1. Responsible for housework: handle housework in an orderly way, so that the husband can have no worries and develop his career with peace of mind, and the children can go home with the warmth of the family and get full protection. Nowadays, many women go out to look for jobs, and professional women can certainly increase the working population and human resources of society. If the husband and wife don't cooperate properly, there will be all kinds of troubles of key children and problems of teenagers, which can't be ignored. Some women don't go out to work, don't share family expenses, and always want to climb to the outer edge and don't do housework, which leads to many family disputes in vain. Don't be careless!
2. Endure grievances: Every family has a difficult experience, a family's material life, and seven things are indispensable; The problem of getting along with sisters-in-law in spiritual life and serving aunt Weng can not be ignored. Even in a small family, children's education is a headache, which requires women to show great endurance, understand grievances, be licorice in medicinal materials, add spice to a bitter life, and turn conflicts into peace and tranquility.
3. Keeping chastity and respecting chastity: One of the five fundamental precepts of Buddhism is not to commit adultery, which means not to do anything beyond the ethical code except the proper relationship between husband and wife. Women should strictly abide by this precept, keep chastity and honor, and never do anything detrimental to women's morality. By extension, men should also follow this commandment, so that there will be no unfortunate marriage tragedy in society.
4. Respect your husband: A wife should respect her husband as a guest, respect his personality, make her husband very beautiful and respectable in front of others, and be respected by everyone. A wife will also add a lot of luster invisibly. Sometimes, I see some tough women humiliating their husbands in front of everyone. Being a lion roar is not only a shame for their husbands, but also a shame for themselves.
5. Harmony with relatives and friends: A woman should not only love her husband and be filial to her parents-in-law, but also urge her relatives and friends to be good neighbors and establish good interpersonal relationships with them, thus laying a good foundation for the success of her husband and family. After all, marriage is not just a matter for two people. A woman is a good wife for a man's career.
In addition to the above virtues, women should also get rid of the following five vices:
1. Lazy games: Some women are lazy, and they are addicted to the battle of Fangcheng all day, or to all kinds of dancing, and they are addicted to playing with their second or third friends, ignoring the lives of their husbands and children. This is a responsibility of housewives.
2. Offensive irony: Some people say that three women can't be peaceful together. We can often see this situation. Women get together to gossip about their parents and the Li family, sow discord, secretly discuss other people's privacy and create unwarranted right and wrong. What's more, they swear and swear in the street, making their neighbors uneasy. Instead of spending precious time talking about other people's strengths and weaknesses, why not study hard and improve your moral education?
3. Alien evil thoughts: A wife should always be alert to her lack of love for her husband and care for her family. She should spare no effort to take care of her home, and should not be whimsical. We should give up our greed for love and give everything to build a happy family.
4. Vanity: Vanity is the common enemy of mankind. Some people love material things, some people covet power, some people pursue love, some people can let go of fame and affection, but they can't break the barrier of respect. Some women, seeing that others are more beautiful than themselves, follow the trend and run to the beauty salon, raising their noses and carving their eyelids deeper. As a result, they are self-defeating and increase the pain of the body in vain. Some women, seeing that others have more money than themselves, encourage their husbands to take risks and commit crimes, thus creating a tragedy.
5. jealousy of relatives: human beings have a common problem, and they can't see others. For example, when relatives and friends are good, they always criticize him to express their dissatisfaction. What's more, a big family that was originally harmonious and harmonious finally had to leave home and start a new stove because of jealousy and discord between sisters-in-law.
In the past, there was a woman whose family was poor. She became a beggar. One day, she begged in a temple It happened that a Dafa meeting was being held in this temple. The woman quickly took out all her pockets, found a copper coin that she had worked so hard for, gave it to Zhai, and planted Futian in the future. The abbot and monk knew about it, and quickly accepted it and prayed for her. After the meeting, the woman continued to beg in other places, wandered into a forest, and unconsciously fell asleep under the tree. It happened that the king at that time had just lost his virtuous queen and was in great pain. Ministers suggested that the king go hunting in the wild for fun. When the king walked into the forest, he suddenly saw a light. When he looked forward, he saw a beautiful woman in rags sleeping on the fallen leaves. When the king fell in love at first sight, he welcomed the beggar who prayed for the monk back to the palace and made her queen. Cinderella, the queen, was grateful for the blessings of all the buddhas and bodhisattvas and sent ten carts of rare treasures to the temple to express her gratitude. She thought along the way,' I thought I only gave a copper coin, and the abbot came out to entertain me himself. Today, I prepared such an expensive gift. How can the monks in the whole temple pay attention to it and thank me?' When you arrive at the temple, the blessing ceremony will be like a ceremony, but you will never see the shadow of the abbot. The queen finally couldn't help asking the steward, who said to her, "Queen! At the beginning, although you gave a copper coin, it was all you had. You supported the three treasures with your heart and respect. Although the article is thin and the merits are boundless, the great monk has to pray for you in person. Today, you brought a lot of treasures to give, but these are just all your nine Niu Yi hairs. Besides, you are vain and arrogant, and your merits are naturally limited. Therefore, the big monk thinks that it is enough to send a master to eliminate the disaster for you. " Vanity is enough to steal our merits, and it is conceivable how five evils will harm our wisdom. The above five evils must be avoided, and the five good ones must be avoided in order to stay away from the abyss of evil and become better and better.