with whom people are willing to associate and become friends, can also benefit themselves. When you help others, you put your feelings into it invisibly, and others will always remember your help. As long as there is an opportunity, they will take the initiative to repay. This is the best interpersonal communication you can hope for.
Wisdom 32 constant hexagrams: people are expensive and persistent.
Do one thing, don't waver, don't be intimidated by immediate difficulties, don't give up halfway, don't try, and don't fall short. Perseverance is a kind of perseverance and a kind of spirit. Nothing in the world can replace perseverance. In the journey of life, there is neither victory nor failure, which is the greatest sorrow.
Wisdom 33: Concealment means concealment, retreat means retreat.
Hiding yourself is not the same as burying yourself. People who are in a weak position must cleverly avoid each other's sharp edges, look for opportunities from each other's weaknesses, and look for opportunities to retreat and advance.
The top 34 hexagrams of wisdom: too strong and easy to break, too stiff and easy to break.
Learning to compromise temporarily and inevitably is indeed an important ruling way, a military way and the first thing in life. With the passage of the main road, as for neighborhood disputes, it is not difficult to solve daily contradictions such as Steve's disagreement and husband-wife bickering through compromise. Learning to compromise and learn to give up is actually a major topic in life.
Wisdom 35 golden hexagrams: give first, then take, and do things actively.
As a wise person, we should have the following ideas:
1. There is no such thing as a free lunch. Living, living well, needs a lot of things, and the most fundamental way to get these things is to do things, not to fight.
2. Normal mind is very important. It's hard to do things, so besides having enough courage and perseverance, it's important to be normal.
Seize all the time and opportunities to improve the ability to do things. Many things are difficult for those who can't, but not for those who can. The world is like a train that runs strictly by the point. You always chase it, and it will never wait for you.
Wisdom 36 Ming Yi hexagrams: hide your light and bide your time.
The purpose of "heroes don't eat immediate losses" is to eat immediate losses in exchange for other interests, to survive and to achieve higher goals. If they suffer huge losses or even lose their lives because they don't eat immediate losses, how can they talk about their future and ideals!
Wisdom 37 family divination: get harmony with love and happiness with understanding.
Husband and wife can discuss, but not argue. Argument is a trap of interpersonal relationship. There are no winners in arguments, especially lovers.
There are still many aspects to pay attention to in communication, such as talking to each other's mentality according to the occasion and saving face in front of friends; Enhance feedback awareness and understand each other's inner feelings in time; Pay attention to the differences between men and women and avoid communication errors; The attitude and emotion of speaking are sometimes more profound than the content of speaking; Wait a minute.
Wisdom 38 hexagrams: seek common ground while reserving differences, respect each other as guests.
Seeking common ground while reserving differences, "respect" is the foundation, and patience, tolerance and openness are also needed. If you can combine this rule with learning from each other's strengths and openness, you will express yourself comfortably and learn new things from other people's different opinions.
Wisdom 39 hexagrams: retreat from difficulties and stretch flexibly.
"Walk through the narrow road and stay with pedestrians: if the flavor is strong, it will be reduced by three points to make people taste. This is a very happy way. " Compromise begins with concession and ends with victory. The appearance is to put the interests of the other party first, and the truth is to clear the way for your own interests. Why not take small steps back in exchange for big steps forward? The algorithm of life is not as simple as one plus one equals two. An untimely advance is actually a big retrogression, a positive and ingenious retreat, but it may be a real progress.
Interpretation of Wisdom 40: Treat each other with forgiveness to understand tolerance.
/kloc-Hugo, the master of French literature in the 0/9th century, once said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." This sentence is not only romantic, but also practical.
Wisdom 4 1 damage divination: control emotions and avoid impulsiveness.
Calm is a quality that a mature person should possess. Calm lies not only in being able to control your emotions, but also in how to accurately position yourself, how to face all kinds of complicated situations, and how to deal with the sudden changes in life and career. ?
Wisdom 42 is beneficial to divination: loss is a blessing, and loss is a benefit.
When "disaster" comes, we should not be depressed, because there will be a better sky after the storm; And when "blessing" comes, we should not be complacent, because the stormy waves in the sea are hidden under the calm sea. Look at everything with forgiveness, and you will find that life is fair to everyone.
Wisdom 43 Divination: When it is broken, it is broken, decisive and firm.
When you find an opportunity, take bold action.
Wisdom 44 hexagrams: combine rigidity with softness, advance and retreat freely.
Smart people pay special attention to hiding the front and revealing the clumsiness. Suffering is both a precursor and a test. It chooses the strong-willed and eliminates the weak-willed.
Wisdom 45 extracts divination: be careful in making friends and behave yourself.
Wisdom 46 liters hexagrams: a gentleman is Shunde, a villain is tall.
Eager to do great things, focus on small things first.
People who want to achieve great things must understand one thing.