What are the marriage taboos in folk customs?

1. On the way to the wedding, if the car meets someone else's car, it is called "Hi Ben". Firecrackers can be set off, or the matchmakers can exchange flowers, which can resolve the ominous signs. 2. After going to bed, you'd better find a big zodiac sign, such as a boy from Laban Xiao, to sleep with you before the wedding night. Otherwise, the new bed should be for two people, regardless of gender. You can also put the clothes of the two newlyweds on the new bed and write the names and birth words of the bride and groom on red paper to represent the newlyweds sleeping in the new bed. Otherwise, as the saying goes, "trapped in an empty shop, not dying (groom), dying (bride)" is considered ominous. Peanuts wilt easily, so marriage is taboo. Even flowers and pomegranates can't help. Because the red petals of the lotus flower bloom from the heart of the leaf, its shape can mean that the daughter is married and really waits for her husband, while pomegranate means that the children and grandchildren are full. The zodiac is a tiger, so you can't enter the new house, because the tiger will hurt people, so as not to lead to disharmony or infertility between husband and wife. On the wedding day, no one can touch or sit on the new bed until the couple goes to bed at night. 6. On the wedding day, before going to bed, the bride should not lie in the new bed during the day, otherwise she will get sick repeatedly. 7. On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, the aunt can't send it, so she should avoid it. Because "Gu" and "Solitude" are homophonic, and "Sister-in-law" and "Sweep" are homophonic, which is unlucky. 8. On the wedding day, you can ask the boy who belongs to the dragon in the zodiac to jump into a new bed, which means "energetic". If there is no boy who is a dragon, you can find a boy who is a chicken in the zodiac instead. 9. On the wedding day, the newlyweds are all in the limousine, and the wedding team can't back up, otherwise it means bad luck. 10. On the wedding day, the bride's veil and wedding dress can't be worn twice, otherwise it means bad luck. So the bride should not drink too much, lest it is inconvenient to go to the toilet. 165438+ 12. Don't participate in other people's weddings, funerals and festive activities within four months of marriage, so as to avoid conflicts. 13. Don't lend or take photos of the mirror in the bride's room within four months after marriage. Therefore, the mirror in the wardrobe or dressing table of the dowry should be covered with red paper, and it can only be removed after four months. 14. On the wedding day, the bride should not (on behalf of her in-laws) (on behalf of her husband) step on the threshold of the gate. If she does this, her in-laws or husband will be punished. This article is excerpted from an article published by Yang Dengyao, an international life science professor at the prestigious Yili Consulting Group.