There must be a wooden gang, but don't be too hot? Why is it so contradictory? Because wood can make a fire. As for what to wear, I think it's better to bring less wooden ornaments and some metal or jade ornaments, because aquatic Jin Mu makes a fire. Besides, it's better to fill in the name rather than what to wear.
As for how you two complement each other, I have to give you eight characters to get the result. And it is doomed (if you believe it) that you can't complement each other, but you can only compromise or cater to it (accurately). I don't know if you live together or share a room. It's too early to say this.