What aspects should teachers guide family education and help parents update their educational ideas and concepts?

From the perspective of traditional Confucian cultural education, cultural knowledge education is now too developed, but moral personality education is marginalized. However, moral personality plays a greater role on the road of life. It is suggested to refer to the enlightenment of Master Da 'an that children are the future of a nation. The rise and fall of a nation depends on the quality of children, so the education of children is very important. Family education is the foundation of governing the country and keeping the country safe, so it has to be studied. Children's education is more about moral education, personality education, comprehensive quality education, awe education and a code of conduct. What do you teach when children are sensible? Eight virtues: filial piety, filial piety, loyalty, faith, courtesy, righteousness, honesty and shame. If this eight-virtue education is successful, he will benefit for life. First of all, we should teach filial piety and honor our parents. You can't spoil him, and you can't be child-centered. In traditional society, when it's time to eat, children should help their parents add rice and serve tea, which is to cultivate their filial piety. Now it's upside down. The child is sitting on it. He seems to be a little sun. His parents are busy waiting on him. If he is three years old or can't take care of himself, you can serve him. Don't be like this when he is seven or eight years old and in his teens. You must let him serve his parents and others to fulfill his filial piety. When dealing with the relationship between brothers, the younger brother should respect the older brother, and the older brother should of course care about the younger brother. There should be such virtues between brothers. Loyalty, deal with the relationship between individuals and society, and the relationship with the country. When you serve the society and become a civil servant, you must be loyal to your country. If you are loyal, you won't abuse power for personal gain, corrupt and deposit the country's money in foreign banks. You are disloyal to these things. So we see so many corrupt officials because we have no education since childhood; Letters are friends, so we should pay attention to credibility. This letter is both personal and verbal. What people say is credible. If what they say is not credible, you are not human. Therefore, people have been very dignified since ancient times, and some things are guaranteed by personality, so there is nothing to say. But now that your personality has disintegrated, you say that you don't trust anyone with your personality guarantee. The letter of the ancients is a promise as good as a promise. Once it is spoken, it is difficult to take it back. Keep your promise anyway. Faith is rooted in sincerity, and sincerity will be manifested. Now this society is also an era of extremely low honesty, and it is difficult to establish a trust relationship between people. Sometimes it's really emotional to see this. There are too many cheating, forgery and other things in the economic field, even false reports, advertisements and diplomas in the media. So one must have faith. During his teaching, Zi Gong asked Confucius for advice on how to govern the country. There are three elements in running a country: food and soldiers, and then credibility and trust. Zi Gong asked again: If you want to remove one of these three things, what should you remove? Confucius replied: the garrison (that is, the national defense force) can be removed. If one of the three elements must be removed, national defense will be removed, leaving two. Being full is a matter of eating, so further, if you have to choose between being full and believing, what should you take and give up? This is very serious for a ruler. Confucius replied: get rid of enough food. You can put this livelihood food problem down and leave this letter. Zi Gong was shocked. How could he make such a choice? Confucius said: since ancient times, people have never died and people have no faith. You may die without food. No one has died since ancient times, but without the virtue of honesty, a person can't stand up and his personality collapses. In other words, the moral value of this letter exceeds the life span of the body. This is the language that China saints use to beat the floor. We deeply admire the sage, who can elevate a moral and spiritual value to this level. However, our present unfilial descendants have reduced the moral value of this letter to such a degree. We are all ashamed of Mr. Kong Lao (Confucius) and need to educate him about letters. Politeness, politeness, politeness and respect, the spirit of politeness is respect, and respect should be polite and polite expression of this respect; Righteousness, justice and China culture, Guan Yu's image is a typical example of righteousness. Nothing can shake his brotherhood and loyalty to Liu Bei after the three outstanding men in Taoyuan were righteous. Cheap, honest and thrifty. One should reduce material desires, be honest and clean, be honest and clean for officials, and remain uncorrupted. If a person can be honest, his moral personality can come up. If a person pursues high consumption and leads a luxurious life, it is easy to go astray and take those ill-gotten gains. The last one is shame, shame and guilt. When you do something, you are ashamed of your conscience, of heaven and earth, and of others. Knowing shame is almost brave. Only when you know this shame will you be brave enough to correct it. This kind of shame is equivalent to the shame and shame of Buddhism. If a person has no sense of shame, it is hopeless. If a person has no sense of shame and is shameless, it is hopeless. This sense of shame is an emotional reaction that his good knowledge and ability have not disappeared. If all good knowledge and ability are gone, not in material desires and hatred, he will not be ashamed. There will be no shame, no shame, only pride. You see, some people are doing bad things now. He steals from others, and he shows off himself to his face. You see how brave and resourceful I am in the process of robbing them. What happened? He thought it was a show-off. Not ashamed, but proud. I'm having an affair and showing off. You see how charming I am. I have several such lovers. Look at him showing off. So it is shameless, shameless, and there is no way for a person to be shameless. Eight virtues, these eight words are very important and also a person's personality. If there are no these eight characters, then the ancients said it was called the death character. You have forgotten all these eight words and can't reflect them on you. Forgot that eight characters are more elegant. If the word "character" is omitted, it is called Wuba, which means a little swearing. What's the matter with you? Eight eggs are dead, and these eight words are gone at all. This kind of education for children is the real education, and this is the most authentic thing of education. Then we will further talk about the cause and effect of the third generation. All actions are in the past, present and future. This cause and effect of the third generation is true. Each of our actions will be reflected in the six divisions of the wheel of karma, and we will teach our children three generations of cause and effect and the six divisions of the wheel of karma. Causality and samsara are the core of Buddhism. If a child can accept this truth and establish such an idea in his mind, he will feel awe, he will not dare to do anything wrong, and he will establish the basis of punishing evil and promoting good. This foundation is deeply rooted in his heart, and he will be really cautious in his behavior. When no one is watching, he will also discipline himself according to these eight words to regulate himself. If there is no concept of causal reincarnation, then all moral education is unfounded. Although he talks about morality verbally, it's all verbal. Therefore, we are deeply worried now. When a society does not believe in the cause and effect of the third world and the six divisions in the wheel of karma, then the morality of this society will definitely decline, which is very important.