It is not difficult to find that when a man is a son-in-law, the conditions of the woman's family are definitely better than those of the man's family. Otherwise, no man will give up his parents, but he will experience a miserable marriage life, which is unreasonable emotionally and intellectually. Material is the premise to ensure a happy marriage.
Even if the wife's family conditions are good, the husband can struggle less for decades, but for a man, this has nothing to do with him. The significance of a man in marriage is not only to give his family a good life, but also to reflect a man's due responsibility. At least you should have your own career. Only in this way will others respect you, otherwise, the door-to-door son-in-law will really be full of personality grievances.
Son-in-law's self-esteem is stronger, and economic income determines family status, whether it is a woman or a man. The so-called dignity is not given to you by others, but earned by yourself. A person can't talk about happiness without a career.
Second, love your wife as always.
In fact, the door-to-door son-in-law is like a married woman. If you want to stay at home, the other half must be on your side. If you have a bad relationship with your wife, no matter how good the family conditions are, once a man is wronged in marriage, especially in other people's homes, divorce is really only a matter of minutes. Men have a lot of face, but in the old father-in-law's house, even if they quarrel, they have no confidence.
Just like Xu Lai's father-in-law's family, he insists that infertility is not worthy of the name. He dare not refute all kinds of ironic renaming, because his wife Cai Bo is not at the scene, and because he is in this family, he is just the head of working for others.
However, a door-to-door son-in-law, with the protection and care of his wife, has a different status. First of all, if her family has no son, her father-in-law will allow her to do so. On the contrary, a daughter's position is just like a son's position at home. Secondly, for the father-in-law, the son-in-law was originally treated as a son, but her "treatment" was slightly worse. If her wife loves you, her position is obviously different.
Nowadays, many men choose to be door-to-door sons-in-law, but no matter what the original intention is, as men, we must always understand the above two points, otherwise, let alone unhappy marriage, I am afraid even parents will suffer.