The relationship between hot and cold couples is long-lasting, but it is difficult for intense couples to end.
The relationship between hot and cold couples is endless, and it is difficult for intense couples to end.
Marriage is like chess, where a man and a woman compete in life. If you want to break out of the siege, you need not only true feelings but also wisdom.
As the saying goes: hot and cold couples are always together, but intense couples never end.
In the marriage situation, it needs "cold and hot" to make it last longer.
01 Marriage, independence of personality
Gibran said in marriage: In unity, there must be gaps.
Marriage is a man and a woman who are in harmony with each other and make each other complete.
Two different lives and souls come together and transform from two people into a group of people.
But outside of marriage, the two souls still exist independently.
In the soil of marriage, only by maintaining a sense of cold and hot distance can the flower of happiness be nurtured.
Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang are a rare loving couple in the history of Chinese literature.
In the history of China’s revolution, there is also a perfectly matched couple with white heads.
This is Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao.
Zhou Enlai said: "I hope you will cherish it and kiss you thousands of times!"
Deng Yingchao said: "Love is long and short, but I will kiss you thousands of times!"
< p> Their love is the envy of countless people at home and abroad.But outside of their marriage, one is a great revolutionary leader and the other is an outstanding revolutionary.
They have all devoted their blood and youth in the history of the Chinese revolution, and are loyal to the mountains.
There is a saying that goes well: if we are divided, we will each be king; if we unite, we will be unparalleled in the world.
The most enviable love is not staying together all day long. But with just one look from you, I know you are in trouble.
A long-term couple is definitely not a lover who is tired of being together every day. How can people who only talk about love and moon appreciate the fireworks of the world, maintain their independent personality and shine spiritually? Only this kind of love can always be passionate and fresh.
02 Marriage, learn to give
If the way to keep a marriage fresh is to have a warm and cold distance, to be able to stay together and be alone; then the way to get along in marriage The way is to know each other's coldness and heat, and learn to love each other actively.
It is said that there are few couples in the entertainment industry who are in love and grow old together, but Du Jiang and Huo Siyan are exceptions.
In the past ten years since they announced their relationship in 2012, they had children and started a family,
not only did their love for each other not fade away, but it actually made the two of them even sweeter.
The couple must kiss before going out and say "I love you" before going to bed.
Du Jiang will prepare midnight snacks for Huo Siyan who gets off work late, and Huo Siyan will also send snacks and greetings to Du Jiang when he works overtime. Compared with other couples in the entertainment industry, their sweetness is very ordinary, but it is also the most touching.
For many people, marriage and children are the end of romance, but for couples who know both coldness and warmth, marriage is a new starting point for romance.
Wang Xiaobo said: When couples live together, they must have an attitude of falling in love every day. Just like making a cake, you have to add a little honey, a little sugar, and a little cream to the relationship between husband and wife every day...
A marriage with only passion is like fireworks exploding in the sky, fleeting. Real and long-lasting love should be a long-lasting flow, integrated into every moment of life, in the small details of just a few words.
03 Marriage, Cherish Good Destiny
In ancient times, men and women exchanged invitations before marriage to predict whether their horoscopes would match. This custom was called "combined marriage".
The meaning of marriage is to avoid bad luck and find good luck. Positive fate is a person's destined fate.
Those who can become husband and wife are destined to be together.
Buddha said: Only by looking back thousands of times in the past life can we exchange for the chance of passing by in this life.
To be able to meet and fall in love with each other in the vast world, what a deep love it must be.
Fate is God’s arrangement. Every encounter has its meaning.
Perhaps marriage cannot make you happy forever, but if you take life seriously, marriage will definitely not let you down. Now, for most people, marriage is no longer a necessity.
But since you have decided to get married, you must be responsible for this fate. No matter whether your marriage is hot or cold, don't give up easily and cherish the good fortune.
Since we are holding hands in this life, please walk side by side in the direction of "holding your hand and growing old together".