I am reviewing "Chen Xi Yuan" again. The second time I read it, I was still moved and burst into tears. This drama can be called a conscience drama and is worth revisiting many times. The reason why this drama is good is not only because of the acting skills of the actors, but Jiuchen played by Zhang Zhen is very interesting and has a lot of boyfriend power.
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I like this part of Lin Mo’s play the most, not only because she is a mortal, but also because her feelings are particularly sincere.
What moved me especially was Lin Mo’s father, Lin Shaohai. His paternal love was very selfless and without any benefit. When I read it for the first time, I didn't understand why a father would love his adopted daughter so deeply, but be so indifferent to his biological daughter Lin Xian.
It wasn’t until the second time I read it that I understood that the reason lies in the words “love” and “kindness”.
Lin Shaohai and his wife Yang were extremely loving, but had no choice but to have no children after many years of marriage. Faced with the pressure from their mother, they had to adopt a child and pretend to be their biological child in order to fulfill her mother's wish.
First of all, Lin Shaohai really loves his wife and they are in love with each other. Secondly, he loves Wujiwu and Lin Mo, even if he is not his biological child.
Furthermore, when she saw Lin Mo, who was still a baby, she sucked her little hand. This middle-aged man seemed to be blessed with a son, and was extremely happy.
Children are all destined to be together. Lin Shaohai and Lin Mo are destined to be destined, so they have a deep love for each other. Regardless of whether he is biological or not, the first child in the family will inevitably receive special love and attention.
The reason why Lin Shaohai likes this adopted daughter who is not his biological child is not only for his own reasons, but also the most important thing is that Lin Mo is kind, gentle, talented and studious, not because of his own background. If you suffer from a disability, you will give up on yourself. On the contrary, he has an optimistic and positive personality and works hard to study pharmacology.
Lin Shaohai is a scholar who attaches great importance to feudal ethics and values ????that a woman's lack of talent is a virtue. Therefore, he believed in his bones that "marry a virtuous wife."
The wife is virtuous and virtuous, and she behaves like a lady. It is a pity that she cannot have children, but Lin Shaohai does not dislike this.
From this point of view, what Lin Shaohai values ??most is still a woman's character. Therefore, even though Lin Mo was born with an ear disease and was deaf and mute, he was pure in character and considerate, which was very consistent with Lin Shaohai's evaluation standards for women.
When the Song family came to propose marriage, everyone thought it was for the concubine Lin Xiang. After all, she was a "healthy" child who was worthy of someone else's son.
Lin Shaohai said very proudly that they all made a mistake and proposed the marriage to Lin Mo. His love for Lin Mo came from the bottom of his heart and he was proud of her. When others said she was disabled, he never shied away from it and accepted it happily.
As a man of flesh and blood, Lin Shaohai could not withstand the pressure of his mother even if he and his wife were in love. The family is not prosperous and has a disabled daughter. As the person in charge of the family, Mrs. Lin is not happy. As her son, Lin Shaohai feels ashamed of the family.
Under pressure, she had to agree to take a concubine in the hope of giving birth to a son and inheriting the family business. Unexpectedly, it was a daughter again. Fortunately, her limbs were sound and she had no pain, which fulfilled Mrs. Lin's wish.
But it was also because of this that the concubine became more and more arrogant and overbearing, running against the main wife everywhere. The concubine's daughter was unruly, unruly, vulgar, and uneducated.
Fundamentally speaking, this does not meet Lin Shaohai's evaluation standards for women. What he values ??most in his heart is "virtuous". He does not like concubines who have been doted on and grown up. It was disgusting and completely contrary to the set of values ??he believed in.
In contrast, although Lin Mo is deaf and mute, he has been personally taught by Lin Shaohai since he was a child. He reads and practices calligraphy, and is relatively similar to his father in terms of his behavior and temperament.
As the saying goes, those who are close to red are red and those who are close to ink are black. Lin Shaohai is very satisfied with the daughter he has taught himself and regards her as the apple of his eye.
In the final analysis, what he is maintaining is his own set of values.
When Lin Mo faced a life crisis and his birth date conflicted with that of the prince, and it was inevitable that he would die, Lin Shaohai's heart was like a knife. He loved this daughter and regarded it as his own, but he also shouldered the burden of the family. His biological daughter was taken away, and her life or death is uncertain.
Since ancient times, there has been a dilemma between loyalty and filial piety. As a parent, Lin Shaohai could not just watch a family fall into danger, so he had no choice but to drown Lin Mo.
Only Lin Shaohai himself knows this heartbreaking pain.
When he thought that Lin Mo was really dead and had no love left in his life, he was not overjoyed even when his biological daughter Lin Bloom was released.
In contrast, when Lin Mo survived the disaster and returned home, his first sentence was to ask his father if he was injured. Facing such a kind daughter, Lin Shaohai felt even more painful and blamed himself. , even more ashamed.
However, Lin Xiang was still brazen and scolded Lin Mo, which completely angered Lin Shaohai and slapped him in the face.
Why is Lin Shaohai even willing to beat his own daughter?
Because they, especially concubines and concubines, do not understand what a man really wants and what he maintains. They don't understand the helplessness and heartache of a middle-aged man.
In fact, Lin Shaohai lived a very depressed life and was under great pressure, but apart from his wife, only Lin Mo understood this. Lin Mo has been considerate since he was a child. Seeing his father worrying about things in the workplace, he would rather endure the grievances than cause trouble to his father.
How could Lin Shaohai not love such a sensible and well-behaved daughter.
In any relationship in the world, there is no unreasonable like or dislike. There must be some inexpressible reason.
The same is true for the parent-child relationship. Why do some parents naturally like one child but are cold to another.
This depends on the emotional state of the parents when they gave birth to a certain child. Was it loving or noisy? Do you really want to welcome a new life, or are you reluctant and forced to give birth to a child?
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