On how to resolve the marital discord from the perspective of numerology

In the last two years, I have seen a lot of characters with unsatisfactory marriage and feelings, and I have also adjusted and improved many friends with unsatisfactory feelings through the method of numerology and geomantic omen. In this process, I deeply realized many pains and troubles brought by bad feelings. Although according to the analysis of Buddhism and numerology, these are causal or predestined, but modern numerology is to improve fate through these and make adjustments. Even according to religion, we don't have to bear all the fate silently, because the Buddhist scriptures say: ordinary people fear fruit, bodhisattvas fear cause. Even if we can't completely change our life, we can change tomorrow's life through our own benefits for the future. The main forms of marital unhappiness are as follows (the possible form in brackets is eight characters): 1, which has been neglected for a long time (the couple's feelings are weak, the peach blossoms are weak, and four or three words are dry). 2. Meet the right person at the wrong time, or meet the wrong person at the right time (there are many yin and yang mistakes, and there are other forms). 3, the relationship between the two sides is very good, but there are violent conflicts between relatives, friends or family members (in general, most of them are single next month). 4. I tried very hard to get married, but the other party let me down (couples' palace or couples' stars are mostly jealous). 5. I finally became a family, but the other party left me because of accidents or trivial matters (the husband and wife palace failed or was merged). 6, couples get together (men have orphans and women are widowed). 7. Like people you shouldn't like or be pursued and recognized by people you shouldn't like (most of them are fighting for couples or splitting wives). 8. Sometimes being liked by many people dazzles me and I don't know which is better. It is best to get nothing (female officials are mixed up, or the eight characters compete with Japan). 9. Women's life is too strong or men's life is too delicate and feminine, which leads to family disharmony (women's life is Gai Hua, Kui Gang or Chunyang, men's life is pure yin, not absolute). Principles and methods to solve the above marriage problems: 1, don't complain, because all kinds of fruits today are caused by yesterday, so you can't continue to plant the seeds of resentment and complaints, but you should improve your mood and pay more for others. If you want to transfer, you should change your mind first. With a grateful attitude every day, I don't always care about what I lost or didn't get, but appreciate what I got and didn't lose. 2, try to get married late, many feelings can be solved through late marriage. Never get married for the sake of marriage, and never get married with a game mentality. 3. Several principles for dissolution of marriage in the process of mate selection: (1) The female is older than the male; (2) Both parties have distant places of birth or residence; (3) Men are more than 8 years older than women; (4) Have more children (this is not in line with the current national family planning policy, but after a large number of eight-character examples, many unhappy marriages can solve the divorce problem if they have children in the marriage crisis year); 4. Promote peach blossom through geomantic omen or adjust the relationship between husband and wife. 5. Believe in religion.