Some people think maturity means growing up, some people think maturity means success, but I think maturity is the sublimation of the soul. Below are the essays I compiled on the topic of maturity. Welcome to read them.
A sign of maturity
As time goes by in a hurry, you are probably embarking on a journey.
Along the way, I lost a bit of innocence and gained maturity. Life is probably a process. When you first enter the world, you cry, accompanied by the joy of your family having a child. You taste the first breath of air and start to be attached to this world. At this time, you don't understand the world, you are just a treasure of your family. After a few years of being cared for like this, you gradually understand the joys, sorrows and joys, or have some innocent thoughts, maybe you are willing to just have innocence. Gradually you have reached another stage in your life, and at this time you still retain That's still complete innocence, but you have the urge to be curious about the world. With this impulse, you have an ideal again. You live by the teachings of your family and work like mountains and seas. You burn the midnight oil and work every night in order to use your hard work to achieve a turning point in your life. Just keep moving forward like this, and before you know it, this kind of life is over. You have worked hard to get what you want, or the results are not ideal, and then you can only accept it.
When it’s time for you to enter the society and struggle, you find that your innocence has disappeared, and you are extremely reluctant to accept the maturity you once blindly imagined. You give up being young and frivolous, and you lose innocence. Maybe this is not what you want, but you must mature. Because you find that the burden on your shoulders is heavy, and your family also needs your care. At this time, you also understand that maturity is not the so-called eighteen years old, but it is knowing how to work hard to carry your thoughts on your shoulders. Maybe you really have matured at this time. At this moment, you recall the "childishness" you once did, without the slightest intention of blushing, but you still smile at your innocence and childishness. You miss that time, and remember that what you should do now is not to abandon "childishness". It’s time to put it away so that we can still remember the past and have an understanding of this journey. At this time, you will not daydream about the future, you will also long for the days you should have, and you will feel that you have to work harder. Maybe you have to give yourself whatever you think you want. Just like this, you are working hard, under a lot of pressure, and with cold eyes and insults. You may also have thought about giving up or becoming decadent. In the end, you didn't do much, because you still understood that you were no longer the age of innocence and carelessness, and you still remembered the shoulders you should carry. You want to take the initiative to hold up the sky, but you don't know that you have become mature.
Later, as time passes, you look back on the journey you took and feel happy, because you have learned to mature early. Maturity really does not need a sign, it is always approaching quietly. If it really needs a sign, it is behind the mountain of responsibility.
Innocent, ignorant and mature
The days go by, and time flies! We are growing up day by day, from babies learning to talk to those who carry small schoolbags on their backs to study. From children to teenagers entering middle school. On this beach of growth, we have left a long string of footprints, and each footprint has a story: sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, salty, innocent, ignorant, mature
Innocence< /p>
The innocence of childhood is still fresh in my memory. In the past, I loved eating sweets, but my mother always limited the amount of sweets I could eat, and she never bought me sweets. That is, my mother who loves flowers raised many flowers at home, and my favorite was the pink clivia. One day, I was eating sweets. Suddenly, I thought of a way: if I plant flowers, I will get flowers. Then if I plant sugar, I will get sugar. Then won’t I have endless sugar? So, I picked up One of my favorite candies, I chose a Feng Shui treasure for it? Next to the pink clivia. Because I thought that I would have fragrant flower candy! As a result, needless to say, my work was definitely in vain, and I almost killed the Clivia due to overwatering.
Slowly, I went to elementary school and headed towards
Ignorance
Although I was still childish when I was in school, I also understood that sugar cannot be grown. of. But being ignorant, I still made a lot of jokes. Once again, my mother’s spider plant died for no apparent reason. My mother was very sad about this. The next day, I saw a pot of spider plants in a flower shop. I was very happy and ran home happily to tell my mother. I said to my mother: Mom, the spider plant at home is not dead, it is playing on the street! Mom was dumbfounded by what I said. A few days later, my mother bought another pot of spider plant. When I saw it, I yelled: "What a spider plant, you still know how to come back! I can't forgive you if you do this again!"
Ignorant primary school Life has passed, and I have ushered in maturity again
When I was in junior high school, I lost some of the innocence and ignorance of childhood, but more Somewhat mature. Now I often help my mother grow flowers. When I have nothing to do, I will go to this pot of flowers and have a look in front of that pot of flowers. Help water this potted flower and loosen the soil for that potted flower.
My mother often smiles and says to me: My daughter has really grown up. It seems that she will also be a flower gardener in the future! Whenever this happens, a proud voice will be made in my heart: I have grown up!
Looking at those footprints, I went from naive to ignorant, from ignorant to mature, I would say: The road to growth is not smooth, there is sunshine and dark clouds; there are flat avenues and rugged mountain roads< /p>
Give up maturity
In today's society, successful people are not ordinary mature people, they are all martial arts masters with unique skills. I have always admired them for their solemnity in my heart. They have long been superstars that I admire in my values.
They are so rare that they have unknowingly become my philosophical mentors. Every day, my young heart seems to be irrigated by their mature charm. I don’t know when I have absorbed a lot of nutrients from here, making my heart strong and powerful, and the sunshine also illuminates the strong tree.
With the continuous influx of knowledge, I don’t know when the big waves gradually swallowed up my usual innocent self. I gradually escaped from the bottomless pool of naivety and felt extremely proud.
As someone who is always serious and focused in my daily life, it is inevitable that I will be looked down upon by others. Faced with endless sarcasm and ridicule, I was very worried. Is maturity good? Is it bad?
