The five elements belong to civil life, not contradictions, but mutual constraints?

Not mutually gram.

Men are destined to be wood, and women are destined to be earth. It's a perfect match. Women are doomed to wood, men are doomed to soil, and women are stronger than men. There are also strong women in modern society.

Soft personality, easy-going, rich in feelings, free and easy in manners, broad-minded, optimistic in life, good at making friends, lofty and confident, tall, white in length, handsome in appearance, imposing, soft in voice, innocent in face and beautiful in mouth.