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There are no unhappy marriages, only unhappy couples. A pair of newly married lovers enter the palace of marriage. When conflicts occur after marriage, the usual result is to complain about the marriage itself, or even think that marriage is the tomb of love. In fact, if you want a happy marriage, the most important thing you should do is introspection.
Wang Fang and Wen Hao have been married for six years. They have a daughter and a 60-square-meter house. Wang Fang is very satisfied with her marriage to her husband. But there was one hurdle that Wang Fang couldn't get over. When she got married, her mother-in-law's family didn't buy a wedding house for them because they couldn't afford the money, so they were still paying off the mortgage!
But every time Wang Fang complained, her husband comforted her and said: "My parents' old house is very big. Two houses can be demolished. When the time comes, we will be given one. Can we rent it out or sell it?" It’s okay to switch to a bigger house.”
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The couple lived in peace for four years, and today the whole family is happy, because the demolished house finally came down today, and the sister-in-law We also found a partner and decided on a wedding date.
My sister-in-law is the kind of girl who has a weak personality and is very honest. She has never been in love and has a mole on her chin, so she has only found a boyfriend now.
My mother-in-law was so happy that her sister-in-law was getting married, so she gave her sister-in-law a generous dowry, but this brought back Wang Fang's memories.
When Wang Fang got married, her mother-in-law said that her family's conditions were not good, so she only gave her a bride price of 30,000 yuan, but she still didn't have a house. At that time, Wang Fang's relatives and friends were opposed to the marriage. Thanks to Wang Fang's mediation, Wen Hao would compensate her in the future. In the end, it even came to a point where if she didn't marry Wen Hao, she wouldn't get married.
Without any other choice, Wang Fang's parents agreed to their marriage. However, compared to the current sister-in-law, her mother-in-law managed everything as she wished, which inevitably made Wang Fang feel "lonely".
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On this day, my sister-in-law is getting married. Wang Fang specially asked for leave at work. Many relatives and friends came that day. Wang Fang and her husband were busy, and they were about to get married. During the ceremony, her mother-in-law did not allow Wang Fang to participate. Wang Fang asked her mother-in-law why? However, her mother-in-law said that Wang Fang's horoscope conflicted with her sister-in-law's horoscope, which would be bad for her marriage.
My mother-in-law has always been a superstitious person. After listening to her appeal, Wang Fang was reluctant, but she had to return home. At this time, she thought in her mind, if she doesn’t want to participate, she can’t participate. Isn’t there a video? ? If a taboo is violated, the whole family will be unhappy.
Until the next day, Wang Fang sent a big red envelope to her sister-in-law. After sending the red envelope, Wang Fang took a look at her sister-in-law’s circle of friends and happened to see a video in which her sister-in-law transformed. The makeup is really beautiful.
Wang Fang was shocked when she saw the host reciprocating the gifts and dowry given by her parents. It turned out that her mother-in-law gave the demolished house to her sister-in-law as a dowry. Only then did Wang Fang know in her heart, Why didn't her mother-in-law let her attend the wedding?
Wang Fang did not ask for leave at work, but went directly to her husband to file for divorce. After her husband explained, Wang Fang gave up.
It turned out that my sister-in-law was pregnant before she got married. The husband's family really didn't have a house. There was no other way. The mother-in-law had no choice but to take out the house that was supposed to be given to Wang Fang as a dowry, so that her sister-in-law could have a nest.
Message
I don’t quite agree with Wang Fang’s idea. It’s a sign of affection for your parents to give them to you. There’s nothing wrong with not giving them to you. Young people should learn to be self-reliant and pursue the life they want through their own hands, rather than "gnawing at the old". After all, parents have the obligation to raise you, but they do not have the obligation to support you for the rest of your life.