?Iron discipline, golden personality. ?This is when I was in school, faced with many problems, and while meditating, I accidentally noticed a horoscope mantra on the big sign. I have noticed that I have definitely achieved the iron discipline before, but I have almost zero personality in Jin. What has kept me stagnant is my stubborn maturity.
?The frog will always forget that he was a tadpole. ?I also realized that in fact, life is not about success if you are very talented. In the past, the innocent and young Yan did have many connections, which also shaped Jin's personality.
I reflect. The cute childishness that was submerged in the dark waves made a comeback. The dawn of life illuminates the entire torso endlessly like a vine growing.
Sometimes you need to let go of meaningless maturity. Being too persistent in pursuing perfection will eventually lead to failure. When getting along with others, you must open your heart, lower your prejudices, and sincerely consider your friends. Only in this way can you hold up a sky.
Having a happy and honest conversation is an excellent way to relax your mind and body. The same goes for sweating and competing passionately. This is the so-called golden personality.
Give up maturely! This should be done at the right time. Believe in your own actions, stick to your own ideas, test your own capabilities, coordinate everything after research, and fully develop your talents. This is maturity.
Give up half of the excess maturity, let the river of life be purified, and clearly reflect your "love" for the world. This will lead to the bright scenery, enjoy the sunshine and the beach, in this When we are in a peaceful state of mind, we will achieve something.
The maturity of giving up comes in stages.
Give up on maturity, I did the right thing! I did the right thing!
Toward maturity
Looking at the sea under the lights on the beach, sometimes the calm sea rises Golden waves. The beach that I once had seemed to have disappeared, and what was replaced by it felt very strange to me for some reason.
That night, my family and I went to the beach that we had not been to for a long time. Climbing up the stairs, I looked down at the entire beach from the fence. The changes were huge. It became cleaner, livelier, nicer, but a little unfamiliar. Following the stairs I entered the beach, but I lost the excitement I felt when I came here as a child. Walking towards the seaside on the long concrete floor, I saw the familiar scenery again, smooth and uneven cobblestones. I remember that when I was a child, I would climb up and down on them every time I came here. When I was happy, I would climb up and down on them. Let my mother take photos of me in various styles on her mobile phone.
?Sister, come on!?A loud shout broke my memory, and I saw my cousin already riding on the slippery pebbles, grinning and dancing, so happy Only he knows. At this time, I looked at my cousin and seemed to find some shadows of my past in him, but now I no longer have the same passion as before.
Leave the cobblestone and continue walking towards the seaside. ?The sea breeze carries the waves, the sea water rises and falls, and the sea surface ripples. How majestic and spectacular!? The line between sea and sky? Today I finally saw it. Although I have come here often before, I have never seen it like today. The sea is spectacular. The sea breeze became stronger again, blowing away all my worries just now.
I gradually began to understand that I was actually changing day by day. As I grow older, I am no longer so naive and gradually mature. Although I no longer have the carefree freedom I had as a child, I can experience new happiness from absorbing all kinds of knowledge. These are two different feelings with different meanings.
On the way back, I stood on the promenade and looked back at the long-lost beach. The lights on both sides of the shore still illuminated the sea brightly, shining with golden light.
My cousin ran down the bicycle path next to the stairs, and my grandma chased after me anxiously. Looking at my cousin's sweaty and innocent smile, I also smiled.
Yeah, everything is changing. The beach is becoming cleaner and more beautiful, and I am gradually moving from childishness to maturity, experiencing more pride and sense of accomplishment when I grow up!
Maturity in my eyes
Suppose you are sitting on a bus and a gangster attempts to commit murder. At this time, you must think clearly: 1. Should you bravely rush up to fight the gangster? 2. Seize the opportunity and wait for the opportunity to call the police. 3. If nothing happens, How about turning a blind eye when you see it? The first way is done by people with simple minds and well-developed limbs. Although society advocates bravery and courageous actions, society does not allow you to rush up to a duel with a gangster when you see him, not to mention that you are only a teenager. How could a 2-year-old child beat a tall gangster? His life might be in danger. The second method is the wisest one, because it fully reflects your wisdom. There is courage, and the third type is an approach that only cowards would do.
Maturity in my eyes is not determined by age, because age is only physical maturity, not psychological maturity.
In my eyes, maturity is not about being a "big brother", it is not about forming cliques, it is not about talking about "buddy loyalty" with others, and it is not about being "instrumental" for friends. Such maturity is just as ridiculous as a child playing house.
In my eyes, maturity must be proven by actions. When difficulties come, do you give up as before, or do you rush forward bravely and fight against difficulties? When setbacks come, Do you give up in despair, or do you rush forward decisively and firmly hold the throat of frustration?
Bruce Lee once said: "The so-called maturity refers to the deepest self-awareness, not the concept." of prisoners. ?, Chen Guangxian once said: ?Growth means being able to beat your father when playing chess. Maturity means that you can obviously beat your father, but let your father win. ?I believe that to show maturity, you must first show humility. The mature wheat ears lower their heads, this is the truth, because humility makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. It is the quality of humility that can make us strong and progressive, and more Go up one floor.
To show maturity, you must also show selflessness. This kind of tolerance depends on your love, courage, sense of justice, etc. With this quality, you can be ready to dedicate yourself and help others at all times.
Fill your brain with knowledge, fill your heart with courage, modify your mind with humility, and reflect your value with dedication. This is maturity in my eyes!