In other words, not only do you get married late, but your wife is also very heavy, and once you get married, it won't end. Get married, get divorced or die young.
That's why people say you were ordered by a monk.
This kind of life is really a bad marriage, which cannot be changed, but it is not necessarily a monk.
This life is a hard life, and it will be a general fortune for a lifetime to live with a few people.