Author's rating: four stars
Author's recommendation: three stars
Family, love, and friendship are precious. If you want to ask what is the most beautiful and precious thing in this world, I am afraid that different people have different opinions. Life is so short and independent, and different people spend different time completing different things. As third parties, they are high or low, great or small. The meaning for everyone is probably the same, that is, the universal and only thing to do.
After watching the Japanese drama movie "Brother and Sister", in addition to feeling the cultural differences between their nations, the rest is that many relationships in the world are like The same thing, like motherly love or something like that. Regardless of the past history, what is probably the most touching thing about this film is the sister's infinite love and care for her brother. This is a sibling relationship that lasts forty or fifty years from childhood to adulthood.
The author’s narrow understanding of the culture of the Yamato nation prevents me from looking at these issues from a global perspective, not to mention that today I will only talk about the word "love".
The story line of the film is actually very simple. The main line is that a man who does not follow the right path has brought many bad effects on his sister's life because of the influence of his daily life. , thus continuously pulling and considering the relationship between the two siblings. Generally speaking, after watching the movie, it will be obvious that anyone would like to have a sister like this, but the brother is too troublesome. There are many kinds of relationships between people in this world, but the most stable ones are not the common friendships or family relationships.
Sha Wujing once quoted on the way to seek scriptures: "If you don't come to the door for three years, you won't get married." It seems that even if it is a blood relationship, it may not last forever. Deep-rooted and unbreakable. So what is the most stable relationship? The teacher had already said during class that if there is a supply and demand relationship of interest between the two, or one party is dependent on the other, then this relationship will be the strongest. I'm afraid the film's narrative probably reflects here.
Once a teacher, always a father. Once a brother and sister, always a brother and sister. My brother has been an adult for many years, but he is still as young as a child. He is not able to take care of himself, and his dependence on his sister has not diminished much. To put it another way, since the younger brother broke away from the careful care of his older sister, he embarked on an abnormal path in order to adapt to life. Their father died early, their mother is sometimes not very bright, and there are more or less conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This forced the siblings to depend on each other.
My younger brother is vulgar, rude and rude in the eyes of many people. The most surprising thing is that the elders in his family say this about him and sometimes exclude him, let alone others. There is no airtight wall in the world. I am afraid that my brother may have heard something a long time ago, and the darkness in his heart will become more and more dark, causing him to break down and give up on himself. In fact, the younger brother also has a trace of bitterness in his heart. This is probably the only reason the audience can sympathize with his younger brother. And who understands his younger brother best? She is his sister...
The younger brother is not married for various reasons. It is obvious that he does not follow the right path. He often gambles and plays, eats too much, has no savings and almost no savings. Fixed residence. Most of the money was borrowed, so the creditor later came to my sister's house to collect debts. My sister's husband passed away early, so it was not easy to open a pharmacy to take care of the lives of the two members of the family. After finally saving some money to renovate the shop, her sister ended up in the hands of her own brother. She swallowed her anger and verbally severed relations with her brother after paying off the debt.
She didn’t know in her heart that her younger brother had been a wronged child since he was a child and had never received praise from others. In order to give his younger brother confidence, he asked him to name his daughter: "Xiaochun." Yes, many people think this name is ordinary, and they can vaguely feel that the education level of the person who named it is absolutely average. My sister is not a fool. This is the name. It was given by my brother himself.
My younger brother has been a person since he was a child. Although his performance in all aspects cannot be compared with others, he is simple at heart. He can say whatever he thinks and understands that his sister is good to him. Of course, he does I also want to be good to my sister, but my behavior disappoints her again and again.
When he is embarrassed in front of everyone, it feels very fresh to others. For theatergoers, the more exciting the better, but in her eyes, this is still the younger brother from before. He has not grown up, and she is willing to believe that he has not become bad. , my sister kept coaxing herself.
After getting angry, he said that he wanted to sever the relationship between siblings, but in fact, how could it be that easy? Forgetting someone is simply harder than going to heaven. She still cared about him and paid attention to his physical condition. Blood relationship, is there any stronger relationship in the world than this? If you can't keep your adoptive father from others and abandon your brother casually, that is cruel and ruthless. She is a master. She can't do this for her sister. Her principles of life are very strong. She does not bully others, is not afraid of others, and is especially kind to the people around her. Whether they are relatives, friends, or neighbors, she can treat everyone equally and convey the love of the world. This is worthy of consideration by all viewers. and learning.
At the end of the film, the film vaguely explains the change of attitude of the younger brother. Xiaochun, a member of the family, also forgave his uncle for all the bad things he did in the past. In this case, the elder sister also invited her younger brother to come to the house for dinner. The family once again reached a happy reunion situationally, and the theme of family affection that was exaggerated was suddenly sublimated. Great love knows no bounds, and everyone in a small country is welcome. For ordinary people, this is the happiest moment.
Maybe there is really no relationship that can be unbreakable forever. It mainly depends on people. Without people, there will be no feelings, and without people, everything will come to nothing. It is exactly this: Great love has no boundaries and cannot be blocked.